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Old May 9th, 2020, 02:47 AM   #81
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Personally I canít relate to those horrible experiences myself. Itís sad reading what happened to some people. I can imagine itís probably hard turning in someone whoís a brother of your friend or your parents know each other etc. But you gotta do it if youíre treated like that. Same for boys and girls. No one have a right to force you into sex.
Totally with you on that
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Old May 9th, 2020, 06:42 PM   #82
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Personally I canít relate to those horrible experiences myself. Itís sad reading what happened to some people. I can imagine itís probably hard turning in someone whoís a brother of your friend or your parents know each other etc. But you gotta do it if youíre treated like that. Same for boys and girls. No one have a right to force you into sex.
Congratulations on being the first girl to acknowledge there are male victims as well (sammi's post doesn't count as 'she' turned out to be a fake).

See my comments above about this issue.
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Old May 9th, 2020, 08:20 PM   #83
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Congratulations on being the first girl to acknowledge there are male victims as well (sammi's post doesn't count as 'she' turned out to be a fake).

See my comments above about this issue.
Iím surprised no one said that.
Of course both boys and girls can be victims.
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Old May 9th, 2020, 10:44 PM   #84
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Iím surprised no one said that.
Of course both boys and girls can be victims.
Definitely and boys are far less likely to report it, so any who do share about it are really brave
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Old May 25th, 2020, 06:39 PM   #85
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I was sexually harassed and assaulted by my best friend. We were at a camp and we were making out and when I said stop he didn't listen. it was heartbreaking and traumatic. I quickly broke my self esteem and started to make bad decisions. I ended up dating the same boy and he abused me again and again but I didn't leave. finally I broke things off, and we remain on not speaking terms.
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Old May 26th, 2020, 05:57 PM   #86
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I was sexually harassed and assaulted by my best friend. We were at a camp and we were making out and when I said stop he didn't listen. it was heartbreaking and traumatic. I quickly broke my self esteem and started to make bad decisions. I ended up dating the same boy and he abused me again and again but I didn't leave. finally I broke things off, and we remain on not speaking terms.
Good for you for breaking things off and keeping him out of your life.

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Old May 28th, 2020, 04:00 AM   #87
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Yes I have.
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Old May 30th, 2020, 07:27 AM   #88
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I have had been molested , at the time I didnít know what it was , but now I do . Iíve moved on from it and know better now.
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Old June 3rd, 2020, 07:27 PM   #89
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I guess you could say I was molested. It was one of my exes who was trying to progress things faster than I wanted. I was still young and "innocent" at the time. Needless to say, that relationship didn't last.
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Old June 5th, 2020, 04:12 PM   #90
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I guess you could say I was molested. It was one of my exes who was trying to progress things faster than I wanted. I was still young and "innocent" at the time. Needless to say, that relationship didn't last.
I'm sorry to hear that.
It can be just as harmful when it happens to a guy than when it happens to a girl.
Be glad she's your ex.
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Old June 6th, 2020, 08:10 AM   #91
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Well idont have got raped but i get alot of touch in my butt when i go out wit hfreinds an didn know its an act of molesting or abuse ... i thought it was a silly move from the boys . And for the girls who comforted theri raper i slaute you and yo udeserve a metal. One thing i want to say is that life is hard and there wil be always hard times i n our life ( death...accidents break ups ) and the only thing for us to do is to stand up and coninue our lifes and learn from our mistakes
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Old June 26th, 2020, 09:05 PM   #92
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I don't like to use that word, but I have been touched in less than appropriate ways when I did not want to be touched by people who should not have wanted to touch me.

No frills, no thrills, no fuss.
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Old June 27th, 2020, 09:23 AM   #93
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to keep it short was groped and humped on by a "friend" in middle school in class and then was teased for it for a while and at the time I was questioning my sexuality so that was a lil weird for me it still bothers me and the thought makes me a bit sick but I don't think it left a huge wound hopefully
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Old July 1st, 2020, 08:50 AM   #94
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I've had body parts groped a few times, which resulted in me hitting them and telling their friends (and in one case their parents) what they had done. No-one molests me and gets away with it.

The weird thing is that they were surprised by my strong reaction. They apparently thought it was just a bit of fun, but they really have no clue what that can do (physically, but even more so mentally) to a woman or girl. I'm strong enough to defend myself in multiple ways and I can mentally handle it, but these idiots may have done it to other women like best store for ninja who cannot defend themselves that well. And that is, for me, the biggest reason to let them know in no uncertain terms that their behaviour is completely unacceptable. Naming and shaming is very useful in most cases.
I got once by a boy from my class a pat on my butt. He immediately received a slap in his face from me
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