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Afraid Of Me
March 31st, 2011, 01:57 PM
yeah so i'd like some advice please?
uhm i was exposed to pornography at a very young age. like 6 or 7.
and then it became a habit of me watching it while i was 14, 15, and 16. and no i dont watch it still of course. but from seeing that for so long i've noticed that when i'm in a relationship i dont feel like i'm being satisfied sexually. which is wierd because my most current ex and i had sex and it made me feel completely different towards her and we broke up. all of this has caused me to realize that i dont think i know whats important in a relationship. this gets to me because i want to be in a meaningful relationship that doesnt have anything to do with sexuality. and i dont know how to understand what a meaningful relationship is. hm. help?
smitty35
March 31st, 2011, 07:50 PM
I think you should experiment. No, not with other teens or anything. I mean that you should give up porn for certain periods of time. Like for a week then a month and so on. Do all of this while in a relationship. I think that you still don’t know the fundamentals of a relationship. All you are thinking about is to be with her naked and have sex with her. Yes, that is normal and don’t all guys want that? No, its not what you should want at first....you have to get to know her and love her before you have sex. I’m not saying that you have to wait until you are married, but wait until you love her and she loves you.......
Afraid Of Me
April 1st, 2011, 06:31 AM
i agree with you 100 percent. i havnt watched that stuff in like 2 years but i feel like it messed me up you know?
SylvioUltima
April 1st, 2011, 06:47 AM
I've actually read something about this.. Porn tends to make your actual sexual expierences boring, you feel as if you have seen better, therefore you have done better. I suggest not watching porn, and just developing your relationships a little better. :]
ttuip
April 3rd, 2011, 04:15 PM
I've actually read something about this.. Porn tends to make your actual sexual expierences boring, you feel as if you have seen better, therefore you have done better. I suggest not watching porn, and just developing your relationships a little better. :]

He has already said that he hasn't watch/seen pornography in two years :P but your advice is really good and true :P
connormac
April 13th, 2011, 09:56 PM
just jack off if u arent satisfied; you don't have to use porn for that
swindy43
April 14th, 2011, 02:24 AM
yup,you're right.