'Fluctuation'

[ghostbom]

Hi! I'm Bi, yet sometimes I'm more leaneant towards females and visa-versa, I was just wondering if other Bis, and to a lesser extent, straights and gays, ever experienced the same thing, thanks!

[Demonfeet]

I'm straight but sometimes i like what i see in the locker room i guess

[Donkey]

I believe that few people are totally straight, or totally gay. I'm certainly neither.

[Fact]

Puberty :arrow2: Sexuality

I think that a lot of people will have experiences outside their expressed sexuality, so like Jon said, most people lie along the scale somewhere, rather than a definite black-white scheme.

[CaptainObvious]

I believe that few people are totally straight, or totally gay. I'm certainly neither.

that's pretty much it. although few does not mean none, i for example have never had a sexual thought about a girl in my life.

[Lucky5555]

i did when i waqs yoiunger....now im fully gay. ;)

[kMan137]

Same here dude!

[ghostbom]

Alright! Thanks guys, and sorry for being a bit of a noob with my placement of the thread!

[grstl]

I was gay
tried straight
now gay with straight "consequences".

I think many people aren't sure until after several experiences........don't worry about labels, though.
Enjoy finding out who you are, but be careful not to have awkward or unwanted "consequences"

[smitty35]

Like Donkey said, there arent really that many people who are 100% of one thing. Thats when curiousity take place......and boy do I love curiousity! :-)

[The Dill]

I personally think I am even, but sometimes I would love to cuddle with a guy.

[MissPenguin]

I consider myself bi with leaning more toward girls lately, but I've dated guys as late as mid December, I guess I feel I'm still "young" enough to not have a set label on me yet

[Zazu]

I think as a lot of people have said, sexuality is never a fixed thing. It goes all over the bloody place most of the time for some people.

I now consider myself to be gay but I can still look at the odd woman and find some attraction and know of many others of varying interests who come across the same thing.

[Apollo.]

I would say I am 99% gay, I just don't really see the attraction to girls lol.

[Syvelocin]

Like David said, it does fluctuate in a lot of people. Some people have it easy and know right off the bat that they're fully gay. I thought I was straight up until my teen years, when I had my first crush on a girl. Then I thought I was bi for a while, liking guys more than girls. Later, I lost a lot of my attraction to men (though it's always difficult in cases like mine, where past rape and abuse can come into that mix), as well as found a new label for myself, pansexual. And even at eighteen, I'm starting to think about whether I should call myself lesbian or not. I'm emotionally attracted to my husband, but I find no other interest in guys. Girls however, I'm crazy for :P

So for some people, they know quick and early, and others, go back and forth until it settles eventually, which can take years. I know of people who have been much older and finally figured out that they're gay. Sexuality is just such a complex topic.

[Fourth Dimension]

honestly with me i know how you feel i mean i have more of an attraction to guys but sometimes it will go to the total oppisette

[Aussie16]

I feel this all the time. One minute I am having a sexual fantasy about a girl and the next its a guy. Its not always sexual either, usually I imagine a relationship with a girl but sometimes its an amazing guy. I dont know, its confusing :P
xxxx

[A.J.]

Theres a sexuality spectrum, kinsey concluded >1% of the population is totally gay or straight

[Anyonewanttoflirt]

Hi don't worry ya to young wait a bit

[tpzy94]

i know im straight but like idk i just wonder if im right in the right places so i wonder a bit but never think about kissing or going out wit guys...i just see if im right and stuff ya know

[Bkylblk]

My Brain AND my body do that a lot. Some days I'll be mentally attracted to someone yet not physically attracted, then vice versa. It's really annoying but after a while you get used to it

[Yianni]

I've been experiancing the same thing too!

[Spook]

I'm bi...I have a current boyfriend, but I am also attracted to girls.

[Craig1995]

A mate told me that sometimes he only liked girls say for nine months and then almost only liked boys for a time if that's what u mean. :)
I dont think I've ever liked girls tho so no fluctuation for me :/