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Old February 23rd, 2019, 06:44 AM   #1
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Do you think (esp. the bi people) keeping a boyfriend and a girlfriend simultaneously is immoral? I have a male sex partner right now. But that doesn't quench my desires for a female partner. That's why I don't like committed relationships. What's your opinion?
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Old February 23rd, 2019, 06:49 AM   #2
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Well, there are so called open relationships. If all parts are cool with it, I don't see the problem. If one is going behind the other's back, there's definitely a problem.

I see myself as a diplomat. Got a problem with that, asshole? Huh??
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Old February 23rd, 2019, 06:54 AM   #3
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Well, there are so called open relationships. If all parts are cool with it, I don't see the problem. If one is going behind the other's back, there's definitely a problem.
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Old February 23rd, 2019, 06:56 AM   #4
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Well, there are so called open relationships. If all parts are cool with it, I don't see the problem. If one is going behind the other's back, there's definitely a problem.
I don't think girls will usually allow their boyfriend to hook up with another guy, at least not the girls i have met yet.But I don't want to be dishonest
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Old February 23rd, 2019, 07:00 AM   #5
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I don't think girls will usually allow their boyfriend to hook up with another guy, at least not the girls i have met yet.But I don't want to be dishonest
It's probably easier said than done to find people who are willing to participate in an open relationship, but that's the way to go if you want it, maybe search a bit online for someone who's into it, and lives near you.

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Old March 3rd, 2019, 08:30 AM   #6
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It depends on your moral standards. My boyfriend and I have an open relationship... and he also knews I'm bi and having fun with my bestie, especial during the week when he is not around. He doesn't mind and I wouldn't suppress my bi feelings for anyone!

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Old March 3rd, 2019, 11:59 AM   #7
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I would not have a girlfriend and
boyfriend at the same time. Its
unfair to them both. I consider
myself Bi but have had girlfriends
no boyfriends as of yet. The first
girl I dated had a girlfriend and
she asked me if I was ok with it
and I said Yes but she didn't know
that I was leaning also toward liking
someone of my own sex. I guess I
said Yes out of guilt that I had the
same feelings. We parted but it was
not over the girl/girl thing. I think if
u have a serious relationship with
either sex u should not then take on
another cause it seems just not right
to in a sense betray them. Now if the
two come to the conclusion that it is
Ok to have another partner then so b
it. Its up to the couple.
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Old March 5th, 2019, 07:43 AM   #8
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If it’s an open relationship then I don’t see anything wrong with it, it’s not something I would do though
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Old March 5th, 2019, 10:33 PM   #9
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Well, there are so called open relationships. If all parts are cool with it, I don't see the problem. If one is going behind the other's back, there's definitely a problem.
I agree. I wouldnít be personally secure in an open relationship, but thatís me.

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Old March 6th, 2019, 01:40 AM   #10
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It kind of bums me out because it furthers the stereotype that bisexuals are more likely to be polyamorous or unable to be satisfied unless they're with both genders, but open relationships can happen with anybody of any sexuality.

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Old March 6th, 2019, 08:46 AM   #11
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If everyone likes it, an open relationship is ok. But having an open relationship has nothing to do with being bi.
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Old March 6th, 2019, 09:24 AM   #12
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I agree. I wouldnít be personally secure in an open relationship, but thatís me.
Yeah it's not for me either. I'd be in constant fear of not paying attention to both equally.

I see myself as a diplomat. Got a problem with that, asshole? Huh??
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Old March 6th, 2019, 01:15 PM   #13
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inmoral? no, a jackass? totally

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Old March 9th, 2019, 12:44 PM   #14
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If I can add a little bit of humor into this this discussion, being bisexual definitely has its advantages. It can double your chances getting a date for Friday or Saturday night.

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If everyone involved is okay with the open relationship, then it’s fine. If the situation ever changes then all parties should be involved.

I could never do it, personally, even if people just assume I’m into polyamory because I’m pansexual - I like having one special person and it being exclusive from both sides.
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Old March 9th, 2019, 06:50 PM   #16
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If everyone involved is okay with the open relationship, then itís fine. If the situation ever changes then all parties should be involved.

I could never do it, personally, even if people just assume Iím into polyamory because Iím pansexual - I like having one special person and it being exclusive from both sides.
Why do people asume a open relationship is polyamorous? it isn't. its a relationship wherein you can sleep with other people on a casuaol basis. NOT take up a second partner

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Old March 10th, 2019, 01:58 AM   #17
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I used to think I was poly, but boy was that a big mistake (No judgment to people who are. At all. You do you boo)

I don't see anything wrong with it as long as all parties are informed and ok with it


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Old March 10th, 2019, 02:17 AM   #18
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Why do people asume a open relationship is polyamorous? it isn't. its a relationship wherein you can sleep with other people on a casuaol basis. NOT take up a second partner
okay, I must have been confused there - i thought the two were similar as polyamory does not have to be committed either - but thanks for clearing it up
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Old March 10th, 2019, 08:51 AM   #19
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I agree too that if everybody knows about it then it's ok but if one partner doesn't know about the other then that's most likely going to be a problem. I think what you need or want is an open relationship.
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Old March 10th, 2019, 10:13 AM   #20
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If all involved parties are okay with the arrangement, no problem.
But like with any relationship, you need to put energy, time and effort into keeping the arrangement healthy. If one of the parties gets jealous or unhappy, there will be problems.
And the more people are involved in the arrangement, the more likely you'll have these issues. Even if you yourself think it's working, you will have to make sure that the others think so too.
Being in a healthy relationship is hard work.

And I agree that it doesn't matter what gender the participants are.

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