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vanhalenftw1539
April 4th, 2011, 03:40 PM
this might not be in the right category, i had no idea where to put it. and for me this takes balls to admit so bear with me.

i was watching this movie the other day where this boy, hes supposed to be 13 but he looks about 10 or 11, is infatuated with this girl at some parts of the movie, also fairly young. the scenes that showed the infatuation either showed him looking at the girl and zoning out, or talking about how he likes her. when i watched these parts of the movie, i felt this weird feeling, kind of warm/fuzzy (i know this sounds stupid lol) and kind of sick to my stomach. they were positive feelings, but confusing. why?? is it because they were little kids and i thought it was cute? is it because i've never really felt this infatuation and i want it to happen to me?

so i have a couple questions here:
- why did i feel these things while watching the movie? (it isnt the first time)
- is it normal not to have been infatuated with someone by my age? (im 15 and straight, and ive had crushes on girls but not total infatuation/love, no feelings for guys so not gay/bi)
- is it normal to think the little boy in the movie is adorable (as well as the girl) even though im straight? it wasnt like sexual at all i just think it was really cute how much he likes the girl

this is really confusing me, help

Dimitri
April 4th, 2011, 03:51 PM
- why did i feel these things while watching the movie? (it isnt the first time)

You cannot really say for sure but you could blame it on hormones like everyone else does. You might be experiencing actually feelings of infatuation.

- is it normal not to have been infatuated with someone by my age? (im 15 and straight, and ive had crushes on girls but not total infatuation/love, no feelings for guys so not gay/bi)

Of course it is normal to have feelings for someone who is not the same age you. It is just like my freshman year when I became infatuated with a senior name jamie. It happens all of the time.

- is it normal to think the little boy in the movie is adorable (as well as the girl) even though im straight? it wasnt like sexual at all i just think it was really cute how much he likes the girl

Yes, just like the little kids you see running around outside and you stop and think in your head, awwwww how cute.

vanhalenftw1539
April 4th, 2011, 04:15 PM
I think you misinterpreted one of my questions, the second one was saying that I'm 15 and I haven't experienced infatuation yet. Is that normal? Sorry for the confusion

smitty35
April 4th, 2011, 06:21 PM
Instead of answering all those question....It is nothing you should worry about. You just caught up in the moment with the cuteness of it all. No biggie. It happens to me from time to time.