Does he, doesn't he?

[clr9823]

Hi,
well there's this guy - wee bit smaller, blue eyed, freckles, ginger haired... really cute :wub: and I've kinda had a crush on him for three years, but it's only been this year where I think there's been sommin' going on.

It all started in physics, when he started rubbing my leg and playing around like that. And it's just been developing since, for example I had my hand on my knee working on a problem, he put his hand on top of mine briefly then giggled.

It came to a head at Christmas when we'd been flirting at the cinema as part of a school trip, and it ended up with him pointing to his cheek and saying "do it"... I knew he wanted me to kiss him, but a slight hesitation and the moment was over; one of my friends started watching us.

Since then it's kinda been calmer, no rubbing of legs, but we still do things like slightly too much hand touching etc... and we're always playfully annoying each other.

BUT he keep saying to me he's straight, that he's "secure in his sexuality" etc... but it kinda seems insincere.

The couple friends I can trust enough to ask are giving me conflicting conclusions so -what do you think, is there something there, at least enough to give me a shot? Also, considering our main exams are up in two months, should I leave it until after or do it now?

Thanks :)

[alc410]

u shud walk up to him and look him strait in th ys and ask him out and see what he says if he says no then u and him cud go bak to thh same way u were as friends:)

[Fruit_Tart.]

sounds like you're in love. :) it's great to be, eh? ^_^ well i think you should just let time take the two of you. if he wants to come onto you and tell you that he also has feelings then it'll happen. i know you might want an answer immediately, but it's best to wait so you don't ruin your friendship. BUT if you feel confident enough to ask him or approach him in some manner where you reveal that you like him then be my guest. best of luck to you! :D hope everything goes smoothly for you and i hope you get what you want. ;)

[clr9823]

Thanks for the responses :) well I kinda hit a lucky break, as I'm moving house he said he wanted to come round to my new place to see it, and in the same lesson there was the usual combination of flirting/chat but it seemed a little... I dunno, deeper? And he also winked at me when we were flirting :wub: anyway, I think you're right, just gonna let this one play itself out cause it should be over fairly soon one way or the other :) thanks for your help again

[swindy43]

sounds like you're in love

[biffen94]

Haha I hope you guys end up together ^^ sounds so cute! I want that to happen to me too ^^ he sounds bi at least. Even if he's confident in his sexuality, why would he flirt with you? Joke around like you should give him a peck on the cheek, well, that's okay. But flirting with you? He seems attracted to you =)