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Old January 14th, 2021, 03:52 AM   #21
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Cheating no, an open relationship yes as its agreed sometime its good to have a change its like you can have coke all the time but you fancy a Pepsi one day
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Old January 14th, 2021, 09:43 AM   #22
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No.
I would consider open relationship but not cheating. I think there is a difference... maybe.
I completely agree. An open relationship and cheating are 2 different things. Cheating, your SO is not aware. I'm an open relationship they are aware.
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Old January 15th, 2021, 01:37 AM   #23
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I completely agree. An open relationship and cheating are 2 different things. Cheating, your SO is not aware. I'm an open relationship they are aware.
Yes... Honesty is the key, however I don't know how I would feel about my future bf/husband just having sex with women by himself... I think I would maybe need to be there or something?

I don't really know though... maybe I wouldn't actually like it at all. I guess I need to get a bf to know

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Old January 15th, 2021, 06:12 AM   #24
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Would you allow cheating in a relationship? Why or why not?
Can you give a scenario where you would allow it?
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Never. I cant help but think that if she cheated on you once, she may do it again
The "I was drunk" is not a valid excuse

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Old January 15th, 2021, 07:10 AM   #25
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Never. I cant help but think that if she cheated on you once, she may do it again
The "I was drunk" is not a valid excuse
Yes. Ok, I agree "I was drunk" "It was a mistake" "It wasn't me" these aren't excuses. This is bs. You fucked up and can't admit it. The thing I value more than loyalty is honesty. So if you cheat atleast tell me the truth. When you tell me the truth. I then know this relationship is salvageable. Granted we won't be dating, but I'm not giving up on it. Show me you changed and just maybe we will get back together.(ADHD took oversorry)

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Old January 15th, 2021, 10:16 AM   #26
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Yes... Honesty is the key, however I don't know how I would feel about my future bf/husband just having sex with women by himself... I think I would maybe need to be there or something?

I don't really know though... maybe I wouldn't actually like it at all. I guess I need to get a bf to know
Right! I don't know if I would or wouldn't like an open. Honesty is the key in all relationships. I know right now I am a one guy kinda girl.
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Well, cheating I'm not so sure I'd let slide (and I'm one of those who does understand that there can be a difference between cheating and having an open relationship). I mean, if my boyfriend were to ever find me so boring from a boyfriend point of view that someone else he knows becomes more appealing, I hope he'd say so, so that at least we could end things on as good of terms as possible (and I imagine that he'd feel the same way as well about me). I hope that he'd never feel that he'd have to go behind my back on anything.
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Old Yesterday, 03:32 AM   #28
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So for everyone who answered. "Second chances is not a thing when cheating is involved" Agree or Disagree?
I'd disagree because if they upfront and honest and swear to never do anything like it again i would give them a second chance, although it would take a while to 100% trust them again. If they did not apologize/gave a bs response i would not give them another chance

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Nope. If I was in an open relationship and my partner and I were super transparent about it, then I wouldn't consider it cheating.
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Kinda depends how how cheating is defined by a couple. Mostly its having sex with someone else and the other person doesn't know about it.

I recently met a couple that has sex fwb. They each have a 2-3 people they have sex with fwb. He has a friend that comes into town from time to time, and they hook up. Same with her, she hooks up with a couple of other guys from time to time, and one of them is a former bf. She told me she still likes her former bf, but doesn't want to be in a relationship with him. She said one reason was he was major slob, never threw anything out and there was no way she could ever live like that....lol.
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