Asking out

[Anyonewanttoflirt]

So i am having issues asking which girl I want to ask out one name is Lana and she is hot but can be really mean or the other girl sammantha which is nice and pretty and doesn't be mean

[justmehere]

Well it depends. are you picking the better personallity or looks?

[Sage]

Well it depends. are you picking the better personallity or looks?

Go for looks. It's not going to last long at your age and you have your whole life ahead of you to go for personality.

[Nihilus]

If both are pleasing to the eye, go for the nice one because you will have a better overall experience.

[itsthat0n3kid]

i personally go for personality more then looks. but thats just me.

[Jstr]

the mind or the eye
would you stand up for yourself with the good looking one when she is mean?
Or would you take advantage of the kind one?
would you look better with the good looking one?
or have a better reputation with the nice one?
Me i would go wit the nice one:D

[Bluesman]

I'd rather go out with someone who is not pretty but has a great personality than someone who is pretty but is a bitch. That's just me but I don't know why you would ever want to go out with someone that didn't have a personality you could get along with.

[SirRawrsalot]

I don't know why you would ever want to go out with someone that didn't have a personality you could get along with.

I believe the argument is somewhere along the lines of; "for the sex".

[Sage]

I believe the argument is somewhere along the lines of; "for the sex".

Yeah, sex is great.

[Nilnoc]

Fuck the sex, pardon the pun.

Ask Samantha out, she seems like a much better choice.

I mean, what's the point of a few lays that you're going to regret when she leaves you?

[Bluesman]

I believe the argument is somewhere along the lines of; "for the sex".

Sex is fun but do you really want be with someone only for the sex? If thats what you want then go ahead. I just dont see it being at all fulfilling.

[Sage]

Sex is fun but do you really want be with someone only for the sex?

That was implied, yes.

[electricfeel]

I'd say go for the girl with the good personality, because i dont think youd want to deal with a bitchy girlfriend. ^_^

[Raiders]

Go for looks. It's not going to last long at your age and you have your whole life ahead of you to go for personality.

Couldnt agree more

[Fact]

So i am having issues asking which girl I want to ask out one name is Lana and she is hot but can be really mean or the other girl sammantha which is nice and pretty and doesn't be mean

Go for looks. It's not going to last long at your age and you have your whole life ahead of you to go for personality.

Whilst I agree with this based on the circumstances - age, how the girls have been described etc. it is still important to know where to draw the line on choosing girls just for sex or because of how they look. Perhaps not at your age, because if you're judging girls purely on their appearance and being a bit 'mean', then you're not likely to care about personality if you're still considering her as an option, but in the future (most probably years later) it's worth remembering these kinds of situations and asking yourself which girl you'd choose if you could take yourself back to that moment.

[Eagle63]

A lot of people are real snotty and mean on the outside, but not bad once u get to know them. As teens, a lot of people are bitter about being streotyped about the people they hang out with (i.e., not all nerds are anti-social, not all theater kids are gay, not all cheerleaders are mean and\or a bit slutty, etc.) Never judge a person til u get to know them.

This girl at my school, she seemed like such a bitch and all my friends hated her and disapproved of me liking her. When I got to know her, she was the nicest and most caring person I ever met. Not all high school\college social stereotypes are true.

In summary, go with what you think is best, but know that not all mean girls on the outside are heartless on the inside.