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Starlight Blaze
April 1st, 2011, 11:37 PM
So I have a emotional atraction to guys and girls, and a physical attraction to guys. But with girls, I can't see me having sex with one, ever. I could have a close relationship, hold hands, kiss, maybe make out, but never sex.
That doesn't mean I'm gay right?
I'm pretty sure I'm just bi, but the whole sex thing is strange to me.

Anyway, I just wanted your guys' (and girls') opinions.

WAFFLES
April 1st, 2011, 11:44 PM
Do you get aroused by girls? Or do you get aroused by males?
If you don't know, try testing which one you get aroused by.

AussieBiBoy
April 2nd, 2011, 02:40 AM
Yeah I am similar except I feel no emotional attraction to guys. I would say you are bi but I would say from the sounds of what you have said that you will most likely find a male partner in life and settle down with him :)

The Dudeh
April 2nd, 2011, 06:04 AM
I'd say you're bi, because if I'm correct in thinking - you need to have emotional attractions to BOTH genders to be bi. But tbh there's no need to label yourself - I've seen many people just say "I like who I like, end of".

Emiil
April 2nd, 2011, 07:47 AM
Sounds like you are bi :)

Starlight Blaze
April 2nd, 2011, 10:03 AM
Do you get aroused by girls? Or do you get aroused by males?
If you don't know, try testing which one you get aroused by.

so far, i only get aroused by guys
i mean, i haven done much but im not sure i need to

Dunce
April 2nd, 2011, 02:44 PM
You're biromantic and homosexual... so in easier terms you're basically bi. Biromantic means you are romantically attracted to both sexes and homosexual means you're sexually attracted to the opposite sex.. so yeah, there's no term to describe your exact sexuality, but bisexual is probably the closest you'll get :D

smitty35
April 3rd, 2011, 01:39 PM
Since you dont ever see yourself having intercourse with a girl...I think you are gay. But keep in mind that you still have time to decide who/what you are and dont jump to any decision that you may regret in the future.