**Does Penis Size Matter?**

[Daniel_]

r u kidding me im 13 and have a 9 inch dick wat????????? im black and u people r scarin me im 13 for jesus's sake 13!!!!!!!!!!! in ur faces

People like you are why I take anger management classes.

[TaylorLestrangeNee]

r u kidding me im 13 and have a 9 inch dick wat????????? im black and u people r scarin me im 13 for jesus's sake 13!!!!!!!!!!! in ur faces

That's really not attractive at all.

[Love.Hate]

it doesnt matter what the size is as long as its not too big :)

[TaylorLestrangeNee]

People like you are why I take anger management classes.

I agree.

[boopa]

its how you use it

[Cudder]

I think size doesn't matter

[Curtis E]

yes it does haha

[Joshuaharris]

i think it kinda matters cause a girl might be mroe attracted to you at first if you have a bigger bulge but i dont think it really makes a difference.

[Wings of Despair]

Lol,i all ready like this site :D.It`s not really about the size,if you can use it the right way and its not to small to really notice it well then you are good to go.

[poindexter]

i agree size shouldn't matter just be glad you are getting some.

[ShaneK]

In my experience, if you pay attention to your lover size doesnt matter (im 7.5 inches).

Love making is all about quality not quantity.

Take the time to find out what you both like

[beachbumchick]

Like a lot of others have said, you can compensate for a smaller size by using it well and being more willing to do oral and such :)

[Iceman]

I don't think so its how you use it :P

[Bmatlman]

i dont think its how big it is. if you use what little you hve who knows what might happen.

[The Dark Lord]

let's be honest, penis size does matter. If it didn't then there wouldn't a thread asking a question in the 1st place

[Cudder]

Don't matter

[richboypoor]

It seems to matter to all my friends who laugh at my tiny stupid thing!

[SimplyTom]

size doesnt matter one bit

[ShaneK]

Ok I will repeat myself. Take the time to get to know what your partners likes and get to know their body.

[nickisadinosaur]

"It's not size that matters, it's what you do with it."

...on a more serrious note. I think it matters more like, between guys. Like haveing the biggest penis in the world (or out of you're friends) is supposed to make you better than everyone else. Never really understood other guys, hah.

For me, it is what it is, take it or leave it. All of us have one, and no matter who you are, theres someone out there that thinks you're perfect. It shouldnt be such a big deal. [:

[ROFLOL123]

i say that it doesnt have to be necissarily big but not to small but enough to pleasure her but not too big to hurt her. and plus to jjaymonster guaranteed that ur penis isnt even that big, ur probley just saying that to impress people.

[Weeping]

Well I've only had sex with one person. My boyfriend.
But in my opinion, penis size doesn't matter.
Cause sex shouldn't be about size, it should be about feelings.
That's what really matters.

[Matt Jacks]

it is not something you should worry to death over


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[richboy]

for some girl n guy penis size does matter

[Punannannan]

It's not the size, but the way you use your penis.
Lot's of girls say they prefer an average penis than a big 1

[Colloquialism]

I think that, purely in terms of physical enjoyment, girth would matter more than length as dicks go. Most of the nerve endings in the vagina are in the first two-three inches, and a penis that's too long (read, more than six inches for the average teen) would be really uncomfortable, as it would hit the cervix - not a pleasant experience, despite how most porn would have it. But so long as the guy isn't too large to penetrate, it really wouldn't matter if he had a small penis.

In terms of appearance, I think an average-sized penis tends to be more attractive ("beautiful" is the word I want to use here, but I guess that'd be kind of odd) than an inordinately small or large one - but it all depends on the penis in question. I find some more attractive than others, as I'm sure people who are attracted to breasts find some breasts more attractive than others.

And in terms of sex as a whole... well, a penis isn't really necessary to sex, is it? Female-female couples get on just fine. I'll admit that penetrative sex feels more close to me than other kinds, but no more close than just being held while I go to sleep. :) So really, penis size probably matters more to the person who has one.

[Just _1_ Look]

I don't think it does? lol

[RobbieK1]

I hope it doesn't that just says that any girl(or guy) should really check what's inside of them

[kixxfan46]

it really doesnt matter guys. and for the younger ones here, i understand because i used to think so too. but really think about. girls arent like caves. so any size will do fine. in fact to big and it might hurt. and if a girls get u down to that level, she wont turn back on what she wantd to do just because of ur size

[Nathan_B]

Size has never really mattered to me. Like others have said, Sex is about Love and feeling and the passion of it. Not just pleasure

[austin callahan]

i dont think it matter at all really...maybe some people have their opinions and care but it shouldnt really matter unless u want to make a big deal about it

[sky anna]

To me, it does matter. If someone is over like 9 inches, that's too big for me. As for too small, there is such a thing, but it doesn't matter as long as you know how to work it. l0l.

[Kitten]

But in my opinion, penis size doesn't matter.
Cause sex shouldn't be about size, it should be about feelings.
That's what really matters.

Completely agree with that (:
But there is such thing as too big, for me anyway. :P

[Charleigh]

Its the size of the heart that matters!

[jet7up]

The girth matters -;)

[Rodeo]

I don't think it should matter - its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean

[ifnf9we]

I'm weird :P I like the smaller ones

[Orpheus]

I dont know because I am not gay or female although that haveing a large rod does make you feel powerful.

Agree. I think size DOES matter, but mostly for the guy.

[cheergurl]

the lil ones r cute lol. i think id be more likely to wanna suck it if its not huge lol. but nyways it really doesnt matter as long as the guy is nice and willing to do whatever it takes to get u there :)

[jessbillings]

To be perfectly honest, penis size matters when having sex. A lot.
Although, really, if you can use it, I'm sure having a medium-sized penis would be fine.

[Andymoto377]

I think it depens on the girl I have only slept with 2 girls but the secound I didn't even use all my penis I used about 6in of it. Its all how u use it and where her spots are

[Welcome_all_ladies]

From what I know penetration doesn't majorly stimulate girls. It's more of a male vanity/power thing

I have a question for the guys; does breast size matter? What is considered 'large' I'm slightly insecure myself ._.

Well to me breast size doesnt matter unless you breasts are bigger than dolly partons big breasts just don't do it for me. Idk is that weird

[chris4827]

while me not having a huge penis is kinda of downer for my ego overall it doesnt matter to me. im not a the point where im ready for sex and even when i get to that point i still dont think it would matter since its not about the size of ur junk, its about chemistry and wether or not ur a good lover

[DanielJoe]

jess guy stole the words out my mouth

[troubledteen]

Exactly, I hear you need a 3" to penetrate. Which im sure most teenagers have exceeded (maybe not the asians >.< Lol im jk :D)
So yea, what do you girls concider small? Inch wise

i am a asian and 14 but i have a 5.8 inch so no discrimination to asian thk you @[email protected]

[solosarah]

I'm now going to go with, the thicker the better as in a naglight feels better then a sharpy

[Aeroflux17]

Sex is not for PLEASURE ( if you are Pervert then it is,.) But Its how you show your love towards the opposite sex :) Kick me if im wrong.

[Fact]

Sex is not for PLEASURE ( if you are Pervert then it is,.) But Its how you show your love towards the opposite sex :) Kick me if im wrong.

It's primarily for reproduction.

You've been kicked.

[MattVon]

Size matters, but people brag so much about how big it is.
"Awesome, you have a 12" dick, but what's your girth, oh only 1"? Nice pencil dick."

I think girth is important as well, but each and every female is different and they will comment on this differently but size does matter, just depends how you look at it really.

[Rayquaza]

i think not

[swisss21]

no size doesnt matter

size of 3 inch is sufficient to please a woman. so anything more than that will be as a bonus to female. I get scared looking at penis more than 7 inch long. i think they will kill me.


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[megaman]

dont sayyy that :(

[Bharris13]

dont sayyy that :(

ditto

[sophierocks]

kind of off topic, but im good friends with the best looking girl in my grade, and its kind of weird to hear her say, "i wish my boobs were as big as ____'s" because she has C's and the girl shes comparing to is 200 pounds but has DD's. also, the reason why a good average is about a C-D is because, even if you are skinny, and you have D's or DD's, you boobs aren't going to be shaped well and are going to weigh more and not be as "perky" as like a C. but see, thats why pornstars who have like D's-DD's have implants because it makes their boobs "perky".

Lol going back a bit but i have to disagree with this. Im only about 120 pounds and i have DD's. They are natural but are just as perky as smaller boobs and in my opinion, are shaped perfectly well. I dont know if its just excess hormones or what but at least for me, this statement is not true.

However on the issue of dick size, it depends on the girl and how deep she goes because all vagina's are different shapes and sizes, just like dicks. For every vagina, there is the "perfect penis". But as long as you know how to use your tool, most girls will be happy with what they get. I have had 4' dicks please me better than a 10' one.

[Blake14]

Not at all.

[Charlie96]

Is a 7 inch penis that has a 6 inch circumference big? I'm still a virgin and want to know if there is anyone (preferably girls) that it is too big, normal, or doesn't matter?

[stomperz]

welll i know 7" is big [to me] but the only guys that tell me there size are big becuase there proudd:P so i'm not sure

i have a 4 inches penis :confused: is that big for u?

[Octevin]

Exactly, I hear you need a 3" to penetrate. Which im sure most teenagers have exceeded (maybe not the asians >.< Lol im jk :D)
So yea, what do you girls concider small? Inch wise

you are so ignorant...how do you know asians have small penis,have you tried with some asian guys??so ,don't joke,not fun...

[JDubya93]

I don't think it matters when it all comes down to it. If it can get in your hand for you to jack off, and if it can get into a woman for sex...then you are good. I think every penis on a healthy guy can meet my specifications.

[Butman]

living near sholihull where the asker lives;
my advice as long as its more than 4inch long it dosent matter as long as its not 8inch but i actually asked some girls from my year and above and they are attracted to 6inchs but i dont think that helped,
So just ask the girls who you have to hots for what size they want. It could be girls from your area like big or small

[Coolboi]

It don't mater after reading these post

[Alice]

I don't think size matters that much. Average is 5 1/2 inches. I'm sure every guy on here says they have 7, 8 or more inches, that simply isn't true. It goes against statistical odds. Size doesn't matter unless it's super small

[wally]

i'm just looking at this to get a feel of how other people feel. so girls, size really doesnt matter that much?

[michael.95]

I voted yes as I think it does. If it was too small then it wouldn't be enjoyable for anyone else apart from yourself but then again if it's too big it can hurt the receiver but be enjoyable to yourself.

[Chillswil]

From what I know penetration doesn't majorly stimulate girls. It's more of a male vanity/power thing

I have a question for the guys; does breast size matter? What is considered 'large' I'm slightly insecure myself ._.

no breast size doesnt matter..... well not to me anyways

[active000]

How big should penis be considered?

[hugewenis]

welll i know 7" is big [to me] but the only guys that tell me there size are big becuase there proudd:P so i'm not sure

I'm 13 and mine is 7-8 inches long, is this a good thing?

[Bolton Wanderers]

I'm 13 and mine is 7-8 inches long, is this a good thing?

Depends on the context of 'good'. Some girls may find that too big during intercourse and it may cause them pain, while others will adore a penis as big as you claim...

Mine is 16cm/6.3 inches at its biggest, and I'm 14; truth

I'm voting yes, as too small and it may not give the girl pleasure, and too big can be very dangerous and cause severe pain and/or bleeding for the female. I believe the ideal penis size for sex is between 3.5-7 (posiibly a little more) inches.

[RoseyCadaver]

I'm 13 and mine is 7-8 inches long, is this a good thing?

Trolol.I highyly doubt that.

[hugewenis]

Depends on the context of 'good'. Some girls may find that too big during intercourse and it may cause them pain, while others will adore a penis as big as you claim...

Mine is 16cm/6.3 inches at its biggest, and I'm 14; truth

I'm voting yes, as too small and it may not give the girl pleasure, and too big can be very dangerous and cause severe pain and/or bleeding for the female. I believe the ideal penis size for sex is between 3.5-7 (posiibly a little more) inches.

So 7 inches would be too uncomfortable for her?

[BOSS]

It's not the size that counts. It's what you do with it. ;)

[deej810]

The general average penis size is 5 1/2 inches. A vagina can only hold about 5-6 inches of dick, until it pokes some stuff it shouldnt poke. Im like 7 inches or so, and that suits me fine, and all my past girlfriends were, how to say, "pleased." Not to say that fucking with a 2 inch dick is good or anything. If you have a penis smaller than like, 4 inches, you shouldnt be 8=o-ing yet.

Dude nahh, 7 inches is fine, as long as you dont like, stab her or anything. It'll be fine. Girls fuck guys and think its awesome when the guy has a 12in, so dont feel like you are hurting her. And maybe you should ask her if you are.

Please don't double post, there's an edit button for a reason. ~Sogeking

[adcdancer29]

No!!!!!

[nolongerhere]

as a guy! I do think that it matters to a girl whether she says so or not!

[TaNei]

MAKING LOVE IS NOT ONLY WITH THE PENIS! lol

[Emiil]

yes I do penis size matter ;D. lol I'm like the only person that said it matters. :(

[Scoob]

I'd have to say no. My last girlfriend dated a guy with a ten inch dick before me. I'm roughly 3 1/2 to 4 inches shorter than him! I've never been uncomfortable with my dick but I can honestly say that damn well scared me the first time - I thought I couldn't please her. Surprisingly though she said it was some of the best sex she ever had because I didn't rely solely on my dick to do the work. Motion of the ocean - it's damn true. Sides that, sex is a whole lot more intimate then "Wow, nice 10 incher".

[dents]

my penis is 6 inches long and about 5-5.5 inches in girth, thats about average so i voted no on does size matter

[THE COMEDIAN]

It depends on age and how u use it

[Buckhunter]

its doesn't matter how big, only if u know how to use it

[Unsolvedmind]

Size dose NOT matter just deal with either what you and or you partner have! :)

[lolepicman09]

i dont think it matters as long as you have one and you know how to use it properly

[Chris95]

Of course it does to an extent. A 1" isn't going to do anything and a 12" inch would be ridiculous. But for 99.9% of people, no.

[Emily_LOVES_MUSIC]

i thought this fi

[Emily_LOVES_MUSIC]

i thought this fit the subject and it is kinda funny. my 8th grade english teacher (im going into 9th grade)
"As you get older, like in your 30's, you dont really need to use your dick. but remember this: Ladies in the room, when you get to a specific time in your high school life, this is all that will matter to you"

i thought that this was funny
my view on this is it doesnt matter. not at all. if you love the person your having sex with, then thats all that matters.


i posted this one bc i dnt know if the first time i tried posting this went through... so if there is a double i appologize

[Hope4u]

it's just amazing how many threads there are on here about "does size matter to girls"...you know I have yet to see any from a girl asking if breast size matters...that's because we know that as long as we show them to you guys you're happy..AA or DD..you don't care.

[makememoo]

As long as you're average and you love someone I've heard it shouldn't matter.

[Andelicious]

I voted 'yes', because based on my own personal experience it has mattered significantly, and not always in a good way. If size truly didn't matter then anyone on here would be fine with having a one inch penis, which is something I seriously doubt anyone would admit. It also matters because it's possible to be too big; I've had a number of experiences where it was too painful for the girl I was with and one time we even had to stop half way through. Again, in that situation, my size certainly mattered. Is size ALL that matters? Of course not. I'd say if you're average and up (or even a little below average) you'll be fine as long as you know how to use it and read your partner's body well. But realistically, I'd have to say that ultimately size does matter.

[xDarkAngelx]

Though Im a virgin, my opinion is that it does not matter. I think that sex is about love, not only pleasure. If you dont love someone, then you dont need to be having sex with them, it only causes problems. And if you really do love someone, what matters more is the love you will share during sex, not the size of the guy's penis or anything else. If a girl cares about penis size, then she seriously needs to look over her priorities...there is so much more to worry about.

So my opinion is no, penis size is like the least important thing when it comes to having sex, or anything else for that matter.

Very good advice! Thanks.

[desti_cakes]

I don't know if you love the person does it really matter whether their penis is big or small? In my opinion your love for the person shouldn't dampen even if they have a small (or big) penis.

[Julien7]

thing is that it depends on what the size is, if your really really small or really really big they can form an obstruction to sexual activity as it might physically not be possible to penetrate. A big penis or a small penis both provide equal pleasure when reaching orgasm so that isn't a problem. Penis size is just a hype and a big penis is believed to be better under men, however if you really thing about it it doesn't matter. No one can change their size, we all grow to different sizes its not like its someones fault.

[Steve01]

idk im not a girl

[randy.boii]

as long as ur 4 inches ur good im 7.5

[crzy15]

i dont think penis size is a big deal. I think boys think about it too much. I have 2 brothers 12 & 14, and they discuss it all the time, with friend,, with eachother, ON HERE,, . IDK just be happy with what you have. You cant change it,

[Big.Mex]

All about how you use it and the way i see it if i cant pleasure a girl with my penis then i sure as hell can do it with my tounge :yummy:

[kevinjk]

if someone loves you, it doesnt matter

[Little Boy Big Toy]

my gf says it does and i wouldnt want a small one so to me yes

[PoseidonX43]

no not at all, it all counts on if you know how to use it ;)

[oscar14]

Hello everyone and it probably really does

[Dan co.]

well the majority of the time its himself whos worried about the size of his own soo u tell me?

[babychick]

Well i would say from personal experience that as far as pleasure goes size does matter, however size isnt everything. YEs too big can definately hurt and too small can be a problem getting a girl worked up. but as others have said its also how you use it. if i guy doesnt know what hes doing it doesnt matter what size he is. now that was all strictly physical speaking and sex isnt all physical. im no hopeless romantic but it does matter that you know and have feeling for that person. its about getting to know them better as well as having fun. and sex wont be very satisfying or relaxing and pleasurable if you cant connect with that person outside of the physical attraction.

[VamosToro]

I realized by reading on here tho u can't change it. If u asked "am I average?" What would u do if we said no your small and will never grow. What will u do then? Theres no use in asking am I small or does it matter.

[FuzzyLittleNightmare]

I'm still a virgin but I would say that size doesn't matter one bit. I mean, most girls I know don't watch porn or anything like that so most girls wouldn't have much idea whether you were big, small or average except for comparison with previous sexual partners.
But as other people have said, if it's someone you love then who cares how big or small, as long as its big enough to get the job done. Bigger may feel better, I don't know, but sex should be about more than that, it should be about love and a connection, and I'm pretty sure size has nothing to do with that!

[Andelicious]

But as other people have said, if it's someone you love then who cares how big or small, as long as its big enough to get the job done.

This is exactly my point haha The fact that you said it has to be big enough to get the job done (which is what a lot of people have said on this thread) makes it clear that size does matter.

[Smith98]

Yes I say it does matter but not in the sense that guys think about it. Size matters mainly if you are at the extremes of the size spectrum ie you're not average. If you are 2" that just might not cut it for sum, so your size DOES matter in this instance. Same goes for if you are 10.5" for many that is too big and painful. IMO if you're between 4-8" your size doesn't really matter cuz it's big enough but not too big for most girls. The vast majority of girls can't come by sex alone whether you're thrusting 3" or a foot. Experienced lovers know that other stuff especially oral skills play a bigger role in giving pleasure. So to sum it up size only matters if you have a Tootsie roll or a Coke bottle between ur legs...;)

[notyoursupergirl]

well it has to matter if you're going to please a girl obv

[brittanykiss]

yeah because if he's too small it really doesnt feel that good

[chriswill100]

the honest anser is no its been scinticly proven u can make a girl hav multiple orgasims with a 5.5 inch penis whitch is a average man kk the wmens brain works diffenratly it takes longer for the brain 2 know its havin sex bet wen it does it relesis a chemical could cloroseitic whitch makes the brain inhanse the mans sex performance all u hav 2 do is last long enough for that chemical 2 hav an effect i hav a gf and wen i was expermentin she allways said wen i lasted 5 mins she dident enjoy it as much but wen i took it slowly and lasted 20 mins she had multiple orgams

[Jordan1234]

Good, then i am big :) around 7.8 inches

[emmyliz11]

personally, it's a mix of both..

[pat1]

is 2 inches hard too small to please a girl cause i tried and just came really quick and she just laughed at me and told me it was too small to please anyone :(

[sarah14]

some clarifying things...im a guy but just bare with me

a big dick to a girl is probbly 7+ inches. a small dick is most likely under 4. the average size of a males penis is 5.5 inches when fully grown.

for guys, anything under a BB or C is small. large is D+...but to usually naturally achieve that, you have to be fat, and guys dont like fat girls. personally, i like a skinny girl who has C-D's.

kind of off topic, but im good friends with the best looking girl in my grade, and its kind of weird to hear her say, "i wish my boobs were as big as ____'s" because she has C's and the girl shes comparing to is 200 pounds but has DD's. also, the reason why a good average is about a C-D is because, even if you are skinny, and you have D's or DD's, you boobs aren't going to be shaped well and are going to weigh more and not be as "perky" as like a C. but see, thats why pornstars who have like D's-DD's have implants because it makes their boobs "perky".

bottom line, girls care about dick size, guys care about boob size. reason why, is because if you had a 1" penis, a girl isnt going to be sexually attracted to you. if a girl didnt even have any boobs what-so-ever, a guy wouldnt want sex from her either. personality does NOT matter when it comes to this. i do agree though that if you have a smaller penis, like 4 inches or so, that it does matter how you use it. but you need to understand that size does matter because your not going to want to have sex from someone who cant please you, and a 1" dik cant please you.

i totally agree with u about that :p ... it matters but it dosnt at the same time.. if you know what ur doing girls will wanna be with u but .. if u say u have a big dick and brag about it ... girl ull wanna slap ya .. just say ing :p hehe hope that helped ... at least a little bit

[jared.butler]

From what i read in a mag it matter on how big the girls cervix is. a small girl ith a small vagina doesnt need a big penis. but a bigger girl will since her vagina cervix is larger and have more room

[jared.butler]

i totally agree with u about that :p ... it matters but it dosnt at the same time.. if you know what ur doing girls will wanna be with u but .. if u say u have a big dick and brag about it ... girl ull wanna slap ya .. just say ing :p hehe hope that helped ... at least a little bit

i love girls with boobs around C 12 its a nice perky size

[skypride]

I honestly don't think so, if the guy knows what he's doing then great! But I don't want a micro-penis. But like most guys lie about having a 8inch+ dick, but honestly I think 5 inches is fine, and 5 inches is average.

[Mattattack]

is 2 inches hard too small to please a girl cause i tried and just came really quick and she just laughed at me and told me it was too small to please anyone :(

Hmm maybe a little small...

[Tacticalexpress]

This post has been going on since 2007 thats nearly 5 years,ive read all the posts and its clear size does matter.:yes: To be fair 4 is definately 2 small but depending on the girl and race 5 should suffice, sorry asains but i know there have been a few upset asains in here with a comment made awile back but it is a well known fact.

Asain guys have generally smaller units but only to accomodate a smaller asain females vagina, it has been proven that men are 4 to 5 in these men average where as a white caucasion is 4.8 to 6 the same as black people are generally that bit larger again but so too are their female counter parts the females have wider and more dept to their vaginas (not goin into the whole inter racial mating coz thats obvious that sizes will be conflicting):eek:but on average a white american/uk/irish womans vagina is 4 to 5 normal and when fully aroused can dilate to 7 at a push so even if you are over 9 inches chances are with the average woman you will not get the whole way in and will start to either penetrate her cervix which would be extremely painful for her or bang off the back wall of her vagina, also painful and not enjoyable for her no matter how wet she has become.

Also just to add to that you will not feel as close to each other either in anyway emotional included but your pubic bone will also not get to rub against her clitoral area also which is a very important thing for the female to feel that to reach proper orgasm.:whoops:

People that are virgins in here no disrespect intented but aside from the whole love thing and oh it shouldnt realy matter as long as you love and care for the person, you cant really comment until you have experienced it and felt a big or small penis inside of you, only then can you judge if it feels too big or painful or if the bigger penis feels good..
Most experienced girls will not be happy with under 6 to 7inches period and will complain of being unsatisfied but the general consensus is that the 7ish mark is about perfect and about 6 in circumference , its not them being shallow its that a smaller penis just does not fill them up inside and they cant feel it like they would desire to and are therefore not satisfied (and why should a girl have to settle for less and if she can experience a number of guys until she finds a guy who makes her laugh is kind and good and honest to her and has a big penis at the same time then lucky her!! Strike.... And if he has all those qualities more than likely she will fall in love with that person and be extremely happy and satisfied with him forever..) :)
However even if you are very big as long as you have stimulated your partner properly ie foreplay and clitoral stimulation the vagina should dilate to the max and if you ease in very slowly it will not really hurt any girl no matter how tight she may feel she is.:whoops:
When im with my gf i take it very very slowly and edge in bit by bit until im touching off her inner fornix but instead of just thrusting and pounding in and out with the full length of my shaft i will come back out maybe 2-3 inches max
and slowly swerve around in there deep and slow and it drives her crazy... If you are that bit bigger this is the only way you will seriously please a girl and they will love the extra big size but you got to be thick aswell as you need to fill a girl up everywhere inside not just in lenght as the inner wall is very sensitive and as someone explained earlier the g-spot is only 2-3 inches inside so an extra thick penis will stimulate that there big time and drive her crazy too....:)

As regards to females breasts on average men notice big breasts more but when it boils down to it hate them in the flesh, there usually too big to handle (more than a mouthfuls a waste kinda thing) and the nipples are usually pushed out and down in the not so attractive position, whereas smaller breasts tend to stand upright in a sweet little perky position and the nipples tend to look up at you rather than down so majority of men including me like the smaller little cupcakes, way cuter and sexier( so any of you girls thinking of boob jobs well dont give them a chance to develop into your 20s at least i will guarenteeee you they will be perfect...(pm me if you have any qs)

In conclusion to this and taking everyones comments into consideration yes when in a relationship girls are just more forgiving to the size of their partner mainly because they are emotionally involved and then dont care as much because they care for the person so much that they feel so close anyway that the experience is that bit more intense:yeah: however if the partner was that bit longer and thicker and took it slow with her the experience would be a great deal more intense, girls sometimes just settle for what they have thinking that they may never find love or happiness elsewhere but they all to often do and with a larger lover and then never look back...:)

Now dont get me wrong im not telling girls to leave the fella and look for a larger guy coz that would be shallow but for girls just playing the field and having a bit of fun nothing serious and have no intentions of getting married anytime soon but still enjoy sex, well if you do find a guy with a good size that takes things slow and doesnt just ram it in and out of you ripping you apart then he may just be a keeper as you may not get another big one thats if he is good to you and all that too and easy on the eyes. But also my point is a girl just having a bit of fun is not going to want a tiny 3 or 4 incher at any stage fullstop.

Hope this helps you all i know it was long but 5 years of posts had to be addressed and i think i covered everthing... please feel free to message me about anything girls or guys no worries!! :)

[Smith98]

This post has been going on since 2007 thats nearly 5 years,ive read all the posts and its clear size does matter.:yes: To be fair 4 is definately 2 small but depending on the girl and race 5 should suffice, sorry asains but i know there have been a few upset asains in here with a comment made awile back but it is a well known fact.

Asain guys have generally smaller units but only to accomodate a smaller asain females vagina, it has been proven that men are 4 to 5 in these men average where as a white caucasion is 4.8 to 6 the same as black people are generally that bit larger again but so too are their female counter parts the females have wider and more dept to their vaginas (not goin into the whole inter racial mating coz thats obvious that sizes will be conflicting):eek:but on average a white american/uk/irish womans vagina is 4 to 5 normal and when fully aroused can dilate to 7 at a push so even if you are over 9 inches chances are with the average woman you will not get the whole way in and will start to either penetrate her cervix which would be extremely painful for her or bang off the back wall of her vagina, also painful and not enjoyable for her no matter how wet she has become.

Also just to add to that you will not feel as close to each other either in anyway emotional included but your pubic bone will also not get to rub against her clitoral area also which is a very important thing for the female to feel that to reach proper orgasm.:whoops:

People that are virgins in here no disrespect intented but aside from the whole love thing and oh it shouldnt realy matter as long as you love and care for the person, you cant really comment until you have experienced it and felt a big or small penis inside of you, only then can you judge if it feels too big or painful or if the bigger penis feels good..
Most experienced girls will not be happy with under 6 to 7inches period and will complain of being unsatisfied but the general consensus is that the 7ish mark is about perfect and about 6 in circumference , its not them being shallow its that a smaller penis just does not fill them up inside and they cant feel it like they would desire to and are therefore not satisfied (and why should a girl have to settle for less and if she can experience a number of guys until she finds a guy who makes her laugh is kind and good and honest to her and has a big penis at the same time then lucky her!! Strike.... And if he has all those qualities more than likely she will fall in love with that person and be extremely happy and satisfied with him forever..) :)
However even if you are very big as long as you have stimulated your partner properly ie foreplay and clitoral stimulation the vagina should dilate to the max and if you ease in very slowly it will not really hurt any girl no matter how tight she may feel she is.:whoops:
When im with my gf i take it very very slowly and edge in bit by bit until im touching off her inner fornix but instead of just thrusting and pounding in and out with the full length of my shaft i will come back out maybe 2-3 inches max
and slowly swerve around in there deep and slow and it drives her crazy... If you are that bit bigger this is the only way you will seriously please a girl and they will love the extra big size but you got to be thick aswell as you need to fill a girl up everywhere inside not just in lenght as the inner wall is very sensitive and as someone explained earlier the g-spot is only 2-3 inches inside so an extra thick penis will stimulate that there big time and drive her crazy too....:)

As regards to females breasts on average men notice big breasts more but when it boils down to it hate them in the flesh, there usually too big to handle (more than a mouthfuls a waste kinda thing) and the nipples are usually pushed out and down in the not so attractive position, whereas smaller breasts tend to stand upright in a sweet little perky position and the nipples tend to look up at you rather than down so majority of men including me like the smaller little cupcakes, way cuter and sexier( so any of you girls thinking of boob jobs well dont give them a chance to develop into your 20s at least i will guarenteeee you they will be perfect...(pm me if you have any qs)

In conclusion to this and taking everyones comments into consideration yes when in a relationship girls are just more forgiving to the size of their partner mainly because they are emotionally involved and then dont care as much because they care for the person so much that they feel so close anyway that the experience is that bit more intense:yeah: however if the partner was that bit longer and thicker and took it slow with her the experience would be a great deal more intense, girls sometimes just settle for what they have thinking that they may never find love or happiness elsewhere but they all to often do and with a larger lover and then never look back...:)

Now dont get me wrong im not telling girls to leave the fella and look for a larger guy coz that would be shallow but for girls just playing the field and having a bit of fun nothing serious and have no intentions of getting married anytime soon but still enjoy sex, well if you do find a guy with a good size that takes things slow and doesnt just ram it in and out of you ripping you apart then he may just be a keeper as you may not get another big one thats if he is good to you and all that too and easy on the eyes. But also my point is a girl just having a bit of fun is not going to want a tiny 3 or 4 incher at any stage fullstop.

Hope this helps you all i know it was long but 5 years of posts had to be addressed and i think i covered everthing... please feel free to message me about anything girls or guys no worries!! :)


First of all basically everything you said is a generalization. Some girls certainly like them big but you can't say all girls need nine inches to be satisfied. Most important however is the FACT that 75 percent of women CAN NOT have an orgasm through intercourse whether he's hung like a horse or not. So for the majority of girls penis size is secondary to other skills, mainly oral. Third, if huge cocks were what most women want why do so many sex toy manufacturers make average sized dildos and vibrators, even after extensively researching what their customers want? These companies know what sells and make billions each year- I think they know what they're talking about. And if big penises are in such high demand 90 percent of the male population is screwed. If you're wondering why I'm so adamant about this it's because I don't mind sticking up for something a guy can't change. Would you not be with a girl cuz her vagina is too tight or loose or ugly or her clit is too big or small or any other flaw you could find? I sure hope not... :confused:

[Tacticalexpress]

First of all basically everything you said is a generalization. Some girls certainly like them big but you can't say all girls need nine inches to be satisfied. Most important however is the FACT that 75 percent of women CAN NOT have an orgasm through intercourse whether he's hung like a horse or not. So for the majority of girls penis size is secondary to other skills, mainly oral. Third, if huge cocks were what most women want why do so many sex toy manufacturers make average sized dildos and vibrators, even after extensively researching what their customers want? These companies know what sells and make billions each year- I think they know what they're talking about. And if big penises are in such high demand 90 percent of the male population is screwed. If you're wondering why I'm so adamant about this it's because I don't mind sticking up for something a guy can't change. Would you not be with a girl cuz her vagina is too tight or loose or ugly or her clit is too big or small or any other flaw you could find? I sure hope not...

Ok first of all its not generalization it is all factual from studies down through the years, 2nd i never said all girls want a 9inch i said 7 is indeed the general consensus of what women want again FACT and third you say u dont mind standing up for something that a guy cant change (NON FACT) A guy can increase his penis size FACT cos im living proof but thats an entire different topic, And i think you will find if you go into any sex store or online the minimum and i mean minimum dildo you can find is 6inches but standard at 7inch FACT and thats the most popular selling size again fact so get your facts straight before you try condescending on somebody who knows theirs thanks:yes:

[Smith98]

I was not trying to demean you by any means I was merely saying what I KNOW. Obviously our facts are not the same and which ones are true is hard to say. It's likely it could be a mixture of both.:) also a fact can still be a generalization I.e. Most girls like 7" while some like bigger, some smaller. By saying women prefer 7" is generalizing (essentially averaging or find the mean value) a whole population. While the majority may agree it is generalizing because there are always exceptions. Anyways I didn't mean to insult your intelligence on the topic...:)

[pimenta]

I think size doesn't matter... But the guy must know 'how to do it'. lool

[RyanKo]

As I'm still a virgin, I don't know what's girl think about it but for me I don't really care about it too much.

[Tacticalexpress]

I was not trying to demean you by any means I was merely saying what I KNOW. Obviously our facts are not the same and which ones are true is hard to say. It's likely it could be a mixture of both. also a fact can still be a generalization I.e. Most girls like 7" while some like bigger, some smaller. By saying women prefer 7" is generalizing (essentially averaging or find the mean value) a whole population. While the majority may agree it is generalizing because there are always exceptions. Anyways I didn't mean to insult your intelligence on the topic...:)

Thats ok Smith98 I appreciate your honesty its just from all my research into the subject, every survey website for males and female only ones the generalized opinion and view of 95 percent of girls is 7inches is the most enjoyable size that is not based on average but specifically on what women have said, but slightly smaller would do but they find its not as sexually satisfying as 7":)
But then again men dont walk around with a sign sayin i have a 7 incher or above the same as girls dont walk around saying under this padded support bra hides extremely small nipples rested on extremely perky and upright breasts as the other extreme, " when you remove this padded support bra my boobs will just fall down to my knees and sag horribly which can sometimes happen and fool you into thinking your getting a really good deal until you take off the bra and then disappointment sets in. Well IMO the same thing happens to girls, they see a fit guy with a great body muscles and all that and then unwraps the package and its not all that and is disappointed by the lack of muscle in that department.. Unfortunately no1 ever knows until its too late:) IMO we probly should walk around naked or with signs but definately we should have at a minimum an electronic tag to give our ages off so nobody gets into trouble and has no excuses if caught with some1 underage, i know ive strayed away from the point slightly just had to say it anyway..:)

[Cole881]

I hope not:(

[thatguy21]

girls answer only please. My penis is 10 IN and girls say it hurts alot of the time. Am I to big or do some girls like it that big?

[Smith98]

girls answer only please. My penis is 10 IN and girls say it hurts alot of the time. Am I to big or do some girls like it that big?

That's really big at least for me. Some girls may like it others won't. Depends how thick too...

[supahotfire]

yeah

[scfreeman]

i think so. it would be weird to be with somebody that had a small dick. but thats just my personal preference. but i wouldnt want a huge one either soo idkk.

[musclecharles79]

Hell yes its important all the girls I fuck love my 10.5 cock and all the guys I fuck do also. I also love fucking guys with huge cocks in their own right because the sheer size of a magnificently hige cock is the best thing in the world

[Haleyzmont]

Personaly i dont think penis size matters for pleasure itself but for some girls they want big penis for the thrill and exitment

[Yikez]

Penis size does matter, although though i am farely young i kan say that it is one of the many important faktors in sex. You kan try certain positions to make up for it, you kan also to make it up with cunnilingus and how over all you do it.

[Smith98]

Penis size does matter, although though i am farely young i kan say that it is one of the many important faktors in sex. You kan try certain positions to make up for it, you kan also to make it up with cunnilingus and how over all you do it.

For all lot of girls, oral can make up for it way more than some guys think...;)

[jessehs]

It matters, not once your in there but for someone to want to have sex with you you need at least a 5.5 inch dick for a girl (or guy) to be really turned on by you

[TheUnknown]

Well i think it doesnt matter.
>.< hahaha. Im a bit worried though, Im 14, asian and have around 5.5-6.5 in.
i dont knwo if its normal. but i guess it wont matter at all.

[bwdude15]

sometimes it might matter...sometimes it doesn't matter :)

[Smith98]

It matters, not once your in there but for someone to want to have sex with you you need at least a 5.5 inch dick for a girl (or guy) to be really turned on by you

This is complete BS...

[hugewenis]

Im 13 and my dick is 7 inch hard
(no joke) Just wondering if that is
good For my age?

[jsmith88]

im kinda worrieedd, is 11 inches big enough? seriously

[Imma_Flurt]

I wouldn't say so.. But really I guess if your in a serious relationship. Nah. It shouldn't matter but a one night stand.. is a WHOLE OTHER thing.. it might matter to your one night stand partner ir it may not. But depends on what you think really.

[SuperYachtDude666]

size doesnt matter, but the motion of the ocean does

[chickyhannah]

it does and it dosent. i mean if you cant even penetrate..........however if you love them it will be ok. personally i like 6 inches the best :)

[jake1232]

yes some people think that they are better bc theirs is bigger

[sliidz]

to me size matters to some extent but really isnt important.

[Camazot]

it really depends on the person but i think that it matters to everyone because the people that say it doesnt matter are thinking about medium to large size dicks but if one of those girls gets with a guy thats 1-2.5 in. they arent going to be telling the same story so "size doesnt matter" has a range that i percieve as 3-8.5 in. any bigger than 8.5 normally hurts too much. smaller than 3 is too small and doesnt satisfy.in between it doesnt matter...info from girls at my school

[seppe.pns]

i have a medium/large penis and im happy about i:)

[Silicate Wielder]

I think penis size matters, if whover you marry may like larger penises while other women dont. just like how some men like big boobs and others like small boobs.

im 8.1 inches which is considered massive and beyond massive at my age and yet im still growing though im only 13 which means i have to learn how to use my dick when im older , same thing goes for people with small penises

[letluvbleedred]

Im still a virgin but I dont think that it would matters. Like my friend once told be ,"Its not the size of the boat,the motion of the ocean that gets you from point A to B."

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[Benbomber]

If your having sex because you love eachother it shouldnt matter, the size will not feel different, just look.

[Mrs. Mustache]

I am a virgin, but I do NOT think it matters. Some ppl care about it though. Thats all they
look at.

[antiabort]

im 8.1 inches

No, you aren't. You aren't fooling anyone.

[Mirage]

Ive always wondered wether it mattered abou the size a guy penis so ill ask the experts

OK, I'm going to try to give a thorough answer on this one.

Yes: Because girls are attracted to larger sizes. Not ALL girls, I'm just stating a stereotype. Men seem to want larger sizes, and if you want it, it matters to you.

No: Most women don't just love you for the size, they love you for your personality. If they love you enough, they will still have kids with you.

Those are my honest opinions. Hope it helps!

[seedot115]

im 5 and a half and proud of my small thing in my pants

[Selective Justice]

im 5 and a half and proud of my small thing in my pants

I´m not under the impression that 5,5 is particularly small. I might be wrong, though?

[dinosawrbradey]

5 or 6 is average size for a fully grown adult. Most teenagers have 5 to 6 too though. Maybe its something with the genes.....

[james97perth]

my dick 7.5 niches honest its more how you use it and if you love the person you having sex with girth matters more than legnth but ive had sex many times girl in general say the bigger the better to make boys feel depresed but its love technique that matter the most

[dedwards96]

I just asked my gf and she said:
- It doesn't make any difference as long as its not tiny or massive.

[Dark Sparrow]

Of course it does who wants 10 inches shoved up what ever that just hurt

[seadove]

:)i think that it doesnt matter the size if you love your partner that chouldnt matter god made you the way you are ifyou belive in god that is.

[barton97]

In my opinion Yes and no. Yes because face it, there are girls out htere that if a mans penis is not 8+ inches they wont "love" the man. No because when it comes to love, the relationship should not be just about the sex. Sex is important but it is only like 30% of the relationship. And that is my opinion on "Does penis size matter?"

[Kronk]

Being14 I think my dick size matters cause well if your not big enough upperclassmen got that on you too, I'm happy I'm 7" cause don't seem too big but pretty good for hs girls in my experances

[ltodd98]

Ive always wondered wether it mattered abou the size a guy penis so ill ask the experts

size does kind of matter as girls do prefer a guy with a big penis. but as said , sex is about love not the size. and if a girl dumps you and says your penis is to small. then she is diluded in the world. just be glad of what you got and just go with it. :) hope this helps

[Ctj10]

I think people like me are to focused on what media has told us. You need to have a big dick blah blah blah but the real thing here is you need to forget that crap. When you meet the right person they won't care. Hard to say when I struggle with the same thing but it's the truth

[Hobnobs]

My gf is bb and her boobs are fine

[awesomebro]

From what I know penetration doesn't majorly stimulate girls. It's more of a male vanity/power thing

I have a question for the guys; does breast size matter? What is considered 'large' I'm slightly insecure myself ._.

well i don't really know the breast sizes, but for me it doesn't matter. what matters more is if a girl is interesting and nice. A girl could have really big boobs but if she is boring and mean then that is all i will notice. Some of my friends though only date girls with big boobs so i guess it varies.

[alexa951]

no way, some boys get so hung up over it because other guys are bigger, but big ones look painful to some girls so they dont have much advantage...

[Human]

as long as your dick size isn't at extremes I guess it doesn't matter
same with guys and boobs

[sharafbio]

welll i know 7" is big [to me] but the only guys that tell me there size are big becuase there proudd:P so i'm not sure

I liked your words so want to have your advice .
Am an adult soft 2" hard 4.8" not thick girth (circumfrence)4.1".is it small to please? all women I knew left me.(some told me it is small)
Can do something?

[sharafbio]

Am an adult soft 2" hard 4.8" not thick girth(circumfrence)4.1"
is it small?

[DerBear]

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