Is it weird talking about sex with a friend?

[Toasteroven]

My best friend and I had over 5 hours of conversation and nearly all of it was about sex, we even got onto the topic of jerking off and we both admitted to eachother that we do it. We are both straight guys and there is just over a year and a half age difference between us, neither of us have spoken about our personal actions to another person before, we went into great detail, asked lots of personal questions such as what have we done, when, where, what we feel like after, why we do it, etc etc, we even shared techniques and stories of times that we have done it where it was particullary special or something. We have both told eachother that we are comfortable talking about it but I'm having doubts, is this normal to talk about with a friend? Should we talk again?

Btw, this is my first post so if I've done something wrong let me know, thanks :)

[Dimitri]

Dude, I talk with my best friend abotu sex and stuff, you're normal

[thingmebob]

Its very normal. Don't worry about it!

[Toasteroven]

But my fear is that this could ruin the friendship or cripple it in someway, like, we can both talk to each other about anything but it's kinda difficult cause he doesnt reply too much :L, so I do a lot of talking but last night he talked a lot more, he asked me if I jerked off, he asked me if I was gay, several times, he asked me what size my dick is, he asked me a lot of stuff that I wouldn't have expected a straight guy to say, I'm just 16, he is 15 in august and I don't know what to do, he seems to be acting gay, and I don't know how to feel about it cause I like him but I don't know how much, he is such a good friend and as far as we both know we are straight but some of his questions last night make me think differently.... :/

[kMan137]

It is absolutely normal!!!!

[screammonster123]

yeah its normal i do it all the time...do it again if you want to

[salty]

That is what friends are for...to talk about stuff

[Rodeo]

I think you are both normal dude. Its all part of puberty and you need to talk to someone that you trust about stuff so I think you should keep doing it. He probably is not gay he is just a bit curious. Me and my friend talk about that stuff all the time, hell we even jack together and we are both str8.

[somethingrandom]

yeah, i've had these conversations too, it's all just a part of being a teenager. sometimes i'll also feel guilty knowing that i have them, but i'm pretty sure that most guys have had these with at least one other guy

[Bobbyfishstick]

Its normal teenage curiousity. Its fine. I do it all the time.

[Aeroflux17]

He is your BEST FRIEND right?! so nothing to worry about. !

[smitty35]

I do it all the time with one friend in particular. It doesnt make you gay to talk to another guy about sex, by any means. If you are comfortable talking about it to a friend then go for it. :-)

[Chris95]

It all depends. I personally am private and thus don't think it's especially normal to talk about it with friends, but for other people it's up to you.

[Peterapetera96]

It's perfectly normal, any two teenagers who are friends will get into that topic

[the man101]

i talk about sex with my best friend to is it okay




oh yeah i forgot to ask a question were can i ask question about anything were people can reply

[jerry102]

yea dude all normal here, i talk to my some friends about sex too

[Fourth Dimension]

i talk about sex with friends all the time

[Nilnoc]

I can only have actual discussions about sex with one guy, and 2 girls. All of my other friends just talk about who they want to screw.

[Fruit_Tart.]

But my fear is that this could ruin the friendship or cripple it in someway, like, we can both talk to each other about anything but it's kinda difficult cause he doesnt reply too much :L, so I do a lot of talking but last night he talked a lot more, he asked me if I jerked off, he asked me if I was gay, several times, he asked me what size my dick is, he asked me a lot of stuff that I wouldn't have expected a straight guy to say, I'm just 16, he is 15 in august and I don't know what to do, he seems to be acting gay, and I don't know how to feel about it cause I like him but I don't know how much, he is such a good friend and as far as we both know we are straight but some of his questions last night make me think differently.... :/
Would it matter if he was gay? I mean I could understand if he were trying to force something upon you, but would you think of him differently if he was? Talking about sex/techniques is one thing and it's normal, but revealing sexuality is a whole other step and if he is gay then he's just letting you know that he's confident enough to tell you and he trusts you with his secret. Just think about what and how your going to react, brace yourself because it could break your friendship apart. I wish you the best of luck and that your friendship sustains through all the tough times. :) g'luck!

[Toasteroven]

Would it matter if he was gay? I mean I could understand if he were trying to force something upon you, but would you think of him differently if he was? Talking about sex/techniques is one thing and it's normal, but revealing sexuality is a whole other step and if he is gay then he's just letting you know that he's confident enough to tell you and he trusts you with his secret. Just think about what and how your going to react, brace yourself because it could break your friendship apart. I wish you the best of luck and that your friendship sustains through all the tough times. :) g'luck!

The thing is, I think I was having some sort of attraction and talking about this stuff with him REALLY put me off him, and today in school he was looking at me differently, he was just kinda staring, I have no idea on what I'm doingnhere :/

[Infidelitas]

This does'nt matter. I can probably say that most boys your age would talk about sex, I certainly did :P

[Aussie16]

Yeah I have talked to some of my good guy friends about it before, unfortunately nothing good to talk about :( but more about our sexual urges and masturbating :)
xxxx

[adkt]

it pretty normal alot of guys do it, maybe not so much the techniques though

[MusicManic]

Deffinitely not! My friends and I talk about sex all the time. This is totally normal. As you get older it gets less awkward.

[Starlight Blaze]

Yeah it's normal. I'm still trying to find someone to talk to, but I know guys do it all the time.
And if he's gay, and if you have an attraction to him, maybe you should date, at least to see what it's like.

[blaine97]

I think it's normal.

[crazycoller]

He is likely curious about his own sexuality - you may be as well. Just tell him that you're straight. Conversations like that though are perfectly normal and good for you

[ShaneK]

It wouldn't b normal if you didn't talk ta someone bout sex. Jus curiousity that everyone has - perfectly normal

[Evan-9]

Talk about it with friends all the time. Its normal stuff.

[Kevwee]

No its not weird. I believe thats what most friends do is talk about sex and other things like that with their friends. It's completely normal :D

[SuperSuraj]

If thats weird then im a FREAK cause me and my friends have a lot of these convesations haha. But really if you feel like its ruining your friendship then just stop, your just naturally curious about stuff and so is he, it doesnt make you gay in any way. If YOU feel like its ruining your friendship then YOU have the choice to stop talking about it. I feel like its normal but it isnt my friendship its yours.

[steve76]

i do it all the time

[SWMG]

It is normal dont worry

[Spock]

all of my friends and i talk about personal stuff but never got further then jerking off and cut/uncut questions

[bisguy3]

I talk about sex and jackin off all the time with my friends. Id almost say that it would be unnormal to not at somepoint talked about that stuff with them.

[Less]

I've never talked to anybody about these things, nor would I ever. To me, talking about private things is weird.

[Erictw1]

Not really, my best friend and I do it all the time. Sometimes it leads to "experimentation."

[Wicked_Syn]

My best friend and I had over 5 hours of conversation and nearly all of it was about sex, we even got onto the topic of jerking off and we both admitted to eachother that we do it. We are both straight guys and there is just over a year and a half age difference between us, neither of us have spoken about our personal actions to another person before, we went into great detail, asked lots of personal questions such as what have we done, when, where, what we feel like after, why we do it, etc etc, we even shared techniques and stories of times that we have done it where it was particullary special or something. We have both told eachother that we are comfortable talking about it but I'm having doubts, is this normal to talk about with a friend? Should we talk again?

Btw, this is my first post so if I've done something wrong let me know, thanks :)

Nah man, not weird at all. That happened to me and my old best friend when we started hanging out a lot. We even did a tiny bit more stuff. But it's normal. Don't worry, just human nature taking it's course.

[Jmann]

my best friend who is like a brother to me talks bout sex with me all the time. i also talk to everyone bout sex

[RoseyCadaver]

Nah it's "normal".I for one have no problem talking about sex with a friend,or anyone for that matter.

[achris15mbi]

Dude totally normal. I'm bicurious and i always talk to my straight friends about these things like "how big are you" and how much do u jerk off. totally normal i mean guys have to talk about it to some-one. And you guys are friends so it doesnt really matter man. its all good!

[Mrnitemare241]

It is not bad it all comes down to if you can trust them and if you are comfortable with eachother its no big deal

[Joshuagoesrawr2]

I think now that you both r on a personal level he has opened up to you and your seeing things that were hidden before. Also he might be adjusting to the info of you. I know this may not make sense so go on my profile and leave visitor messages. i will answer back privately. I know what it feels like on your end of the situation and what it feels like to be on his side too.

[Spock]

my friends and i do that stuff all the time that is what friends are for

[LuckyLuke]

My best friend and I had over 5 hours of conversation and nearly all of it was about sex, we even got onto the topic of jerking off and we both admitted to eachother that we do it. We are both straight guys and there is just over a year and a half age difference between us, neither of us have spoken about our personal actions to another person before, we went into great detail, asked lots of personal questions such as what have we done, when, where, what we feel like after, why we do it, etc etc, we even shared techniques and stories of times that we have done it where it was particullary special or something. We have both told eachother that we are comfortable talking about it but I'm having doubts, is this normal to talk about with a friend? Should we talk again?

Btw, this is my first post so if I've done something wrong let me know, thanks :)

Honestly, it'd be a bit unusual if you didn't. My friends and I, esp. the freakin' track team, discuss this A LOT. Even last night, as my female friend and I were watching television we started talking about sex. Totally normal and as long as YOU'RE comfortable, it's 100% okay. If you're not comfortable, than don't discuss it.

[bornthisway]

If you guys are comfortable talking about it, then talk about it. It's not a crime to talk about sex.

[Michigan48111]

I talk to my best friend all the time about it, it's totally normal dude, all is good.

[chris4827]

dude you have to have a conversation like that at least once just to see what else is out there and to see what everybody else is doing.

[ALL4]

Dude its normal, im straight and i even talk about sex with my straight friends that are girls....dont worry

[The_Hundreds]

It's normal sometimes me and my friends talk about it.

[tonks12]

Dude, its fine. Most teenage guys have these talks at some point.

[djkid123]

i always do its normal

[boydude]

I love talking about it with my guy friends. Its all apart of being a guy!

[Tony223]

Dude totally normal. I'm bicurious and i always talk to my straight friends about these things like "how big are you" and how much do u jerk off. totally normal i mean guys have to talk about it to some-one. And you guys are friends so it doesnt really matter man. its all good!

I agree 100%

[Speedy29]

yea me nd mt friends always tlk bout the stuff we do

[aleexax3]

that is totally not weird at all, i do the same thing with my best friend all the time cause she had sex and i didnt so i love asking questions so when i do it i dont get scared.

[Just _1_ Look]

Haha it's normal dude

[judahtics]

completely normal! just remember, if a girl is involved, respect her and her reputation. i do not talk about things i do with my gf to people out of respect for her.

[Orton220]

Most friends talk about sex. Its part of life/teenager years

[Drew Tyler]

But my fear is that this could ruin the friendship or cripple it in someway, like, we can both talk to each other about anything but it's kinda difficult cause he doesnt reply too much :L, so I do a lot of talking but last night he talked a lot more, he asked me if I jerked off, he asked me if I was gay, several times, he asked me what size my dick is, he asked me a lot of stuff that I wouldn't have expected a straight guy to say, I'm just 16, he is 15 in august and I don't know what to do, he seems to be acting gay, and I don't know how to feel about it cause I like him but I don't know how much, he is such a good friend and as far as we both know we are straight but some of his questions last night make me think differently.... :/

It's very normal to talk about sex to friends! But what i question is this, you said that night he did a lot of talking and asking questions such as size, if you were gay and all things pertaining to YOU and your body. I believe he is at least bi and wants to know about you so that he can get a keen sense of where you stand with being gay. He's hinting to you, my friend!! It's time to start thinking about what you're going to do or say when he comes out and asks if you want to j/o together. I wouldn't stop being friends with him, but just be prepared for it. And are you fully aware of how you feel towards him?

Toasteroven...if you have any questions about this,please send me a message and we can talk about it more in depth. I'm 17 and gay. I've been where you are and I've been where he is.

[TheTrevor]

yeah its normal to talk about sex with a friend. i talk to my friends about sex stuff

[Youtubeuser101]

its normal if u trust him

[jason123]

NORMAL!! I talk sex with friends all the time

[alh1994]

Ya best friends always do that!!

[terbear]

All that conversation is totally normal.

[Shining Star]

I talk with certain friends about sex all the time

[Xilo]

It really depends on what you are talking about. If you are wondering whether it would be uncomfortable to talk about that, then it really depends on the preferences of that friend. Also the setting really helps. That is why alot of people feel comfortable talking about sex in these forums, because it is the right place for it.

[hhhfiuashfosihdf]

i always do it!

[bigdaddy101]

yeah its normal, I can talk about it with one friend but my other friend is such a pussy that he doesn't even masturbate at 15 years old!

[Jstr]

i talk about sex with people i barely know well not the jacking off part
but for bestfriend swe talk about everything

[Abigballofdust]

But my fear is that this could ruin the friendship or cripple it in someway, like, we can both talk to each other about anything but it's kinda difficult cause he doesnt reply too much :L, so I do a lot of talking but last night he talked a lot more, he asked me if I jerked off, he asked me if I was gay, several times, he asked me what size my dick is, he asked me a lot of stuff that I wouldn't have expected a straight guy to say, I'm just 16, he is 15 in august and I don't know what to do, he seems to be acting gay, and I don't know how to feel about it cause I like him but I don't know how much, he is such a good friend and as far as we both know we are straight but some of his questions last night make me think differently.... :/

From this I'd deduce he's building a safe basement for a coming out. MIGHT NOT BE. But from personal experience, I'm pretty sure this is it.
If he decides to come out I hope you'll accept him for what he is and remain good friends, he won't do anything without you letting him first so don't be scared of the fact he might be gay.

[DoctorWho]

My friend and I had a longer disscusion about sex

[StoppingTime]

....

[CODfan2]

me and my friends talk about sex and jerking off all the time

[Julien7]

its a really good thing having an open relationship with a friend, does he feel comfortable about it all?

[Viva_Satanica]

If both of you feel that this is within your comfort zone, then this is perfectly alright. There is no need to feel if this is normal for teenagers.

[mynameisJ]

Its normal. As long as you know your limitations and dont get into anything wrong. IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. :)

[tiger22]

I talk to my best friend bout sex!


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[Fourth Dimension]

Both my male and female friends talk about sex quite a bit were like the golden girls lol

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[egotistic]

its normal dude i do it with all my friends (boy and girl) we are now live in a time where its fine so u should do it

[VamosToro]

I only talk to friends because unless they're gay they are feeling similar about girls and sex as I am.

[WonderTastic]

Too normal I do that with my cousins

[Depression]

Dude that is what friends are for. Talking about stuff that you cant talk about with most other people.

[lambo420]

No its not weird its normal

[jvballer]

ya it's normal

[Little Boy Big Toy]

every guy talks about sex. couldnt be more normal. in fact, if you never talk about it at all, thats not normal

[oceandude33a]

Yeah it normal but idont do it with all my friends only close ones

[lilj231]

Its normal,but I don't usually talk about that.

[LaxFB3]

Perfectly fine, nothing to worry about :D

[jacob_1995]

yeah man it's completely normal
me and my friends talk about sex all the time

[Curiousasian]

nope I believe all guys do it

[pineinchneis]

Me and my four best friends talk about sex and masturbation all the time. It's perfectly normal. We even do it during form time when the form tutor is in the same room (although we sit at the back)

[zack17]

very normal

[zack17]

me and my friend talk about sex alot

[Auzzie 94]

It's not weird if your friend is very open... and it's quite normal..

[thomasgj]

But my fear is that this could ruin the friendship or cripple it in someway, like, we can both talk to each other about anything but it's kinda difficult cause he doesnt reply too much :L, so I do a lot of talking but last night he talked a lot more, he asked me if I jerked off, he asked me if I was gay, several times, he asked me what size my dick is, he asked me a lot of stuff that I wouldn't have expected a straight guy to say, I'm just 16, he is 15 in august and I don't know what to do, he seems to be acting gay, and I don't know how to feel about it cause I like him but I don't know how much, he is such a good friend and as far as we both know we are straight but some of his questions last night make me think differently.... :/

whether he's gay or not shouldn't hurt your friendship? :/

[zach.tw97]

All friends do that! Its no big deal! ;)

[Bobble]

For me and my mates it was awkared until you realise that you all feel re same way so you just end up talking about it

[CharmOfTheSOuth]

id rather talk to a girl about it..

[wild1]

I must be shy about it compared to other guys because i hardly ever say anything about sex to my friends.

[Amphibliam]

I talk about sex with all my friends, and everyone assumes that everyone jacks off so it's really not a big deal. I mean like probably 1/20 people DON'T do it.

[cerney]

I do, and ive jacked off with some of my friends. it totally normal.

[Tiggz]

Theres nothing wrong with discussing it with someone you trust as long as your both ok with discussing it yure good :D

[Soccer-is-life]

I'm the same way with my friend and the same situation came up and now I don't know how I feel about it now -.-

[OregonStateDude]

Me and my best friend are both 14. So of course we talk about it. It doesn't get weird, 'cuz he knows I won't get all squirrelly on him. We just talk about what makes us feel good.

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Yeah it is completely normal. All guys usually have one friend who they tell everything to.

[cierasuzzanne]

yea it's normal lol me and my friends talk about everything,, our boobs, vag., and makeup, abs, and boys..lol

[Jevon]

Me and my friends talk about sex all the time

[Jtyler]

It's perfectly normal do it all the time

[GreatestAffection]

Nope

[jit5347]

many friends do this and show each other their dicks and end up jerking off..its totally normal

[whiteyrhys]

Yeah - that's normal :) Don't worry about it, considering you're both guys and full of testosterone... most conversations guys have is about sex and sub consciously our minds are constantly thinking about it - if you look at a brain chart you'll find that part of your brain is constantly thinking about sex :)

[adam94]

IT is extremely normal, i have a friend that i talk to like that. It is good to have someone that close that you feel comfortable enough to talk to like that.

[danny7]

me n my friends talk about it all the times.. no problem with that.

[skandardude]

just a normal teenage guy topic of conversation. completely normal! :D

[Ben_E]

Yea it's totally normal to talk about sex and masturbating with your friends, that's how me and my best mate found out our other 2 friends from school were J/O together just like we were. We laughed, told storys, compared what we'd both done when J/Oing together. From there the 4 os us never looked back and still hang out and have fun together.

[Christheman]

dude its nothing wrong me and my friend talk about sex and j/o all the time

[ImCoolBeans]

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