Figuring out?

[spw184]

Today at school I was telling my friends (as a comment about a conversation about gay people in military ) that gays should be able to speak their mind and maybe even flirt a little with straight people, but after a while they need to learn that no means no. Than my friend who is about as pro-homosexuality as a straight man can get, asked me if i was talking about my self. He tried to pass it off as a joke but he sounded dead serious when he said it.

For a while i have been questioning my sexuality and have come to accept it, however im still trying to figure out a way to tell people. Often we go to vollyball games so they can watch the girls in tight pants and shirts play, and i have trouble fakeing that im "arroused" and i feel as though ^^^ this comment ^^^ confirmed my fears. Im not sure if i should just say it or if i should let them peice in together. Any advice?

(and maybe i should mention that i seriously am into the friend that said that in the first paragraph.)

[redmann]

Idk really what to tell you other than your not alone cause im pretty much in the same boat. i have had a hard time with it too and people have asked if i was gay and i just kind of try to laugh it off. but i have told some people that im gay and beleive me it helps alot . hope i helped:-)

[smitty35]

Since you dont show much attraction to girls in tight cloths...I think that you may be gay. BUT THATS OK! I usually tell everyone who are unsure to come out, to wait until they graduate high school or college. That gives them the time that they need to figure out who/what they are. So my advice to you is to wait until you know for sure who you really are and what you want to be. This decision ultimately affects the rest of your life. Keep the in mind before making a final decision.


P.S THIS IS MY 1,000th post!!!!!!!!!!!! YAY!!!!! Im SOOOO happy!!!!

[AussieBiBoy]

I reckon go ahead and tell them dude. If they are your friends they will accept you for it, if not then they arent your real friends anyway :) good luck

[biffen94]

It's easier said than done but I'd tell them if they were true friends. You should have that confidence to tell them and know they wouldn't treat you any differently than before. If they do you'll know they weren't right for you because if you're who you are and they can't take that... Well, they can't take YOU. That's their loss. Tough huh? But it doesn't sound like he would reject you and stop being your friend. Definitely not, just sounds like he was curious!