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vurt7
April 1st, 2011, 06:21 PM
Ok so me and my girlfriend recently started doing sexual things, everything but sex and I am usually fine with it. She has had sex before and I haven't and this is my first time ever doing stuff sexually like this. And idk if it is that I am nervous or what but when I am horny I will do stuff but if I start to think about it or not in the mood I freak out thinking she wants to do stuff. idk why it is making me nervous like this but it is, so any advice is greatly appreciated!
Falloutdude
April 1st, 2011, 08:29 PM
your probably just nervous because its new to you. or because you dont want to disapoint her. both of them would be my problem haha
JonTyler
April 1st, 2011, 08:55 PM
your probably just nervous because its new to you. or because you dont want to disapoint her. both of them would be my problem haha

This is my guess.. that or your body is telling you your not ready
smitty35
April 1st, 2011, 08:55 PM
I think you are feeling this way because you have never done this. Give it some time and I think the puzzle pieces will fall in place.
Fact
April 1st, 2011, 08:57 PM
Puberty :arrow2: Relationships
MassiveAttack
April 2nd, 2011, 11:55 AM
your probably just nervous because its new to you. or because you dont want to disapoint her. both of them would be my problem haha

i agree with FalloutDude, your probably just nervous!
MusicManic
April 9th, 2011, 08:29 PM
Nerves is a natural part of sex. Make sure you ready to accept the consequences of sex before you take part in it.
dmeek7
April 10th, 2011, 12:59 AM
your probably just nervous because its new to you. or because you dont want to disapoint her. both of them would be my problem haha

If you do it once, you'll be fine the rest of your life. It won't ever be like it is now for you.

my first time doing sexual stuff, It was actually when I was a freshman, and I was having a "fun" night with my senior friend, and it ended up being a sort of a three some with my best friend and her and I, but without sex. I did everything for the first time that night but have sex and get a bj. It was extremely nerve racking and stuff (not because of the three sum thing, but b/c it was my first time) but It turned out really well (besides the fact that my best friend, who has done everything, hogged her from me the whole time) so from that night on I decided that if I ever do a three sum again, it would be Girl Girl Guy
Rayquaza
April 10th, 2011, 04:14 PM
seriously nerves. Was talking to my friend once and he said that on his first time it lasted for 5 minutes.