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Old July 4th, 2020, 04:10 PM   #21
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If you have/had a bf/gf that heavily prioritizes his friends over you, ditches dates so he can be with his friends and heavily prefers the company of others, you break up with him. He's not respecting you and clearly not interested in making the relationship work.
Just about all of my friends have been in a relationship and I would disagree with your statement that its popular among teens to put friendships above relationships. I just don't see that with my friends.

Oh, and btw, I don't prioritize my friends over anyone I'm in a relationship with. If anything I've been accused by my friends of the exact opposite.

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Old July 4th, 2020, 04:19 PM   #22
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If you have/had a bf/gf that heavily prioritizes his friends over you, ditches dates so he can be with his friends and heavily prefers the company of others, you break up with him. He's not respecting you and clearly not interested in making the relationship work.
Just about all of my friends have been in a relationship and I would disagree with your statement that its popular among teens to put friendships above relationships. I just don't see that with my friends.
Thank you, this was exactly what I was talking about
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Old July 4th, 2020, 11:51 PM   #23
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Old July 5th, 2020, 06:18 AM   #24
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I think it’s important to spend time with both, like not spending too much time with your partner and not enough time with friends

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Old July 5th, 2020, 10:08 AM   #25
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I am asking because it seems very popular among teens to find their friendships MUCH more important than their relationships. And I must admit I just wouldn't feel comfortable in a relationship where my boyfriend HEAVILY prioritises his friends over me. Even worse if he had the mindset that he can ditch dates with me whenever he wants but never meetings with his friends. Also, I don't understand the point of the relationship if the other person heavily prefers the company of others, to the point of finding them more important and finding being with them heavily more than with you

Also note how I use the word "heavily" a lot. It's because I want to avoid miaunderstandings where people think I expect the boy to put me above everything else
For what it's worth, I agree 100% with you.
If your boyfriend is favoring his friends over you, that means you dont mean to him as much as you should

I get it it's not always easy to spare time between friends and boyfriends, but you 2 have to find the right balance between the 2

Have you talked together about it ?
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Old July 5th, 2020, 01:36 PM   #26
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I dont think you should be made to choose. If someone make you choose then they just dont accept you for who you are.
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