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DylanHege
March 30th, 2011, 09:42 PM
A few times I've had my friends stay the night and I will touch their penis and butt. Sometimes I will rub my penis aganist them. Idk if this normal.. I'm just so curious. Help please?:what:

VerizoniPhone
March 30th, 2011, 09:50 PM
i mean its not that its not weird. It is but its something that turns you on. does he know that you do this? don't get caught or bad things will happen lol

AussieBiBoy
March 31st, 2011, 04:44 AM
I know its a turn on and very hot but you MUST stop doing it. It is illegal and technically rape as they did not give you consent. How would you feel if someone was touching you in your sleep and you didnt know they were doing it? I mean you might find it hot if you were awake and knew it was happening but its different when you/they are asleep. Maybe he knows its going on and enjoys it but you dont know. You should try and ask him if you want to do that sort of stuff, obviously it would be a very difficult topic to raise and I wouldnt tell him what you have done, just ask if he wants to do that sort of stuff. If you dont want to ask him then dont do it anymore because, as I said, it is illegal. Im not going to pretend that I havent considered it before and I find the idea a massive turn on but its illegal and thats what has got to be the biggest thing. PM Me if you want to talk about this more or anything else :)

Quahog
March 31st, 2011, 06:41 AM
:arrow: Puberty for boys.

My diary is not the puberty section. I know you guys didn't mean to do it but.. yeah.

:)

Jordan13
March 31st, 2011, 07:06 AM
I wouldn't do it doesn't seem right

SylvioUltima
March 31st, 2011, 09:16 AM
Yes.. This is a little weird.. Even though its a turn on, you need to restrain yourself. I wouldn't want to see your next thread as: My friend beat the crap outta be because I touched him in his sleep.. The point is; You don't wanna ruin your friendship. Hope I helped a little.

AddyC
March 31st, 2011, 09:42 AM
This is illegal (at least in RO) and totally wrong, you MUST stop

Donkey
March 31st, 2011, 01:17 PM
In the eyes of the law, it's sexual harassment. A golden rule is to ensure you have consent before touching anybody in a sexual manner at all.

xXWatEvsXxXx
March 31st, 2011, 02:00 PM
Yeah, i would check with your friend before ever doing it again. you wouldnt want something like this to ruin your friendship

donidoni111
March 31st, 2011, 02:02 PM
Not! a good idea at all...hate to tell you but its a NO from me!

Cudder
March 31st, 2011, 03:48 PM
You should just ask your friend if you can touch him. I'm surprised he didn't wake up. Is it just me or would you guys wake up if someone stuck their hand down your pants?

Craig1995
March 31st, 2011, 04:12 PM
I don't think your friend would be very happy if he found out tbh

Wicked_Syn
March 31st, 2011, 04:25 PM
I have chosen to erase my previous answer to this thread

JonTyler
March 31st, 2011, 04:40 PM
I did that before. I was nervous for the next few weeks. You should stop. If he found out, he could call the police. He could even (in my eyes, worse) Tell the school what you did. Imagine every kid knowing you humped him while he was sleeping and touching his penis. JUST THINK.

That would suck.. LOL

I would stop :p

itsthat0n3kid
March 31st, 2011, 05:27 PM
yea thats pretty wierd.. and technically rape......

chaz2
March 31st, 2011, 05:43 PM
ya probably not a good idea unless your friend says it is ok

smitty35
March 31st, 2011, 06:27 PM
Ya, it is pretty weird, BUT I would do it to if I was ever in that situation. That would be a MAJOR turn on! I got turned on just by reading that. But, in reality it was and still is illegal. I suppose its a form of rape because you are sexually touching them.....But if you do happen to get caught, the consequences could be dire.

Oli S.
March 31st, 2011, 06:46 PM
i would wake up if someone was touching me while i was asleep
idk how your friends stay asleep while you do that.

salty
April 1st, 2011, 12:56 PM
Happened to me before and I had mixed feelings about it

sen69
April 1st, 2011, 04:08 PM
I have touched my friends while they were asleep but i did have their permission. Unless you have this it is rape and if you are under the age of consent or touching a person below the age of consent it is also statutory rape.

Dalman
April 1st, 2011, 05:10 PM
There is alot of discussion about this bring rape, maybe maybe not , I am mot a lawyer. I have been tempted and actually did it once, but I got caught. It was embarsssing. I decided that I wanted to be honest with how I felt and decided not to hide my feelings. If I have a close friend, I want to be able to say how I feel and not get into the habit of sneaking onto someones pants.

I think you have to decode what you want and how you feel and be honest about that.

Sean the Griffin
April 1st, 2011, 05:55 PM
I think its a dangerous thing to do because he might wake up and you could find yourself with a bad situation on your hands and you would def regret it. I've been at sleepovers where I've done this while he was asleep BUT we do stuff anyway so if he did wake up it would just be a laugh. But I find it exciting to feel someone's dick while he's asleep especially if it goes hard so i know where you're coming from but I would never do this with someone I didn't fool around with anyway. Its up to you but I would give it up.

Sogeking
April 1st, 2011, 06:06 PM
A few times I've had my friends stay the night and I will touch their penis and butt. Sometimes I will rub my penis against them. Idk if this normal.. I'm just so curious. Help please?:what:

No it's not. I suggest you refrain from doing this in the future as it will be awkward when he finds out and will probably change your relationship with him and not for the better. Not only that, this is borderline illegal.

walpurgusknight
April 1st, 2011, 09:56 PM
id quit doin that if i were u
thats nasty man and how would u feel if someone was touchin u like that?
if they really are ur friend, u would have been comfortable enough to talk to them about this

Orpheus
April 1st, 2011, 10:08 PM
A few times I've had my friends stay the night and I will touch their penis and butt. Sometimes I will rub my penis aganist them. Idk if this normal.. I'm just so curious. Help please?:what:

In answer to your question, no, this is not normal. You prolly got that idea from the previous posts.

XFlyboyX
April 2nd, 2011, 02:43 AM
Just think about the consequences before you do it

ponygon101
April 2nd, 2011, 04:30 AM
I wouldn't do it and to most people it is immoral. It's also illegal if you don't have their permission. I understand that you may like it but I highly recommend you stop.

paul955
April 3rd, 2011, 12:20 AM
Anyone that doesn't wake up from having their cock and ass touched is either
A) enjoying it while dreaming, thinking it's the person in their dream doing it
B) enjoying it, knowing that it's you, and they want you to think they're sleeping so you keep going
or
C) Dead.

Peacehippie666
April 3rd, 2011, 03:31 AM
I would stop that. As stated above, it's rape if they didn't give you consent.

Rayquaza
April 3rd, 2011, 06:10 AM
If its without permission, STOP AND ASK HIM.

Xperienced
April 3rd, 2011, 06:22 AM
I must admit, that does turn me on a little but I dont think you should do it :)

CaliKiDD
April 3rd, 2011, 08:56 AM
that is wierd...pointblank stop

JOSEE
April 3rd, 2011, 11:09 AM
I used to do it ALL the time

Aeroflux17
April 3rd, 2011, 11:15 AM
just STOP IT. :)

adkt
April 5th, 2011, 03:22 PM
that's wrong

blaine97
April 7th, 2011, 03:17 PM
Anyone that doesn't wake up from having their cock and ass touched is either
A) enjoying it while dreaming, thinking it's the person in their dream doing it
B) enjoying it, knowing that it's you, and they want you to think they're sleeping so you keep going
or
C) Dead.
Lol, he makes a point there...
From what I've read it sounds pretty cool but I've also read:confused:; it's pretty illegal.

Jigglypickle
April 7th, 2011, 04:01 PM
well i think this touching is you being gay which isn't that bad...do your friends know you might be curious or gay?+

drum major
April 7th, 2011, 04:33 PM
i would not continue doing this

Rodeo
April 7th, 2011, 08:02 PM
If they are cool with it then I days it is probably ok. Sounds like you are just horny and curious to me.

CantLiveWithoutYou
April 8th, 2011, 06:57 PM
It's not abnormal, but it's violating your friends' trust and comfort.

Soxfan14
April 8th, 2011, 11:48 PM
ive done this before. its like i really think theyre sexy and i know theyre not gay so i just do it cause i know ill never get a REAL chance. but id do it again.

silly teen
May 1st, 2011, 11:20 PM
did that once, not to proud, but i liked it

connormac
May 2nd, 2011, 05:09 PM
Dont do that; its really not cool; would you want that to happen to you without you knowing? i doubt it. If you want to experiment, just ask

Sogeking
May 2nd, 2011, 05:18 PM
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