vanhalenftw1539
April 4th, 2011, 03:40 PM
this might not be in the right category, i had no idea where to put it. and for me this takes balls to admit so bear with me.
i was watching this movie the other day where this boy, hes supposed to be 13 but he looks about 10 or 11, is infatuated with this girl at some parts of the movie, also fairly young. the scenes that showed the infatuation either showed him looking at the girl and zoning out, or talking about how he likes her. when i watched these parts of the movie, i felt this weird feeling, kind of warm/fuzzy (i know this sounds stupid lol) and kind of sick to my stomach. they were positive feelings, but confusing. why?? is it because they were little kids and i thought it was cute? is it because i've never really felt this infatuation and i want it to happen to me?
so i have a couple questions here:
- why did i feel these things while watching the movie? (it isnt the first time)
- is it normal not to have been infatuated with someone by my age? (im 15 and straight, and ive had crushes on girls but not total infatuation/love, no feelings for guys so not gay/bi)
- is it normal to think the little boy in the movie is adorable (as well as the girl) even though im straight? it wasnt like sexual at all i just think it was really cute how much he likes the girl
this is really confusing me, help
i was watching this movie the other day where this boy, hes supposed to be 13 but he looks about 10 or 11, is infatuated with this girl at some parts of the movie, also fairly young. the scenes that showed the infatuation either showed him looking at the girl and zoning out, or talking about how he likes her. when i watched these parts of the movie, i felt this weird feeling, kind of warm/fuzzy (i know this sounds stupid lol) and kind of sick to my stomach. they were positive feelings, but confusing. why?? is it because they were little kids and i thought it was cute? is it because i've never really felt this infatuation and i want it to happen to me?
so i have a couple questions here:
- why did i feel these things while watching the movie? (it isnt the first time)
- is it normal not to have been infatuated with someone by my age? (im 15 and straight, and ive had crushes on girls but not total infatuation/love, no feelings for guys so not gay/bi)
- is it normal to think the little boy in the movie is adorable (as well as the girl) even though im straight? it wasnt like sexual at all i just think it was really cute how much he likes the girl
this is really confusing me, help