why am i so disgusting :(

[green]

im so tired. So it got out at school that i fingered my last girlfriend and cheated on her. My first girlfriend who i was with for ten months broke up with me because i broke her heart. why is it always my fault for a girl getting hurt. I dont like where i am in life at the moment. my family doesnt get along that great, like I miss the times where i was really close with my parents. Last year me and my dad went on a roadtrip to brisbane from canberra and back which took 2 days up and 2 days back. even though we didnt sit there and talk the entire time i felt really close to him. I dont get to do that anymore and I miss it. I miss having someone outside my family that i can be close to, but no one at my school interests me. there all either "eww youre a nerd stay away from me" or "I dont want to be in a relationship with you" I cant find anyone I can truly relate to off the oppisite sex and I really need that right now. I have some guy friends but none that im really close to.

I just need to find a girl that I can relate to and hopefully love. I dont want to be the douchebag who chases after anything in a skirt.

Anyone have any advice for what I can do about my situation. Most girls arent interested in me because im over weight, dont do alot of sport and im probobly the most unremarkable person ever.

[music is my soul]

first of all u really shouldn`t have cheated on ur gf. i know im stating the obvious but it needs to be said. and the right girl will eventually come along. second i know how you feel with ur family not getting along great. my parents are split and some how they still manage to fight a good bit. some ways u can try to get close to them are doing somethings that all three of u enjoy.

and truthfully man ur not disgusting u just havent made the best distions(sry my spelling sucks)

[Rubber]

yeah your problem with girls it seems is that your just going for anyone cause you want to. You should try to find someone you can actually connect with and understand and wouldnt WANT to cheat on.

[anonymous53]

I've got to say.... just don't cheat on anyone at all. It's a horrible thing. Secondly... you should just wait to find someone who likes you for you and you like them for them. Really, don't look for it :) Also, the people who say "You're a nerd, stay away from me" Aren't worth the time of day.

[Sage]

I cant find anyone I can truly relate to off the oppisite sex and I really need that right now.
Girlfriends aren't therapists. Until you're happy with yourself, every relationship you pursue is going to fail.

Most girls arent interested in me because im over weight, dont do alot of sport and im probobly the most unremarkable person ever.
If you can identify the problem, you can change it. Until you can see some good in yourself, no one else is going to see it for you. It doesn't matter if there's good in you right now: Whether there is or not, you can make some. Go out and do something you can be proud of.