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Old December 2nd, 2019, 11:20 AM   #181
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Some of us feel that a quick spanking is preferable to a long grounding.
A genuine question for those who have been spanked.

I have been beaten badly and other stuff which was definitely abuse. I am not saying it must always be abuse as i have a friend who was smacked and spanked a few times when he was younger and his family really seems loving and nice.....still dont get it though.
I really cant ever imagine hitting any kids i have though.

I get that it can be quick and over and done with and maybe its accepted out of respect that its your family way of doing it but....

At teenage stage it has to be done hard if its going to affect you and how do you feel about your parents wanting to hurt you?
O.k you might accept it but will you still use it for your kids?
Don't want this to get weird or argumentative but interested in any answers.
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Old January 13th, 2020, 10:23 AM   #182
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Hope everyone has been spanking free in 2020 so far
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Old January 13th, 2020, 06:21 PM   #183
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A genuine question for those who have been spanked.

I have been beaten badly and other stuff which was definitely abuse. I am not saying it must always be abuse as i have a friend who was smacked and spanked a few times when he was younger and his family really seems loving and nice.....still dont get it though.
I really cant ever imagine hitting any kids i have though.

I get that it can be quick and over and done with and maybe its accepted out of respect that its your family way of doing it but....

At teenage stage it has to be done hard if its going to affect you and how do you feel about your parents wanting to hurt you?
O.k you might accept it but will you still use it for your kids?
Don't want this to get weird or argumentative but interested in any answers.
I have never taken it as my parents wanting to hurt me, I have always accepted it as their method of punishment. I seriously doubt they have ever wanted to hurt me just for the sake of hurt, they are not like that. The way I see it, when I get a spanking I'm supposed to be learning a lesson that I have failed to live up to their expectations, broken a rule or a requirement. Negative reinforcement works very well for motivation.

Fortunately I am now at a point where I don't get spanked very often any more, after my therapist figured out the reason why I was acting out and intentionally causing trouble so I would get spanked as a result. My behavior is prolly 1000% better than at any time recently.

I'm OK with them continuing to spank me in the future if they think it is deserved because I know it won't be very often.

Not being old enough to be a parent yet, I'm not positive how I would punish my own kids, but I do know they have to have rules and there has to be discipline involved. I see no reason not to spank them, and I also would not do anything excessive or cruel.
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Old January 14th, 2020, 06:38 PM   #184
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I'm not too happy about the word "still" in your question

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Old January 14th, 2020, 09:03 PM   #185
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No spankings so far this year. I hope the trend continues.
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Old January 15th, 2020, 10:25 AM   #186
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No spankings so far this year. I hope the trend continues.

Same here
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Old January 15th, 2020, 11:06 AM   #187
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Amazingly I haven't yet either this year so far, but did get one over the holiday break along with my older sis Megan, because we got into a physical altercation when she pushed me down. She got the worst of it.
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Old January 19th, 2020, 04:54 PM   #188
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Had the first spanking of the year last weekend. Mouthed off to dad
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Old January 20th, 2020, 11:46 PM   #189
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Nothing yet for me. But my younger cousin got one. I heard it and it didn't sound good. We didn't really talk about it. Hopefully I won't be getting anymore
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Old January 22nd, 2020, 12:27 PM   #190
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I'm not too happy about the word "still" in your question
To me, it seems a bit inappropriate for a teenager to be spanked. I'm not a fan of spanking in general, but as a teen, that kind of contact seems wrong. I don't want my parents touching my butt, frankly. It's one thing for a younger kid, but I'm almost an adult and I have areas that are off-limits. But I guess things are different in other families and I can't really relate.

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Old January 24th, 2020, 10:41 PM   #191
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It was my turn to get spanked last night. Not a good way to start off the year.
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Old February 4th, 2020, 02:02 AM   #192
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So I was an idiot and 1) missed curfew 2) let my phone die. My uncle told me since it was my second curfew violation I was gonna get spanked. He used the back of a hairbrush to do it, which he threatened the last time (guess he was serious). I feel fine now but in the moment it was not only humiliating but also painful. He said he was worried sick and that it was irresponsible to be late and not call. I asked him what would have happened if I called and he said I would have got spanked but not as bad.
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Old February 4th, 2020, 10:10 AM   #193
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So I was an idiot and 1) missed curfew 2) let my phone die. My uncle told me since it was my second curfew violation I was gonna get spanked. He used the back of a hairbrush to do it, which he threatened the last time (guess he was serious). I feel fine now but in the moment it was not only humiliating but also painful. He said he was worried sick and that it was irresponsible to be late and not call. I asked him what would have happened if I called and he said I would have got spanked but not as bad.
That sucks! Is that your first spanking of the year? Did he do it bare butt? Thats how my last spanking was. Two so far this year so not a good start I guess
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Old February 4th, 2020, 02:06 PM   #194
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It was my first spanking since last November
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Old February 4th, 2020, 03:24 PM   #195
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It was my first spanking since last November
Thats not bad! At least compared to my record so far
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Old February 4th, 2020, 05:12 PM   #196
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All spankings in our house are bare butt. Like a rule and not a good one.
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Old February 4th, 2020, 05:25 PM   #197
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We only get bare butt if dad is really mad or we did something really bad. We usually get to keep underwear on
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Old February 4th, 2020, 07:03 PM   #198
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I got it on underwear. Still hurts
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Old February 26th, 2020, 10:45 PM   #199
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I can't ever remember being spanked by my parents.
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Old February 27th, 2020, 11:51 PM   #200
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I can't ever remember being spanked by my parents.
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