Confused and scared

[lynnette66]

i have heard rumors about my boyfriend lately and i dont know exactly how to handle them. I feel like i want to give him the benefit of the doubt but its hard. He doesn't seem like the type of guy to do some of the things that are being said but that's what makes him such a danger. He had lied to me in my face and it was said that he had kissed another girl. I'm scared that I'm going to lose him. I tried talking to him about it but he blew it off like it wasn't important. I told him that he hurt my feelings but it didn't seem to register. I feel like my last resort is to break up with him and I really don't want to. :what:

[Kelsey123]

try talking to him again and if he wont talk to you just beak it off. he's being VERY disrespectful.

[The Madness.]

Sit him down and talk to him. Make him know that he has to listen to you. Be assertive. Ask him and see if the rumors are true. If he seems like he's lying, you may have to break up with him. Unless you think you don't need to. If not, then don't. But I would sit him down and talk. Don't go through your relationship wondering if those rumors are true or false. Find out.

[Spook]

Agreed. You should talk to him again. If he's avoiding talking to you...I'm really sorry to say...but maybe those things really are true. PM me if you wanna talk. Tell me how it goes! ~Caitlin

[Fiction]

You really need to talk to him. As Caitlin said, if he is avoiding the subjects it could be because they are true.

If they are, then letting go of someone is hard, but sometimes it is for the best.