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Old June 3rd, 2020, 12:26 AM   #1
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Okay, 1. I know that the title isn't super clear. 2. This may or may not be taken down, but I hope not because I would like to know your guys' thoughts (if it's moved, that's fine). 3. I recently watched a Game Grumps compilation that had this scene (this will explain a lot on what this post is about): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nkc_7kHUNc , and that scene got me thinking. Is "The D-Club" a "thing" that happens/ can happen/ is normal? Is it gay? Is it straight? Is it common? I've been questioning whether or not me and some friends should do something like "The D-Club" or not. I've always been a little awkward when it comes to being naked in front of guy/ guys being naked in front of me, or just having dicks be out in general. Shoot, the last time I saw a dick face to face was when I was, like, 10 and it was across the locker room, and I'm 18 now (just turned)! I also try not to look at penises when I'm looking at... "stuff." I think that if we did something like the club it might help desensitize me from that kind of stuff and let me be more comfortable. I jokingly brought it up to my friend and he said he'd totally be down, but I don't know how/ if I should bring it up to him and/or my other friends in a serious manner. The main thing about this post is to get to know your guys' thoughts and/or advise and/or experiences on all of this. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
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Old June 3rd, 2020, 12:31 AM   #2
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I think its a good idea just be open around your friends and has nothing to do with sexuality, idk if it is common because ive never heard of it till now.
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Old June 3rd, 2020, 06:02 AM   #3
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A) The video is weird lol B) I kinda had a "D Club" with friends in junior high but we all grew out of it. Had nothing to do with sexual interest was more just curiosity I think. But in general I don't think it's a big deal for straight friends to be naked around each other.
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Old June 3rd, 2020, 07:28 AM   #4
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Did the same in grades 6 to 9. Guys check each other out to see how they are developing. It is easier for girls of that age to do as you can see boobs.
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Old June 3rd, 2020, 12:29 PM   #5
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I think it's normal enough for boys to do this sort of thing. It's mostly a curiosity thing as opposed to a sexual thing. I think, though, that it usually happens at a much younger age than yours but if you and your friends agree to it, then age doesn't matter.
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Totally normal.
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Old June 3rd, 2020, 02:00 PM   #7
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I think its Great-BUT how r u going
to advertise for members? Do you have
enough friends that would be comfortable
with something like this?

There is a thing called "down low" which is
like a group of guys who r closeted have
sex with one another. It came about with
the black gay community but then there
are secret clubs where straight guys go
for sexual activity which could be that
they really r Bi looking for some action.

It is interesting and you can look it up on
Wiki. If any of you know me and what I
have posted in the past on my straight
best friend who was a Top Seed State
Wrestler in high school was my best Bud
growing up and we experimented all thru
puberty well He told me in confidence that
his wrestling team would meet after practice
for some experimenting of their own usually
because they were so hyped up on each other
they needed an outlet to let loose the tension.
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I think its Great-BUT how r u going
to advertise for members? Do you have
enough friends that would be comfortable
with something like this?

There is a thing called "down low" which is
like a group of guys who r closeted have
sex with one another. It came about with
the black gay community but then there
are secret clubs where straight guys go
for sexual activity which could be that
they really r Bi looking for some action.

It is interesting and you can look it up on
Wiki. If any of you know me and what I
have posted in the past on my straight
best friend who was a Top Seed State
Wrestler in high school was my best Bud
growing up and we experimented all thru
puberty well He told me in confidence that
his wrestling team would meet after practice
for some experimenting of their own usually
because they were so hyped up on each other
they needed an outlet to let loose the tension.
Ummmmm... I was more talking about a way of getting confterable with our own bodies in front of other guys rather than "experimenting." I understand that there isn't anything wrong with that, but I was just going for more of a "desensitizing and getting comfortable being around naked guys and being naked around guys" thing, you know, without any sexual "things" going on.
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Old June 3rd, 2020, 06:04 PM   #9
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Ummmmm... I was more talking about a way of getting confterable with our own bodies in front of other guys rather than "experimenting." I understand that there isn't anything wrong with that, but I was just going for more of a "desensitizing and getting comfortable being around naked guys and being naked around guys" thing, you know, without any sexual "things" going on.
I brought up the experimenting thing with guys in a
group as an example of having a "club".

I know what u were getting at with the D-Club thing
but how r u going to get guys to start or join such a
club? You just cant come right out and ask guys do u
want to get naked and comfortable with each other?
If u can accomplish this then let me join.
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I brought up the experimenting thing with guys in a
group as an example of having a "club".

I know what u were getting at with the D-Club thing
but how r u going to get guys to start or join such a
club? You just cant come right out and ask guys do u
want to get naked and comfortable with each other?
If u can accomplish this then let me join.
That's kind if the reason I made the post. To see if other people have done this and how they went of doing it, and also whether it's a good idea or not.
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Old June 3rd, 2020, 06:20 PM   #11
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In meddle school my friends and I never had a "D-Club", per se, but we did compare dicks occasionally.

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Old June 3rd, 2020, 06:31 PM   #12
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That's kind if the reason I made the post. To see if other people have done this and how they went of doing it, and also whether it's a good idea or not.
Like I said before-its a "Great" idea. Im sure if u get
a group of Gay and Bis together to start a Man Cave
Fraternity it would work. Straight Animal House Hijinks
fueled with alcohol produces interesting Bromances.
But really u want to lounge comfortably without any
experimenting with anyone. A group of naked guys
together r going to end up doing what-staring at each
other? Nice idea but How is it going to work?


Im adding to this cause IDK if Im getting my thought across.
i would say what u r thinking about is what 10 year olds and
guys starting early puberty have show and tell groups out of
being curious of the change in their bodies. Still IDK how u r
going to get a group together to do such a thing.

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Like I said before-its a "Great" idea. Im sure if u get
a group of Gay and Bis together to start a Man Cave
Fraternity it would work. Straight Animal House Hijinks
fueled with alcohol produces interesting Bromances.
But really u want to lounge comfortably without any
experimenting with anyone. A group of naked guys
together r going to end up doing what-staring at each
other? Nice idea but How is it going to work?


Im adding to this cause IDK if Im getting my thought across.
i would say what u r thinking about is what 10 year olds and
guys starting early puberty have show and tell groups out of
being curious of the change in their bodies. Still IDK how u r
going to get a group together to do such a thing.
I totally understand what you are saying, sometimes things can escalate. I know what I'm describing does seem a little childish, but it's not about being curious, it's about getting used to your own body exposed around others and being around others' bodies in those situations. I don't really care "how they're doing," I just want to see if I can get comfortable with it. I never really did that growing up, and I'm going into swimming next year and I don't want to be the only dick shy guy there. I just thought that since Arin was 19 when he did it (described in the video) that it might not be to late for me. But ya, if I somehow come to the decision of doing it, I have no idea on how we'd get people in. At least I know at least one of my friends is down. As for how it would work, idk; I guess it would just be like normal hanging out exept our dicks are out. We'll have to figure it out if we don it. (Also, was that "Great" sarcastic or did you actually think it would be a good idea, even at my age?)
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I totally understand what you are saying, sometimes things can escalate. I know what I'm describing does seem a little childish, but it's not about being curious, it's about getting used to your own body exposed around others and being around others' bodies in those situations. I don't really care "how they're doing," I just want to see if I can get comfortable with it. I never really did that growing up, and I'm going into swimming next year and I don't want to be the only dick shy guy there. I just thought that since Arin was 19 when he did it (described in the video) that it might not be to late for me. But ya, if I somehow come to the decision of doing it, I have no idea on how we'd get people in. At least I know at least one of my friends is down. As for how it would work, idk; I guess it would just be like normal hanging out exept our dicks are out. We'll have to figure it out if we don it. (Also, was that "Great" sarcastic or did you actually think it would be a good idea, even at my age?)
No sarcasm-I think it would be great-a little unusual to get
a group of guys who would want to do that but Yeah. Once u
get into swimming with the guys a lot of new things will happen.

I would also like to hear from others who have started something
like this and if it works out.
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I have never heard of such a thing, and I most certainly have never seen such a thing, and with all luck, it'll stay that way.
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I have always been open with friends and never been modest about being naked around others. We had some circle jerks and fooled around with friends together. I have been skinny dipping with friends for years both guys and girls since like I was 8-9 and through puberty to the present. So in my world showing each other our dicks and goofing around together has been quite normal. Most of the guys are straight too and knew that me and my BF were gay quite obviously. So I think that these type of things are fairly normal. There were always the no way in hell bunch of people too so that is normal also I guess.

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Me and my friends just play around with our dicks sometimes, all fun and stuff. I don't think about it as being an issue, but I probably wouldn't go scream it to the world. When we do sleepovers we also go nude at night when it's hot. So yea, I'd say it's normal for guys to show off or do whatever with eachother.
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On the swim team we are d-out a lot. It's pretty normal. But that's swim team.
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On the swim team we are d-out a lot. It's pretty normal. But that's swim team.
That makes sense. That's kind of one of the reasons for making this thread int the first place. I'm gonna be in a swimming class (lifeguard training and underwater sports) next year and I'm kind of nervous. Not of guys looking at mine, but more of me seeing theirs. I'm just not sure if I'll be ready.
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That makes sense. That's kind of one of the reasons for making this thread int the first place. I'm gonna be in a swimming class (lifeguard training and underwater sports) next year and I'm kind of nervous. Not of guys looking at mine, but more of me seeing theirs. I'm just not sure if I'll be ready.
I was nervous my first time. But some of the more experienced team members were used to it and after like 5 minutes I was over it. It's just like diving into a pool when the water is a little cold.

Oh yeah, it's totally normal to have a "nervous boner" your first time.
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