regret

[Falloutdude]

well last year, i "experamented" with another guy, and i didnt enjoy it at all. in fact, i was depressed till just a few months ago from this whole mess. i was just wondering, if there is anything that i can do to make this stop bothering me!?

[Fushigi]

stop thinking about it.. and focus on something that will make you busy.... and do some recreational activities.. im sure you will forget what happened that day.... ;)

[Falloutdude]

thankyou, i really hope something works eventually.:(

[Starlight Blaze]

well it was just a mistake you learn from your mistakes
just forget about it by keeping yourself busy

[TomBaseball]

If u r depressed talk to your guidance counselor. After my dad died I was really depressed and went to talk to her and it helped.

[the wasabi]

like what master of bate said, see a guidance counselor or some professional help.
but you're probably embarrassed about it, and you just gotta tell yourself that it wasn't wrong. you didn't do anything bad. don't think bad about it, or don't think about it all. have distractions. hang out with friends, and if you have a close friend you couldtell him about it.

[AussieBiBoy]

Ah dude that sucks, I hate regret :S You should talk to someone about it, often just telling someone about it will make it so much better. I experimented with someone when I was very young (8/9/10 years old) and then was so embarrased and ashamed so i told someone and then it was ok :) Obviously Im bi now so I no longer regret it and realise it wasnt a big deal but it was back then :)

[Aeroflux17]

Ah dude that sucks, I hate regret :S You should talk to someone about it, often just telling someone about it will make it so much better. I experimented with someone when I was very young (8/9/10 years old) and then was so embarrased and ashamed so i told someone and then it was ok :) Obviously Im bi now so I no longer regret it and realise it wasnt a big deal but it was back then :)

You're Great man. :)

[XFlyboyX]

You can just do stuff with girls dude and don't worry abut what you did its the past you can't let that take you down like that

[MassiveAttack]

dont think about it anymore, move on, and try to find new hobbies to take up more time and so you wont think about it anymore.

[MusicManic]

Well you could confide in a friend, or talk to a counselor. Sorry that is all I know to tell you.

[smitty35]

Mabye you couls just think about something else. You enjoyed it right? So think of it as a good thing not a bad thing :-).

[Fishes]

just put it in ur past dont think a bout it and its over now so u dont have to worry anymore

[ArkDude]

Dude I totally feel the same! Wanting to see the competition it's normal it puberty. :) unless you actually start being attracted to guys it's another title but I don't judge people if they're gay,bi,or str8 :)

[qmann8]

something happened to me thats really similar, just focus on something else and really fill up your free time to get your mind off it

[Jupiter]

Well, we all need to stop living in the past, because honestly, there's nothing we can do about it. What's done is done, and all you can do is learn from your mistakes.

[Spock]

i am curently in that same spot. But the boy i mistakenly did it with has turned into such a pervert. I am curentlly trying to stop talking to him and trying to stop bugging me! so yeah.

[ImCoolBeans]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: