darkwoon
March 28th, 2011, 03:57 PM
Hi!
Here is the issue I have - it is somewhat embarrassing to admit, but I'm quite a late developper. I just turned 15, yet puberty is only slowly starting to kick in. My penis has started to grow, but it is still < 4inch erect, and its girth has not noticeably increased yet.
Morally speaking, it isn't always easy, though I'm definitely not getting into a depression for that - I know it will come as I grow. However, I've started dating a girl last summer, and after about 6 months or relationship, we decided to "jump the big step" and have sex. My issue is that, although she was able to feel pleasure even given my small size, I have a really big problem with condoms. None of them seem to fit - I literally "swim" in adult-sized ones. I managed to get a box of those made for younger/smaller sized-ones, but even those are still not fitting, and my penis simply slip out when I try to move with them on.
So, for the only few times we had sex (it isn't like I have everyday ^^), the only way I found to solve the issue was to hold the back of the condom with two fingers of one hand... I hope you can imagine it isn't really great, and actually, I really feel like stupid having to do it that way (I know, you'd probably laugh imagining the situation, but it definitely isn't very fun when you're forced to do it so!).
So, well, has anybody any idea on a better way to deal with that issue? I know that someday (hopefully not too far away in the future), this will not be a problem anymore, but in the meantime, I'd really love to know if there is another way - I'd really like stopping having to keep one hand down there like that!
Thanks for your answers, if you find any, and for not laughing, if you managed not to - it *really* isn't easy to deal with that, and I admit feeling quite childish being forced to do so, it is bleedingly reminding on how late I am.
Here is the issue I have - it is somewhat embarrassing to admit, but I'm quite a late developper. I just turned 15, yet puberty is only slowly starting to kick in. My penis has started to grow, but it is still < 4inch erect, and its girth has not noticeably increased yet.
Morally speaking, it isn't always easy, though I'm definitely not getting into a depression for that - I know it will come as I grow. However, I've started dating a girl last summer, and after about 6 months or relationship, we decided to "jump the big step" and have sex. My issue is that, although she was able to feel pleasure even given my small size, I have a really big problem with condoms. None of them seem to fit - I literally "swim" in adult-sized ones. I managed to get a box of those made for younger/smaller sized-ones, but even those are still not fitting, and my penis simply slip out when I try to move with them on.
So, for the only few times we had sex (it isn't like I have everyday ^^), the only way I found to solve the issue was to hold the back of the condom with two fingers of one hand... I hope you can imagine it isn't really great, and actually, I really feel like stupid having to do it that way (I know, you'd probably laugh imagining the situation, but it definitely isn't very fun when you're forced to do it so!).
So, well, has anybody any idea on a better way to deal with that issue? I know that someday (hopefully not too far away in the future), this will not be a problem anymore, but in the meantime, I'd really love to know if there is another way - I'd really like stopping having to keep one hand down there like that!
Thanks for your answers, if you find any, and for not laughing, if you managed not to - it *really* isn't easy to deal with that, and I admit feeling quite childish being forced to do so, it is bleedingly reminding on how late I am.