why does it have to be so difficult

[thecanadianfawcett]

hey i have recently discovered my sexual preferences and have discovered i am bisexual i want to tell people because i feel sort of trapped and not true to myself if i dont but i dont know how to tell people and who i should tell. my father and brother are both extreme homophobes but my mom is okay with it and i already know she would take the news well but i already know some of my friends will accept me but many will probably reject me i do currently like a guy and want to tell him some time... but back to my point my friends are kind of homophobes is there any way i should tell them and should i even tell them at all??

[chris4827]

you tell whoever u want whenever u want, only u can know what to do. it may seem difficult at first but its just because u r not used to it. soon youll get used to it and plus people are really learning not to judge people just because there bi or gay.

[Brandon K]

im in the same boat

[Dimitri]

Ony you can decide when you are ready to tell someone, it is up to you and only you.

[Happz]

I think it's always best to simply tell everyone once your sure of your sexuality, unless of course it puts you in a life-threatening situation. And if i may quote Dr. Suess: "It's fine because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

[smitty35]

I suggest you don't. If you want, you can tell your mom. But I think you should wait after highschool or college to announce.

[Quick_Sylver]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen sexuality

You'll find more answers of relevance here. :)

[mr.sexy_bomb]

there is not easy way to tell people you are bisexual, so just come out and say it, good luck

[skinny_white_boy]

I agree with all the above ^

Plus, if your friends are really your true friends then they should still like you. It shouldn't change much since they do. But if not then say fuck em' and find true friends