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love is louder
April 1st, 2011, 04:14 PM
do you self harm. and how much
if its every couple of days like me is it because your really busy or other reasons?

Love.Hate
April 1st, 2011, 04:20 PM
Yes, too much.
I don't really have a set amount of days. It really varies.
Sometimes I can do it everyday for about a week sometimes I can last weeks without (rarely, but it happens) everyone is different.

FullyAlive
April 1st, 2011, 04:28 PM
Yes I self harm, and idk usually quite a lot.
Erm like fran it varies, depending on how I feel at the time some days I'll cut several times other days I won't cut at all. Although on a day I do cut, I tend to do quite a lot. I've never gone more than a week without cutting and that was only once it's usually less. However this week is going well so far (*touch wood*) day 4.

But as Fran said everyone is different it really depends on the person.

RAWWR
April 1st, 2011, 05:17 PM
It depends...I go through stages. In my worst stage I was doing 200+ everyday. In my best I went a whole month without self harm. It just...changes.

Fiction
April 1st, 2011, 05:24 PM
As others have said it changes.

I go through periods where i'm cutting almost everyday, and others where it's once a week.

love is louder
April 1st, 2011, 05:31 PM
just making sure im normal, well.
i usually do it 3/4/5 times a week
i have been doing it for 5 years now
but not all the time
sometimes i can go for months then all of a sudden its everyday for weeks
sometime it feels like its catching up on itself. when i go for a while without it so its just easier to do it like i do now.

Syvelocin
April 1st, 2011, 06:46 PM
Yeah, it never was consistent. I might have a day between two incidents, or a month. Most of the times I self-harmed, I was really upset. A few of them were because I was thinking about it and wanted to see blood, but otherwise, it was always an immediate reaction to anger/sadness. And I get upset very easily, over very little. :/ So when I self-harmed was dependent on when I got upset.

alley
April 2nd, 2011, 06:18 AM
depends, usually everyday though.

The Dudeh
April 2nd, 2011, 06:21 AM
Yeah like most people hasve said, it changes. Sometimes it's everyday, sometimes it's like every 3-5 days. Just depends what's going on really.

1_21Guns
April 2nd, 2011, 07:53 AM
I've stopped now, but when I did self harm it was never overly consistant. There was only one period of time I did it every day, which didn't last long. It was usually every few days, I either didn't feel like it, or was just simply too busy.

beag_amhain
April 2nd, 2011, 08:55 AM
ummm it use to be every second or third day but now its everyday, at least once, but now in a few weeks itl go back to every few days, its like a cycle, guess it just depends on the person

Ambrosia
April 2nd, 2011, 09:45 AM
Shall I be repeptitive?

It's never consistent!

Sometimes I do it for a week straight, even more, every day or every other day or every two days. Sometimes I can go for a couple of weeks without doing it (But I hit myself, so I guess it depends on how you look at it). It all just depends.