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Old February 18th, 2019, 09:26 PM   #1
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I am sure this has asked a million times on here but rather than dig I’ll just ask again. Have any straight girly here had serious crushes on a female friend? I have this one friend that I am constantly glimpsing at in school, even in the locker room when she’s changing or showering. It’s like more than the normal teenage curiosity but less than wanting a sexual relationship. Like maybe I want something sexual to happen? Idk. All I know is hope she hasn’t noticed my lingering stares

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Old February 18th, 2019, 10:02 PM   #2
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Yeah that’s me at the moment except we acted on it

Sounds like you need a sleepover with her
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Old February 19th, 2019, 06:54 AM   #3
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It happened a few years ago. We kissed a bit, but it stopped there. I think it's kinda common.

I see myself as a diplomat. Got a problem with that, asshole? Huh??
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Old February 19th, 2019, 07:26 AM   #4
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It's normal! I think most girls go through a phase where they feel a little excited seeing a friend naked. It could be that you like to compare with her, or it could be that you just find her attractive.
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Old February 19th, 2019, 07:26 AM   #5
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It happened to me I was interested in boys when I was younger then I had the "sleep-over" with my 2 Freind's now I have little interest in boys (but it still there)but huge interest in girls and still sleep overs with my 2 Freind's lol
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Old February 19th, 2019, 09:15 PM   #6
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It happened to me I was interested in boys when I was younger then I had the "sleep-over" with my 2 Freind's now I have little interest in boys (but it still there)but huge interest in girls and still sleep overs with my 2 Freind's lol
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Old February 19th, 2019, 10:09 PM   #7
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Sounds like you need a sleepover with her
Solid advice.
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Old February 19th, 2019, 11:25 PM   #8
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Yeah thats me at the moment except we acted on it

Sounds like you need a sleepover with her


The thing is I dont know if shed want to even do anything and I am not sure I could stop myself from trying something if we had a sleepover. How did you approach it?
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Old February 20th, 2019, 01:59 AM   #9
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The thing is I dont know if shed want to even do anything and I am not sure I could stop myself from trying something if we had a sleepover. How did you approach it?
We were talking about kissing during a movie with Chloe Grace Moretz called The miseducation of Cameron Post where she gets caught getting on with her girl bestie and gets shipped off to a pray the gay away camp and we both agreed wed kiss her too (amazing lips) and started talking about how it would feel and then next thing I knew she was kissing me
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We were talking about kissing during a movie with Chloe Grace Moretz called The miseducation of Cameron Post where she gets caught getting on with her girl bestie and gets shipped off to a pray the gay away camp and we both agreed wed kiss her too (amazing lips) and started talking about how it would feel and then next thing I knew she was kissing me
Quite understandable. Chloe does indeed have kissable lips.

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Old February 20th, 2019, 06:07 AM   #11
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That's what happened me too and that's how I came to my girlfriend.
ask her if she would like to meet you for an ice cream or a hot chocolate.
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Old February 20th, 2019, 07:36 AM   #12
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Yes so much fun is right best part is none of the rents know any wiser 🙃
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Old February 20th, 2019, 07:56 AM   #13
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Yeah thats me at the moment except we acted on it

Sounds like you need a sleepover with her

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It happened a few years ago. We kissed a bit, but it stopped there. I think it's kinda common.
Both.. I had this two years ago. My friend and I got a bit close then both stopped due to being shy and feeling somewhat embarrassed I think.

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Old February 20th, 2019, 08:20 AM   #14
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I regularly fool around with my friends. They're all cute so to me, it's hard not to be attracted to them. That being said, I don't have a desire to date them but love hooking up for fun.
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Old February 20th, 2019, 08:29 AM   #15
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The thing is I dont know if shed want to even do anything and I am not sure I could stop myself from trying something if we had a sleepover. How did you approach it?
You could also just casually walk around in your underwear and tell her you sleep like that and see if she joins and go from there. If it goes well in the morning you could say you both should shower, but you have to be somewhere soon so invite her to shower with you. Then "accidentally" brush against her boobs in the shower or something
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Both.. I had this two years ago. My friend and I got a bit close then both stopped due to being shy and feeling somewhat embarrassed I think.
That's too bad, but understandable as well, since it's all new.

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Old February 20th, 2019, 11:00 AM   #17
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Friend crushes are normal, and there's nothing wrong with being attracted to other girls. I agree that sleepovers are an excellent opportunity to test the waters in a safe setting where no one else ever needs to know. Some experimentation is a healthy part of growing up and determining what your own sexuality actually is.

Even perfectly straight girls should have no issues with cuddling, hugging and kissing their close friends or showering together, and it never needs to go any further than that unless both of you are curious and want to try other things.
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Old February 20th, 2019, 12:28 PM   #18
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We were talking about kissing during a movie with Chloe Grace Moretz called The miseducation of Cameron Post where she gets caught getting on with her girl bestie and gets shipped off to a pray the gay away camp and we both agreed wed kiss her too (amazing lips) and started talking about how it would feel and then next thing I knew she was kissing me

Chloe has the best lips and omg is she pretty. I loved that movie. No wonder it got you two kissing. I think I might need to watch it with my friend
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Old February 20th, 2019, 12:33 PM   #19
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You could also just casually walk around in your underwear and tell her you sleep like that and see if she joins and go from there. If it goes well in the morning you could say you both should shower, but you have to be somewhere soon so invite her to shower with you. Then "accidentally" brush against her boobs in the shower or something

I like that idea and thank you for it. The problem is we’ve seen each other naked a lot before, so seeing each other in underwear or even naked is probably no big thing to her anymore. Then again it could be different if it’s just us and the right setting.
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Old February 20th, 2019, 07:02 PM   #20
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You could also just casually walk around in your underwear and tell her you sleep like that and see if she joins and go from there. If it goes well in the morning you could say you both should shower, but you have to be somewhere soon so invite her to shower with you. Then "accidentally" brush against her boobs in the shower or something

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