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Skrate
April 1st, 2011, 09:43 PM
Goddamn, dont you hate when you love someone so much that you convince yourself and convince yourself that they love you back but you dont want to act on because of that doubt?

Im going ouy on a limb here - being gay/bi is so much harder than being straight.

But that's not my point.

I want to know if he's gay. Simple as that. But i dont want to ask him without the odds stacked for me (im a pussy, I know). He's a little more on the feminine side to start of, with a real boyish figure but he's tall and lanky (like me). He's not very... How do you say... Not outgoing but... Gregarious! That's the word. He's friendly and not shy, but he's not particularly gregarious. A little bit passive, when he's walking down the halls he always has one hand on the other arm, looks like he's shy. Me and him are pretty good friends, and I may (note: may) have seen him looking at me when we were talking in the halls/in class (i mean like checking out looking). He asked a girl if she thought a guy was hot (he is, at least to me), kind of randomly, and then a couple days later when the same guy came around he might have been looking at his ass (i dunno).

The other day he was talking to someone close to me (distancewise, haha), and he was standing right over me. I think he was brushing his crotch over my shoulder, lightly but i could feel it, i dunno if it was intentional or not. Then today we were walking up the stairs and he randomly said "im tired, can somebody carry me?" (this was at school btw). I was like what the hell (as in like, why not?) and said "i gotcha), and he jumped into my arms. I had my hand close to his butt (i think) but he didnt seem to mind. And then later he complimented me on my hair (i was estatic).

So... Que piensas? (what do you think).

Orpheus
April 1st, 2011, 10:00 PM
Hard to tell. I'd say it's 50/50. Also he may act a little gayer around you if he knows your gay.

Skrate
April 1st, 2011, 10:02 PM
Haha... Fyi im not out.

At all. Ive asked a couple people and theyve said im the farthest kid from being gay/bi. Haha.

iamniokekun
April 1st, 2011, 10:10 PM
My guess is that he's bi at the very least. If not, he's metro (which means straight while having "gay" tendencies).

My personal opinion would be to just ask. It's easier than you think. It is what it is, you don't wanna spend forever wondering. So go for it. :)

Skrate
April 1st, 2011, 10:13 PM
Ah, dont throw metro into the mix. I think i would cry for a year straight.

If he's bi, that would be better than him being gay. :))

Dimitri
April 1st, 2011, 10:30 PM
I am sorry man but I would have to go with metro, you basically described me, i however am more of a people person.

Skrate
April 1st, 2011, 10:32 PM
Well, fuck :((

Ah, well, ill ask him over spring break.

AussieBiBoy
April 1st, 2011, 10:35 PM
I would try and do some more detective work first haha. Maybe bring up masturbating or something and see how he reacts. Nothing that makes you gay but if he jumps on the topic and keeps talking about it he probably is. Either way, if you trust him not to tell, just talk to him and tell him your gay/bi. If he is as well he will tell you and if he isnt then just make sure he is trustworthy and wont tell people :) good luck

Skrate
April 1st, 2011, 10:37 PM
Thanks, aussie :)

See! He didnt have to bring up that cursed word, metro! Haha, jk ;)

Dimitri
April 1st, 2011, 11:13 PM
I am sorry but godspeed my friend

tyler007
April 2nd, 2011, 01:26 PM
I would try and do some more detective work first haha. Maybe bring up masturbating or something and see how he reacts. Nothing that makes you gay but if he jumps on the topic and keeps talking about it he probably is. Either way, if you trust him not to tell, just talk to him and tell him your gay/bi. If he is as well he will tell you and if he isnt then just make sure he is trustworthy and wont tell people :) good luck

Hey i think this is pretty good advice...about bringing up masturbatiing, and maybe invite him for a sleep over too and see what happenes. As far as you telling him that your BI, and hes cute thats up to you, and if it feels right. I think he is send you alot of good singles and you are sending them back. If you really want to know then you have to spend more time with him, or take the risk and tell...i dont really think you can do it in a funny way and take it back later, so be sure you want too.

Good luck

JonTyler
April 2nd, 2011, 02:29 PM
Hey i think this is pretty good advice...about bringing up masturbatiing, and maybe invite him for a sleep over too and see what happenes. As far as you telling him that your BI, and hes cute thats up to you, and if it feels right. I think he is send you alot of good singles and you are sending them back. If you really want to know then you have to spend more time with him, or take the risk and tell...i dont really think you can do it in a funny way and take it back later, so be sure you want too.

Good luck

This right here..

good luck my friend

smitty35
April 3rd, 2011, 01:42 PM
Well, Im pretty sure he is bi mabye even gay. You dont know for sure until you know for sure. I like the masterbation idea to, just ask him and see what he says. Also, I think the penis brushing on your shoulder thing was intentional. The reason I think it was intentional was because any guy who has his penis touching another person would take a step back and he didnt.

blaine97
April 7th, 2011, 11:34 AM
I think he's probably bi/gay. Tll me wht happens.