Virtual Teen Forums
 

Go Back   Virtual Teen Forums > >
Register Blogs FAQ Calendar Mark Forums Read Chat Room

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old February 19th, 2019, 02:38 PM   #1
Nnoki
Member++
 
Join Date: August 10, 2017
Location: Mexico
Age: 19
Gender: Male
Default Surviving a distant relationship

Sorry if this is long
So, I fell in love, It was very spontaneous and caught me out of nowhere.
There's this guy, who I've known since I'm like 7, we weren't close friends back then, we met again on 7th grade, just on different classrooms so not a lot of contact, then on 9th grade we were on the same group and we've been on the same classroom since.
November from last year he told us on the middle of a class that he's Bisexual, everyone took it kinda well, kinda bad, just odd. For the record, I've known I'm a bisexual since I'm 13, and I'm still on the closet (Just told some really close friends).
Then, on December I told him that I was a Bisexual too, we then became really close and started hanging out more often, we started getting more personal and affectionate and yesterday I asked him if he wanted to be my boyfriend, he said yes.
Now, I made a mistake.
Since I was in 6th grade there's this school I wanted to attend, that is pretty great. Couldn't get in on 7th grade, couldn't get in on 10th grade and now I'm applying there for college, there's a campus where I live but I'll have to move in a year and a half if I get accepted, and it looks like I will be (I got pretty good grades and social service). If I switch campus, it'll be on a city that's a 5 hour drive so not that far but not that close either.
I just want to know if you guys think there's a chance we could work on a distant relationship, and any advice on how to make it.
Or if I should drop that school and do College on my city just to stay with him.
Or what should I do?

19 | College student | Mexico | Gay (maybe bi) | Looking for friends | Open to talk about anything

Message me and we can talk
Nnoki is offline   Reply With Quote
Old February 19th, 2019, 04:20 PM   #2
ska8er
Legendary Member
 
ska8er's Forum Picture
 
Name: Andy
Join Date: August 23, 2013
Location: Pennsylvania USA
Age: 19
Gender: Male
Default Re: Surviving a distant relationship

I would not give up going to college on
the basis of a relationship but anything
can happen from now til then. If the two
of u r very close u can bring up to him
about the arrangements of u going to
college and being with him and how he
feels about it. Ask him what he thinks.
U will get an idea of where the two of u
stand in regards of a relationship.
Likes: (1)
ska8er is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 12:59 PM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright©2000 - 2020
Search Engine Optimisation provided by DragonByte SEO (Lite) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2020 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
Copyright 2004 - 2020, VirtualTeen.org