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Bluearmy
May 15th, 2009, 07:08 PM
I think that size might matter to a degree, but not totally. It's obvouse that a small one:( would be bad, but I have heard that it is just as uncomfertable with huge one ramming in all unskilled.


So my question is, HOW do I use it correctly, what tactics are there to employ?

Reality
May 15th, 2009, 07:14 PM
No.

This is coming from a guy who has a decent size already. (7in1)

There's so much more aspects to a guy than his penis size. It's the same with chicks, really. If I'm attracted to a girl, I don't care if her boobs are "small".

If my dick was any smaller, and some girl didn't like it, I wouldn't want her anyway. I don't need girls with such a shallow attitude towards me in the first place.

papercut_perfect
May 26th, 2009, 12:42 AM
some clarifying things...im a guy but just bare with me

a big dick to a girl is probbly 7+ inches. a small dick is most likely under 4. the average size of a males penis is 5.5 inches when fully grown.

for guys, anything under a BB or C is small. large is D+...but to usually naturally achieve that, you have to be fat, and guys dont like fat girls. personally, i like a skinny girl who has C-D's.

kind of off topic, but im good friends with the best looking girl in my grade, and its kind of weird to hear her say, "i wish my boobs were as big as ____'s" because she has C's and the girl shes comparing to is 200 pounds but has DD's. also, the reason why a good average is about a C-D is because, even if you are skinny, and you have D's or DD's, you boobs aren't going to be shaped well and are going to weigh more and not be as "perky" as like a C. but see, thats why pornstars who have like D's-DD's have implants because it makes their boobs "perky".

bottom line, girls care about dick size, guys care about boob size. reason why, is because if you had a 1" penis, a girl isnt going to be sexually attracted to you. if a girl didnt even have any boobs what-so-ever, a guy wouldnt want sex from her either. personality does NOT matter when it comes to this. i do agree though that if you have a smaller penis, like 4 inches or so, that it does matter how you use it. but you need to understand that size does matter because your not going to want to have sex from someone who cant please you, and a 1" dik cant please you.


If his dick was small enough that it couldn't please me then as long as he used his hands or put on a damn strap on I'm all good. Size doesn't matter.

AshleySmiles.
June 7th, 2009, 10:59 PM
No, it doesn't matter. Not to me anyway. All I care about is whether the guy is a good guy or not. If he's a douche (whether he has a big or small penis) he's out of the picture. And if he's a good guy with a good personality and all (whether he has a big or small penis) he's perfectly fine with me. I honestly don't care for larger penis'. They're great to look at and all, but seriously, sometimes they frkn hurt. Esp. if the guy expects some anal. Haha. (: So, smaller can definately be better. :D

PinkGirl
June 8th, 2009, 02:42 AM
it would be nice 2 hav a big one inside me lol but size isnt everything

Notmyfault
June 8th, 2009, 10:59 AM
its all about the love
and also not all men like skinny girls with flat asses btw

crisper99
June 9th, 2009, 04:04 PM
it doesnt really matter
as long as your girlfriend is happy with you

lengthy_brochure
June 11th, 2009, 08:38 PM
Personally, I think that your non-hard size matters more because it's usually what other guys see when you take your pants off (When changing in a locker room, etc)

adesiree
June 13th, 2009, 11:16 PM
but when you aren't hard it's not your full size so that shouldn't really be important

Aves
June 16th, 2009, 08:12 PM
I have a question for the guys; does breast size matter? What is considered 'large' I'm slightly insecure myself ._.

For me 'large' is above a B cup, but it's still the person that matters

Spin
June 17th, 2009, 06:53 AM
It doesn't matter how big it is, it just matters what you do with it. :P

YourFriend
June 19th, 2009, 06:52 AM
I also agree that size doesnt matter that much but it does partially, i mean waht if you had a 2 inch penis????

Edgehead1995
June 21st, 2009, 12:30 AM
This is an embarrassing question but I have to know.

Does the size of a guy's penis really matter to a girl?

Zero Beat
June 21st, 2009, 12:52 AM
i may not be a girl (...) but i think some do think so. im gay and i think it kinda matters... so im kinda a girl XD

Edgehead1995
June 21st, 2009, 01:02 AM
is there a preferred size?

Zero Beat
June 21st, 2009, 01:06 AM
I guess like everyones size, there are people that like different sizes too. :|

Edgehead1995
June 21st, 2009, 01:08 AM
Thanks for your help

kyle95
June 21st, 2009, 01:24 AM
judging from what som girls r saying, i think it does. the sword that draws the largest crowds at the tower of london, is the largest :yes:

maeniel
June 21st, 2009, 05:28 AM
If it matters that much too a girl, they're probably just shallow and you dont want anything to do with them anyhow..
Its best to find someone who likes you for who you are, not the size of your genitals...

nick
June 21st, 2009, 08:46 AM
If it matters that much too a girl, they're probably just shallow and you dont want anything to do with them anyhow..
Its best to find someone who likes you for who you are, not the size of your genitals...
Agree, but it might matter if you were really tiny, or if you were really huge. I mean it has to big enough so she can feel something, and not so big that it hurts. But most of us are well in between those two extremes.

YourFriend
June 21st, 2009, 07:43 PM
It matters to me in a sense that i dont want 2 tiny or 2 big, i am gay btw so i am kinda of a girl from one point of view..... btw, i think taht 2 most of the girls it matters, jsut some of them try to hide it

Poetic Folly
June 21st, 2009, 07:49 PM
This is an embarrassing question but I have to know.

Does the size of a guy's penis really matter to a girl?

Well it depends on the girl, but I think bigger girth is better then a long penis because it would be more likely to rub the clitoris.

BeautifulSilence
June 21st, 2009, 07:53 PM
This is an embarrassing question but I have to know.

Does the size of a guy's penis really matter to a girl?

Merged with a sticky in P101.

Looking through this thread, kinda [more or less] unanimously says "no" as the answer.

vito22andolini
June 22nd, 2009, 09:03 PM
A girl saying yes is called a whore

ocguy
June 25th, 2009, 06:10 PM
Not really, but having a bigger one wouldn't hurt.
I'm four inches and feeling fine.

ThUnDeR
June 28th, 2009, 06:16 PM
i hope it dont mattter cause im 4 inches XD

ocguy
June 29th, 2009, 02:18 PM
i hope it dont mattter cause im 4 inches XD
You are okay.
I'm 4" soft too. I consider myself normal.

nickings07
June 29th, 2009, 04:23 PM
No, penis doesn't matter it's all personal prefrences.

Snow Angel
June 30th, 2009, 03:21 AM
no it doesn't.

ocguy
June 30th, 2009, 04:09 AM
No, penis doesn't matter it's all personal prefrences.

So my 4.25" dick in okay?

gone
July 4th, 2009, 11:29 AM
well I would love to say penis size doesn't matter but it does in some way.. but mainly its not the size of the boat is the motion in the ocean baby lol :P

Wbskater
July 4th, 2009, 11:35 PM
So would a girl be attracted to
A 5.5 dick?

Xavin
July 8th, 2009, 02:39 AM
out of curiosity would any girls think that under 4" long is to small for anything?

Commander Thor
July 8th, 2009, 08:39 AM
So my 4.25" dick in okay?

Yes, it's fine bro.

So would a girl be attracted to
A 5.5 dick?

Yes, they would.
In fact, one of my girl friends (Not dating, but friend that's a girl), won't have sex with any guy over 6.5".

out of curiosity would any girls think that under 4" long is to small for anything?

No, they wouldn't.
Girls aren't as narrow-minded as most men think.
And a 3-4" penis, can do ALOT more than most men think.

BigRed87
July 20th, 2009, 07:28 AM
size doesn't matter , it just matters how you use it.

Noah_101
July 20th, 2009, 06:32 PM
size doesnt matter

Joshm5816
July 25th, 2009, 11:30 AM
To most boys it does but if a girl really judges on that then they're not worth it.

Edgehead1995
July 26th, 2009, 01:11 AM
Question for girls, please send me a message in reply.

If you were in love with a boy and you thought you should have sex, would you care if his penis was smaller than average?

Would you make fun of him? would you dump him?

OneManArmy
July 28th, 2009, 06:16 PM
No, if your GF or whatever dumps u just cause of your penis, she obviously isn't worth your time.

Chickenweed
August 1st, 2009, 04:50 PM
I don't think size matters. (as long as it's long enough to penetrate is what I think) I think porn and and society is cruel when they show every guy with 8 inchers and guys out there think, 'OMG, I need that in order to have the girls all over me!' Like as long as you have 3, maybe 4 inches erect I think you don't have to worry! :D

Hughesy
August 2nd, 2009, 07:22 AM
I've made caused plenty of orgasms with my tongue, and that doesn't even go inside, so chin up boys, learn to use your mouth and your set for life. ;)

Korey
August 9th, 2009, 10:15 AM
I don't think size matters in the long run, cuz really the only person's opinion that matters is your future spouse, and they shouldn't care because they should love you no matter if your 1" or 8". You'll have your entire lives to figure out different ways to please each other physically.

Charleigh
August 14th, 2009, 07:45 AM
the girl should love you for what you are not for what youve got

spaz
August 15th, 2009, 01:46 AM
its not size that matters, its how you use it ;)

gameadict61709
August 16th, 2009, 05:07 AM
i am rather small at about 4" most of my life i have been scared that i would not be big enough for sex. now i have a girlfriend we have had sex and she is okay with my size. but i am still kind of worried about it. is my size really okay?

Grey fox
August 16th, 2009, 06:22 AM
i am rather small at about 4" most of my life i have been scared that i would not be big enough for sex. now i have a girlfriend we have had sex and she is okay with my size. but i am still kind of worried about it. is my size really okay?

Don't worry, you're the average size!

Seriously though, it is all down to how you use it, and the G-spot is only a couple of inches in, so its no problem really.

Someone said earlier about porn provoking an unfair view of male genitalia, and this i agree with completely. Porn is acting - its fantasy, it isn't REAL.

On a lighter note, too big is also a turn off, because it hurts. I reckon that as long as you are with someone who you are comfortable with and who you just seem to "fit", and you will know when this happens, promise! then the size really doesn't matter.

Jenna.
August 19th, 2009, 01:09 PM
Nope, there's way more important things than the size of a guy's penis. I mean, come on.

geek
August 21st, 2009, 07:52 PM
I have a question for the guys; does breast size matter? What is considered 'large' I'm slightly insecure myself ._.

I hav never had a gf but in my oppinion, no. not really. if anything i think small boobs are really sexy. i do not see the attraction in big boobs over small boobs. but it would seem that i am in the minority here.

Teen123
August 23rd, 2009, 05:50 PM
:confused: I'm new to this thinq.
And I was wonderin'
I turned 14 in June, And my erection is A lil' over five inches, is this small?..
):

MoveAlong
August 23rd, 2009, 06:32 PM
:confused: I'm new to this thinq.
And I was wonderin'
I turned 14 in June, And my erection is A lil' over five inches, is this small?..
):

No. This is the average size for a male adult.

nick
August 23rd, 2009, 06:45 PM
:confused: I'm new to this thinq.
And I was wonderin'
I turned 14 in June, And my erection is A lil' over five inches, is this small?..
):

No. This is the average size for a male adult.
Zach is being a little generous there. The average range for adults if generally quoted as 5-7", so 5" would be at the lower end of average but not small. However you are only 14 and will most likely have at least 2 more years growth to come so that is likely to take you well into the average adult size if not beyond. Many 14 year old guys would envy you for having over 5", its not small

ACQD139F83J
August 26th, 2009, 09:02 AM
It's odd, because I really think that a small penis can be considered a turn on. I guess everyone has different opinions... nothing matters....

simpleasthat
August 26th, 2009, 09:33 AM
idc what people say. From experience having a small penis sux...

Austin159753
August 26th, 2009, 10:00 AM
that is real good advice all my ex's only wanted it big

Carissa x3
September 3rd, 2009, 03:36 AM
From my experiences, penis size absolutely does not matter. I've only had sex a couple of times, with penises both on the large side and smaller side. I'm not going to say much more, but larger penises =/= good sex and smaller penises =/= bad sex, which everyone should know.

diamond jetstream
September 3rd, 2009, 08:00 AM
i think it matters

cherry_boi
September 16th, 2009, 08:14 PM
it matters to an extent

Giles
September 19th, 2009, 06:25 PM
no offense... but wow. a sticky started by a junior memer!

anyway. i said no, but come to think of it... maybe a little.

Shalom
September 19th, 2009, 08:12 PM
I think size doesn't matter as long as its the average size. Anything under that could be a concern for men/woman lol.

mrmcdonaldduck
September 22nd, 2009, 06:01 AM
size doesnt matter, its what you can do with it.

Fusion
September 22nd, 2009, 06:51 AM
I guess why so many people say yes because they are so young, it comes all down to does it do the job right? some people with big penis's don't function, and also can hurt the other person cause internal injuries etc

Sophie-louise
September 22nd, 2009, 11:16 AM
i say no, because who gives a damn about the size? it's how they use it :)

ILOVEYOU
September 23rd, 2009, 07:43 AM
its not a game, you dont lose or win, like "ahh you're penis is too small" or "Wow what a big dude you got down there" .. the Thing that matters is the Love between you two, if you Love eachother, then Size really doesnt matter. Trust me, haha. ;)

NicNatNob
September 29th, 2009, 02:22 AM
[/QUOTE]
bottom line, girls care about dick size, guys care about boob size. reason why, is because if you had a 1" penis, a girl isnt going to be sexually attracted to you. if a girl didnt even have any boobs what-so-ever, a guy wouldnt want sex from her either. personality does NOT matter when it comes to this. i do agree though that if you have a smaller penis, like 4 inches or so, that it does matter how you use it. but you need to understand that size does matter because your not going to want to have sex from someone who cant please you, and a 1" dik cant please you.[/QUOTE]

So so so not true. Experience love. True love at that before you go around judging people for there personal appearance OR "SIZE" Guys don't all like big boobs or asses some guys who arnt male shovenoff pigs just love the girl for who she is and what she does. This reply is verry immature to post and u should be shunned to what you think is small to 1" Cuz u think size matters. Wow you made yourself look stupid for that. Good luck on true love. Stop thinking with ur head that is in the dark.

loz4
October 7th, 2009, 07:18 PM
girls care about dick size, guys care about boob size. reason why, is because if you had a 1" penis, a girl isnt going to be sexually attracted to you. if a girl didnt even have any boobs what-so-ever, a guy wouldnt want sex from her either.

are you personally that shallow?

enzenzz
October 12th, 2009, 08:28 AM
as long as it's functional then size isn't that big of an issue.

dantheman5000
October 20th, 2009, 05:40 PM
sometime it does and sometimes it doesnt it all depends

Contra
October 22nd, 2009, 01:56 PM
I don't think it does. Girls won't stop dating a guy because of that, I mean, I guess you only show her your penis after a few dates, and by then, she must love you enough to forget if you have a smaller than average dick.

qirlz32boyzlove
October 22nd, 2009, 04:33 PM
it doesnt matter to me
as lonqq as yu qet the job done
hahaha!! ;)

clone
November 1st, 2009, 12:01 AM
i put no but it definitly helps

Aves
November 1st, 2009, 12:56 AM
No, it honestly doesn't. End of story. Anyone who thinks otherwise is a pervert

clone
November 1st, 2009, 01:47 AM
umm... okay i dont know how that makes them a pervery i just think average is best thats my OPINION.

newbie
November 2nd, 2009, 03:43 PM
i once read a story that a woman wrote and she said she had slept with ppl with larger penis,but then she slept with a guy with a 1 incher and that was her best time as the G spot is generally about an inch in.
So size doesnt matter,i myself am average size,but the gf loves it cos i know how to use it. Practice really does make perfect

and YUSARI, boob size doesnt matter,not to a real guy who likes girls for who they are,i must admit my gf does have naturally very big boobs and she isnt fat,but when i got to know her,i was talkin to her mostly on msn where i didnt see her cleavage,and i fell in love with her,not her boobs.

Quick_Sylver
November 2nd, 2009, 05:42 PM
I know its an ego thing for most guys but does it really matter?

Eagle1
November 3rd, 2009, 02:51 AM
I don't think size matters

franky boy
November 19th, 2009, 01:44 PM
doesnt matter

Fruit_Tart.
November 22nd, 2009, 03:14 AM
Size doesn't matter jus as long as you know how to use it.

Poetic Folly
November 22nd, 2009, 08:54 PM
are you personally that shallow?

That is partly true though. We don't live in a children's book. Natural instinct is to go for the most attractive, which would include large breasts and a large penis, evolutionary traits. And keep in mind that this is adults, not flat chested 12 yos or 3 inch 13 yos

itzyogrll
December 3rd, 2009, 08:48 PM
At a certain extent yes. But, if you think about it a guy can have a huge package but not even know how to use it. So preformance is more to worry about than size. So, yes it does matter BUT it's not everything. Hope i helped a little bit! =]

Themanwithaplan
December 3rd, 2009, 09:24 PM
not really

icanlie
December 7th, 2009, 12:25 AM
some clarifying things...im a guy but just bare with me

a big dick to a girl is probbly 7+ inches. a small dick is most likely under 4. the average size of a males penis is 5.5 inches when fully grown.

for guys, anything under a BB or C is small. large is D+...but to usually naturally achieve that, you have to be fat, and guys dont like fat girls. personally, i like a skinny girl who has C-D's.

kind of off topic, but im good friends with the best looking girl in my grade, and its kind of weird to hear her say, "i wish my boobs were as big as ____'s" because she has C's and the girl shes comparing to is 200 pounds but has DD's. also, the reason why a good average is about a C-D is because, even if you are skinny, and you have D's or DD's, you boobs aren't going to be shaped well and are going to weigh more and not be as "perky" as like a C. but see, thats why pornstars who have like D's-DD's have implants because it makes their boobs "perky".

bottom line, girls care about dick size, guys care about boob size. reason why, is because if you had a 1" penis, a girl isnt going to be sexually attracted to you. if a girl didnt even have any boobs what-so-ever, a guy wouldnt want sex from her either. personality does NOT matter when it comes to this. i do agree though that if you have a smaller penis, like 4 inches or so, that it does matter how you use it. but you need to understand that size does matter because your not going to want to have sex from someone who cant please you, and a 1" dik cant please you.

o.o im on the small side then i guess....grow grow grow!:P

xdeviancex
December 7th, 2009, 12:30 AM
You guys are kidding yourself.

Drusilla Rules
December 7th, 2009, 02:45 PM
well i think it does matter to the guy who has the penis

franky boy
December 14th, 2009, 09:14 PM
wow...so much ignorance (40%)

skyekirstyn
December 18th, 2009, 07:25 PM
i kinda dont care (: but hey, i like girls too. so i guess it doesnt count for much.

Fusion
December 23rd, 2009, 07:48 PM
It shouldn't matter at all!, as long as it does the job

Ballin2much
December 24th, 2009, 07:04 PM
no no no no no!

DoveGreySands
December 27th, 2009, 10:53 AM
This is a toughy, for my own preference a bigger penis is a greater turn on for me in sex, but at the same time smaller penis' can offer better sex as a bigger penis means less positions and my god is it difficult to get used to.

ace-of-spade
December 29th, 2009, 01:22 AM
I'd say NO.

But seriously, I bet that almost everyone in this forum are still growing cus on average u stop growing at early 20s. So stop complaining about it and just maximize it's growth!

avaholic
December 30th, 2009, 11:17 AM
I don't think it matters much at all...

i'm only about 3inches...if guys continue to grow into thier 20s, how much more do you think I could grow?

nick
December 30th, 2009, 12:16 PM
I don't think it matters much at all...

i'm only about 3inches...if guys continue to grow into thier 20s, how much more do you think I could grow?
Well seing as how you haven't given your current age anywhere its very difficult to comment. Anyway there's not really anyway of knowing. If your young and near the start of puberty I would worry about it, just wait and see.

avaholic
December 30th, 2009, 12:29 PM
well im 19, just was curious if it was realisticly possible to expect a couple more inches?

nick
December 30th, 2009, 12:34 PM
well im 19, just was curious if it was realisticly possible to expect a couple more inches?
We're going off topic a bit here, that is pretty small for 19, have you consulted a doctor about it? We should take this to pm if you want to talk further.

Ultimatum
December 30th, 2009, 01:06 PM
I think alot of it falls down to the insecurity of your own penis. Otherwise that question wouldn't be asked.

To an extent it does matter, a girl isn't going to orgasm of a 1 inch penis is she. I would say average+, but i guess its up to the girls to decide what really is 'big enough'.

nick
December 30th, 2009, 02:06 PM
I think alot of it falls down to the insecurity of your own penis. Otherwise that question wouldn't be asked.

To an extent it does matter, a girl isn't going to orgasm of a 1 inch penis is she. I would say average+, but i guess its up to the girls to decide what really is 'big enough'.
Actually in many cases she probably wont orgasm just from the penis anyway. For most girls the important point of stimulation is the clitoris which is not affected by the length of the penis at all.

shela
January 1st, 2010, 11:20 PM
your size shouldnt matter if your having sex with someone you love and thats the reason you should have sex in the first place.But if all you want is the pleasure then its good to have a big penis. Big Penis=more pain but feels really good
Small Penis=less pain but doesnt feel as good
but hey i wouldnt know im still a virgin and even though size SHOULDNT matter it does to boys and girls guys want girls with big boobs and most girls want guys with big dicks. A small dick just wont please you.And a girl with small or no boobs just won't get laid unless a guy is really desprate.

Affliction
January 7th, 2010, 11:14 AM
nope

Jerrys_Baby
January 9th, 2010, 11:32 PM
Penis size AND width matters. My fiance is seven inches and that's a tad too big.

Underground_Network
January 10th, 2010, 08:11 AM
You're 14 and you have a fiance?

Aηdy
January 10th, 2010, 08:18 AM
Penis size AND width matters. My fiance is seven inches and that's a tad too big.

14?

Fiancé?

No, just no.

beastly689
January 10th, 2010, 07:16 PM
ummm... well, I think that if you know how to make a girl scream, then it doesn't matter. I personally prefer a guy's penis to be about 5-8 inches. I mean, ever a four-inch dick is nothing to scoff at... especially if he's "good" with it... you know? ;P ;P ;P ;P ;P ;P

Mental
January 13th, 2010, 01:09 AM
As long as it's not abnormally small (or big for that matter) to the extent it intereferes with ones sex life, then no.

People who do complain about a 5" wang are just being shallow or/and insecure.

Englishrose
January 13th, 2010, 01:52 PM
Size does not matter in the slightest.

WHY?

Because it is not actual penetration that causes pleasure to the girl, but the stimulation of her clitoris. Which is why girls still have the ability to have "sex" when they are their period if the boy can learn the technique of using their penis to stimulate the clitoris without actual penetration. (Not going to go into details here).

Personally, size doesn't matter in the least to me, however at a young age, having a penis that may be of a smaller or larger than average size can create more sexual problems than an average size penis until you gain some experience, in other words, until you learn what to do with it.

MrLongName
January 17th, 2010, 01:59 PM
Hell no it doesnt.

itzyogrll
January 17th, 2010, 05:39 PM
some clarifying things...im a guy but just bare with me

a big dick to a girl is probbly 7+ inches. a small dick is most likely under 4. the average size of a males penis is 5.5 inches when fully grown.

for guys, anything under a BB or C is small. large is D+...but to usually naturally achieve that, you have to be fat, and guys dont like fat girls. personally, i like a skinny girl who has C-D's.

kind of off topic, but im good friends with the best looking girl in my grade, and its kind of weird to hear her say, "i wish my boobs were as big as ____'s" because she has C's and the girl shes comparing to is 200 pounds but has DD's. also, the reason why a good average is about a C-D is because, even if you are skinny, and you have D's or DD's, you boobs aren't going to be shaped well and are going to weigh more and not be as "perky" as like a C. but see, thats why pornstars who have like D's-DD's have implants because it makes their boobs "perky".

bottom line, girls care about dick size, guys care about boob size. reason why, is because if you had a 1" penis, a girl isnt going to be sexually attracted to you. if a girl didnt even have any boobs what-so-ever, a guy wouldnt want sex from her either. personality does NOT matter when it comes to this. i do agree though that if you have a smaller penis, like 4 inches or so, that it does matter how you use it. but you need to understand that size does matter because your not going to want to have sex from someone who cant please you, and a 1" dik cant please you.

The only thing here that you really said here that was true was that size does matter.. the rest were just pointless reason to TRY and explain why it does.. It didn't go well, and most of it isn't true. Sorry..

guy1234
January 19th, 2010, 06:54 PM
size doesnt matter.....but it doesnt hurt to have a big one :P

Memory
January 21st, 2010, 07:50 PM
Size=no:what:
Performance=Yes:D

SKellD
January 21st, 2010, 09:31 PM
when it comes to action, i dont care. but if u small, then u gotta be bringin dat heat

Carter
January 22nd, 2010, 07:01 AM
Love isn't about sex, hence love isn't about the size of a penis. Passion is about caring for each other no matter what. But hey, if you have all these thing... plus you've been "blessed" then that's just a win win situation.

KBS-Man
January 23rd, 2010, 03:45 AM
well to a guy . size sorta matters
to a girl as long as it plesures her
but to s%@ts at school and shit they think it does ...

blueberryshady
February 2nd, 2010, 10:13 PM
This is the truth ---> It all depends on what kinda girl it is. If for example, it's your girlfriend, and you two have sex and stuff, she might say it doesn't matter to her, but it does, kinda. Now, for example you have a but buddy, yes, it does matter! lol.

Katrina
February 6th, 2010, 12:54 PM
It doesn't matter to me personally. But it should not be smaller than 4", otherwise it will not penetrate.
Infact it depends on the people(ie a boy when penetrating it, a girl when she is giving a BJ)

drummerboy526
February 9th, 2010, 06:05 PM
i dont think it should matter. it's part of what makes you you

Seeker94
February 13th, 2010, 09:13 PM
Hell it shouldnt matter but to some girls it does so I guess it kinda good when you got above avg.

hot man
February 14th, 2010, 02:06 AM
fore the girl it dose...

travis1994
February 17th, 2010, 06:09 PM
idk but thats a good question, i really don't think it does unless the chicks a hoe and has seen lots of dicks

SimplyTom
March 17th, 2010, 09:16 AM
i dont think it does matter

Omgthatsme
March 21st, 2010, 12:27 AM
It shouldn't matter how big your penis is. You shouldn't judge a person by their gentalia.

con_RAD_
March 24th, 2010, 02:32 AM
It shouldn't matter how big your penis is. You shouldn't judge a person by their gentalia.i agree

herry.james
March 30th, 2010, 01:55 PM
My fiance and I discussed this. She seems to think that size is important. But, not critical to her and her friends. It seems that length is only half of the equation. A 9 inch pencil won't do as much to please her as a 7 inch fat cucumber. Also, most women's vagina can only accommodate about 6 inches of tool before bottoming out. The rest is wasted on show.

SAMwich
March 30th, 2010, 02:56 PM
I personally don't think it does. It's about how you use it ;)

underoath12192
March 30th, 2010, 03:02 PM
I personally don't think it does. It's about how you use it ;)

It's nice to see a 13 year old who actually grasps this. haha

SAMwich
March 30th, 2010, 03:07 PM
It's nice to see a 13 year old who actually grasps this. haha

Why thank you :P
I don't see why size should matter though. It's not like a girl's ever going to ask your size as soon as she meets you. She'd go more for you and your personality than your dick.

hollisterboi95
March 30th, 2010, 03:31 PM
Though I agree that it's is about love I still think that penis size matters or else you can't really help the relationship work out.

nick
March 30th, 2010, 03:40 PM
Though I agree that it's is about love I still think that penis size matters or else you can't really help the relationship work out.
I really have no idea at all what you mean there or what your point is.

itsbhuddatime07
March 30th, 2010, 08:17 PM
I personally think that the size doesn't matter but how well the guy uses it.

TheTrueKing
March 30th, 2010, 09:04 PM
I will say it staright out I think it matters more on how you use it then the size of it

Punjab
April 1st, 2010, 05:14 AM
if ur gf is going to make a big deal about size then she is obviously not going to last long as ur gf

HillBillyWilly
April 5th, 2010, 01:21 AM
if ur gf is going to make a big deal about size then she is obviously not going to last long as ur gf

I agree, if they only want to see how long or large your penis is, they probably dont like YOU as a boyfriend, they just like your penis, or else they'll leave if they find it's too small for them. A real gf who is caring woudln't care about how large you are, but more about you.

pixie1234
April 9th, 2010, 12:42 PM
for guys, anything under a BB or C is small. large is D+...but to usually naturally achieve that, you have to be fat, and guys dont like fat girls.

thats not always the case you know i know someone who is a 32dd and she is slim! they are not implants and they aren't droopy either.

and to the original post no, no, NO! it does NOT matter adn anyone who thinks it does seriously needs to think it over! xx

Stega
April 17th, 2010, 10:07 PM
me and my friends joke around with it but they say 5 iches is about the average size. we dared each other to measure. the lowest was 5 and the highest was 6 (out of my friends) i measured 7 iches (im only 14) it probably doesnt matter

danggood
April 18th, 2010, 07:43 PM
ehh i think it depends on how you use it

Bbbbbt
April 19th, 2010, 12:02 AM
I know that everyone says it's how you use it that matters, but do you honestly not care at all about the size?

Arktyk Wuulf
April 19th, 2010, 05:56 PM
Size will only matter if you don't know how to use your tool to its full potential. Don't worry about size as much as learning how to be great with what you have. Every moment wasted on wishing it was different is a moment you could be thinking about how to use it better. People forget this often, but try not to forget it now.

Nick93
April 20th, 2010, 12:59 AM
Why thank you :P
I don't see why size should matter though. It's not like a girl's ever going to ask your size as soon as she meets you. She'd go more for you and your personality than your dick.

agreed!

Loltop
April 25th, 2010, 05:26 AM
I think size does matter. A girl
would rather go for a guy with a larger cock than a smaller one.

nick
April 25th, 2010, 07:33 AM
I think size does matter. A girl
would rather go for a guy with a larger cock than a smaller one.
To be honest I dont know any girls that would ask a guy how big his cock is before deciding whether to date him. They want to go with someone they like, that they find fun, that they can talk too, that will treat them well, make them laugh, give them love. If you tick all those boxes they are not going to care what's in your pants.

sfmdraw
April 26th, 2010, 09:35 PM
Personally, I don't think penis size matters. Relationships aren't about that.

One way to view it: being in a relationship with someone who has good looks and a sizable dick/boobs (depending on whom you like) is just an added bonus. The relationship shouldn't be built on those sort of things. They should accept you for you no matter what. :)

munchausen
April 28th, 2010, 09:08 PM
well to me it does but only if they're like abnormally small.

jimmy mac
May 3rd, 2010, 03:26 AM
i think if ur size is pretty average it shouldnt be a problem, my girlfriend emma said she wouldnt of cared if mine was small, its not huge ( 7") but it works properly and works well thats all that matters

The Dark Lord
May 3rd, 2010, 06:56 AM
Yes size matters whether u like it or not. But once u get older it matters much less so i suspose its yes and no

Norton
May 5th, 2010, 04:41 PM
i think it does to a small degree, but i don't think its that much of a deal to most girls.

OnTheFritz
May 7th, 2010, 03:16 AM
As long as its big enough to see but not big enough to rip me in half

Hottieamy
May 8th, 2010, 04:21 PM
No any size will do lol

JRB1993
May 8th, 2010, 05:18 PM
No any size will do lol

Wow, not many females would honestly say that...

jjr011294
May 9th, 2010, 02:37 PM
i think it does

ryan213
May 10th, 2010, 02:14 AM
some clarifying things...im a guy but just bare with me

a big dick to a girl is probbly 7+ inches. a small dick is most likely under 4. the average size of a males penis is 5.5 inches when fully grown.

for guys, anything under a BB or C is small. large is D+...but to usually naturally achieve that, you have to be fat, and guys dont like fat girls. personally, i like a skinny girl who has C-D's.

kind of off topic, but im good friends with the best looking girl in my grade, and its kind of weird to hear her say, "i wish my boobs were as big as ____'s" because she has C's and the girl shes comparing to is 200 pounds but has DD's. also, the reason why a good average is about a C-D is because, even if you are skinny, and you have D's or DD's, you boobs aren't going to be shaped well and are going to weigh more and not be as "perky" as like a C. but see, thats why pornstars who have like D's-DD's have implants because it makes their boobs "perky".

bottom line, girls care about dick size, guys care about boob size. reas or on why, is because if you had a 1" penis, a girl isnt going to be sexually attracted to you. if a girl didnt even have any boobs what-so-ever, a guy wouldnt want sex from her either. personality does NOT matter when it comes to this. i do agree though that if you have a smaller penis, like 4 inches or so, that it does matter how you use it. but you need to understand that size does matter because your not going to want to have sex from someone who cant please you, and a 1" dik cant please you.

completely agree and to me it is C cups to a D cup cause then there perky and thats what guys like, at least thats what i like in a girl and yea it does melt down to the size of a guys dick because the people that say its the movement have small dicks come on "know how to use it" all you gotta do is move back and forth or let the girl do the work no offense

SimSailorNick
May 10th, 2010, 03:59 AM
According to my cousin who has had sex many times, it doesn't. But if it is abnormal then yeah. Haha.

AllieBama
May 10th, 2010, 12:29 PM
Personally, I would chose a guy that can hold an interesting convo and has a good personality over a guy that's massive(well bigger than others). So no, size doesnt really matter....as long as there's sumthin usable down there xD

cody 1995
May 10th, 2010, 07:31 PM
yes lol

con_RAD_
May 16th, 2010, 08:25 PM
Personally, I would chose a guy that can hold an interesting convo and has a good personality over a guy that's massive(well bigger than others). So no, size doesnt really matter....as long as there's sumthin usable down there xD
that's good to know :)...now define "usable" :P

tohot4u
May 22nd, 2010, 11:21 PM
bigger is always better!

toobig
May 23rd, 2010, 01:56 AM
bigger is always better!

what about if your 12 inches long with a 7.5 inch girth?

DeEnd
June 9th, 2010, 11:46 PM
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AmberS9109
June 10th, 2010, 12:18 AM
I don't really think it matters, as long as I can feel it =) lol

Astor
June 10th, 2010, 06:40 PM
To a point it does matter- anything 5in is too small and anything over 10in is too big. Girth is also important- anything under 4.5in is too small and anything over 8in is too big.

DeEnd
June 11th, 2010, 09:19 AM
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ChicagoBlackhawksFan
June 12th, 2010, 10:27 AM
Penis size doesnt matter to me. but I say big.

Powerline
June 14th, 2010, 07:25 PM
IMHO I dont think penis size matters because as long as your partner feels pleasure or is happy with then there is no reason for it to be a problem.

LeopardSox
June 14th, 2010, 07:27 PM
Size isn't all that much of a problem as already said. As long as both of you can find pleasure it shouldn't matter what size it is.

DeEnd
June 15th, 2010, 09:10 AM
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qawsedrftg
June 16th, 2010, 09:54 AM
well i think it needs to be big enough to go 'inside' lol but its not really important how big it is.

jesusfreak77
June 17th, 2010, 11:52 PM
[QUOTE=iluvlamp1414;126586]i dont have to worry then :D.[/QUO
Lol! same here:)

LordOfTheToaster
June 18th, 2010, 09:25 AM
Penis size doesn't (well, shouldn't) matter in a relationship, because those should be about love and caring. In today's teen culture, it does matter, however. Hardly a day goes by in the locker rooms around the world without someone being made fun of or complimented on their size. In the end, though, it really shouldn't matter, as long as it does what it's supposed to do.

LauraLovesIt
June 19th, 2010, 01:48 PM
I think it matters to some extent but not too much.

DragonflyBec
June 21st, 2010, 02:07 AM
it doesn't matter. if you ever got married and the guy had a small dick. you know the most important thing is you love them. People cant help having small ones :)

x

The Dark Lord
June 27th, 2010, 05:08 PM
yes it does

Qwerty113
June 27th, 2010, 10:12 PM
For those who say that size doesn't matter, you're both wrong and right.

It's scientifically proven, that any penis 3 Inches and above, actually gives the same clitoris stimulation as a 7 inch penis would, it's just that a 7 inch penis would go deeper. So in a way, It doesn't matter because most people have a penis above 3 inches, and it does matter if the penis is below 3 inches.

I read this in a few articles somewhere on the web.

brennaluvv
June 28th, 2010, 03:45 AM
As long as you don't have a chode, us girls will probably be happy. I don't think penis size really matters it's personality that counts.

DeEnd
June 29th, 2010, 10:31 PM
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LoveMyBody
June 30th, 2010, 08:05 AM
I think it's time to lock this thread. It's existance alone has established the that size "matters". This post exists soley because of the importance of size and the concern it creates. Even if such concerns are unfounded in practice, the emotional energy invested alone is considerable.

Size "matters". Loc the post.

Pretty much what she said but I'm also with Brenna on what she said.

Sasha
June 30th, 2010, 12:14 PM
It matters not

Daniel_
June 30th, 2010, 10:20 PM
some clarifying things...im a guy but just bare with me

a big dick to a girl is probbly 7+ inches. a small dick is most likely under 4. the average size of a males penis is 5.5 inches when fully grown.

for guys, anything under a BB or C is small. large is D+...but to usually naturally achieve that, you have to be fat, and guys dont like fat girls. personally, i like a skinny girl who has C-D's.

kind of off topic, but im good friends with the best looking girl in my grade, and its kind of weird to hear her say, "i wish my boobs were as big as ____'s" because she has C's and the girl shes comparing to is 200 pounds but has DD's. also, the reason why a good average is about a C-D is because, even if you are skinny, and you have D's or DD's, you boobs aren't going to be shaped well and are going to weigh more and not be as "perky" as like a C. but see, thats why pornstars who have like D's-DD's have implants because it makes their boobs "perky".

bottom line, girls care about dick size, guys care about boob size. reason why, is because if you had a 1" penis, a girl isnt going to be sexually attracted to you. if a girl didnt even have any boobs what-so-ever, a guy wouldnt want sex from her either. personality does NOT matter when it comes to this. i do agree though that if you have a smaller penis, like 4 inches or so, that it does matter how you use it. but you need to understand that size does matter because your not going to want to have sex from someone who cant please you, and a 1" dik cant please you.


Sorry, you could not be more wrong.

Nexus
July 3rd, 2010, 03:18 AM
4 inches is enough to penetrate the most sensitive areas of the vagina. So, like many other posters have said, it's about knowing how to use what you have, rather than the mere size of it.

axel3
July 5th, 2010, 05:34 PM
im not a girl so idk but in my opinion even if you have a small penis but you know what you're doing with it and you know how to use it right then you are in the clear.

OnlyOneChance
July 9th, 2010, 03:21 PM
Hahah Yahhhh It sure does xD

Davistheskier
July 27th, 2010, 02:10 AM
m not gonna lie but of course it does and it will til all of us will grow up

Andrzej
July 27th, 2010, 11:04 AM
I guess. Just as long as it isn't any smaller than 3 inches, I think it's fine.

mindovermuscle
July 29th, 2010, 04:31 PM
This gurl told me her boyfriend was bigger than me; but that I was better. 6 in lenghth 4.5 girth before I was fully grown.

patrick99
August 6th, 2010, 01:07 PM
If the girl is some shalow asshole then shes just using you as a toy

prettyprincess
August 10th, 2010, 01:33 PM
I know a bunch of girls that will stay with a guy they dont really like just because of how fat his cock is

DoomMaster
August 10th, 2010, 03:18 PM
I know a bunch of girls that will stay with a guy they dont really like just because of how fat his cock is

And those girls are probably say things like "All guys are the same!" when that guy treats them wrong and what not. Well guess what? If you weren't so shallow and stuck up about who you date, maybe you'd find a better guy.:rolleyes:

Azunite
August 10th, 2010, 03:29 PM
You can give pleasure with 6 inch while you hurt her with your 8 inch.
It is important to USE the size. You can take the pleasure level to extemes with even small penises

minko401
August 13th, 2010, 09:48 PM
i was talking to a few girls the other day and to my surprise, they said it does matter. i think if youre anywhere from average up (5.5 inches or so and bigger), its fine.

Scooby Dooby Drew
August 15th, 2010, 03:17 PM
I'd say that penis size is probably not the most important thing in the world, but to dismiss it as something that doesn't matter would be stupid as well.
I think that it doesn't really matter as long the dick is within a somewhat normal size range, about 4" to 7", and less or more could be a hinderence, not necessarily an impassible obstical, but having a tiny dick or too big of one might not be the best thing.

yammak
August 15th, 2010, 06:35 PM
definitely not.

it's how you use it not how big it is.

yeahitsbrandon
September 15th, 2010, 10:59 PM
i dont think it does..

JimSauce
September 19th, 2010, 03:07 PM
I think it matters only if you're lower than like 4 inches or longer than ~8. If you're in the 5-7 inch range, which is most guys, size loses importance.

PJay
September 19th, 2010, 03:39 PM
I agree with the 5-7 range thing for practical reasons, but more important to me is what it looks like (your own or the guys if thats what you like). I've seen some really ugly ones on the net that are a bit of a turn off. So for me, that could be a deal breaker where the size less so.

KFC_Kid
September 21st, 2010, 03:12 PM
i think it matters slightly cause if it's too small (to get a female simulated) or too big (hurt the girl) then its bad. in my opion one like mine -6" length and 5.5" girth - is probs the best size

Sirpotatos
September 26th, 2010, 06:34 PM
From what I know penetration doesn't majorly stimulate girls. It's more of a male vanity/power thing

I have a question for the guys; does breast size matter? What is considered 'large' I'm slightly insecure myself ._.

Well, personally, I don't care if a girl has small breasts, I actually think that small to medium makes a girl more attractive than a girl with large breasts. So don't feel insecure, because I like them better that way anyway and I am sure there are other guys who feel the same.

iMukuro
October 7th, 2010, 04:45 PM
For me personally, it does.
Of course personality is a huge characteristic in a relationship, but if someone is small, than I don't think they could pleasure me to the extent I wanted.

Bharris13
October 8th, 2010, 12:08 PM
To a certain degree it does matter. I mean, girls really if u had a choice between 2 identical people except 1 had an 6cm dick and the other had a 6 inch dick which would u choose. But, it shouldnt get in the way of a healthy relationship.

Geo Man
October 14th, 2010, 12:07 PM
i'm nearly 16 and my dick is 5" when fully erect, do you think this is enough for most girls?

and if they care about pleasure, not size - will it pleasure them enough?

nick
October 15th, 2010, 02:41 AM
i'm nearly 16 and my dick is 5" when fully erect, do you think this is enough for most girls?

and if they care about pleasure, not size - will it pleasure them enough?
yes and yes

Geo Man
October 15th, 2010, 09:08 AM
yes and yes

thank god. also is it enough to give them an orgasm? oh and it's 4" round so is it enough?

nick
October 15th, 2010, 10:15 AM
thank god. also is it enough to give them an orgasm? oh and it's 4" round so is it enough?
I cant go into details, but many girls only orgasm through clitoris stimulation and the size of your penis is pretty irrelevant for that.

jovien
October 15th, 2010, 12:08 PM
as a person who has had and is having sex i'll be honest
size only matters if you dont know how to use it.
if your big but you dont know how to use it its sucks as much as if your small adn you dont know how to use it.
but if you know what to do it doesnt really matter.
to be honest you have to work harder if your small if you want to please her

lol i heard on manswers that india has the most smallest penis but the wrote the book on it lol but ive never thought about it but yeah i think some girls likeit bigger i guess (im talking on the girls pov i dont consider myself a girl nor girl like) but i mean personally the girls i talk to they say they like it bigger when hrnyer

TaylorLestrangeNee
October 15th, 2010, 02:10 PM
View Poll Results: Does penis size matter
Yes 477 42.90%
No 635 57.10%

Those really interest me.
People say no, but I'm pretty sure it does. I mean like, it depends on your outlook, right?
Like, if you're not satisfied with someone..you won't want to stay with them...like, I'm not trying to be shallow..but a relationship..I mean, a real relationship, can't last if you're not happy in all aspects. And that's one of them, so in the end, everyone's going to be shallow, everyone's going to say size does matter, it's just a change of how you look at size, I suppose.

jjaymonster
October 16th, 2010, 05:23 AM
r u kidding me im 13 and have a 9 inch dick wat????????? im black and u people r scarin me im 13 for jesus's sake 13!!!!!!!!!!! in ur faces