gay?

[taylor115]

im a 15 year old boy and i think i might be gay but the thing is i live in a small town and i most of my friends and friends family are antigay and i want to experiment with others guys to see if i like it but i want my friends to except me if i do what do i do how do i find out if im gay or not

[Alexithymia]

You don't necessarily have to label yourself. Right now, just label yourself curious. If you want a label. Once you head off to college or maybe even late high school, they'll probably be more outted gays. Don't worry about it yet. :) If you really want a CERTAIN someone, it can't just be random, then try and talk to them. Soon enough, you'll figure out if they're gay. If not, then when you're friends, ask him. Directly or indirectly. :)

[AussieBiBoy]

Being in a homophobic environment must be hard for you but unfortunately it would probably get more difficult if you came out of the closet or tried to experiment. I know it will be extremely difficult but I would try and wait until you leave home or are in a situation where you can experiment and your friends and family dont have a chance of finding out. Then when you have decided 100% that you are gay or bi then you can come out and tell your friends and family and I know it will be very difficult and challenging but at least you are certain and know thats the way you are :) PM Me if you want to talk anymore about it

[Wicked_Syn]

im a 15 year old boy and i think i might be gay but the thing is i live in a small town and i most of my friends and friends family are antigay and i want to experiment with others guys to see if i like it but i want my friends to except me if i do what do i do how do i find out if im gay or not

If you haven't had the chance to experiment with another male, you could just have a case of blue balls lol.

In my opinion, you just seem more confused than gay. I'd say try and get close with a male friend and see where it takes you.

BOTTOM LINE THOUGH. You'll know what you are in your heart. Your heart may not make the right decision right away, but you will settle into what you believe you are and feel comfortable with it.

[smitty35]

Well, your chance for experimenting with a local guy is literally non-existent. If you do ask one of them to experiment with you, they might dub you as gay, and the word will spread because it is a small town. I think you should wait till college before you decide what your sexuality is. If you do come out as gay, it will be a living hell until you leave. Sometimes it is better to just wait.

[XJRookie07]

Being gay isnt about sex with another man being fun and enjoyable. At your age sex with anyone would be enjoyable. your hormones are going crazy. The only way for you to know youre gay is if you have a spiritual attachment and NEED for another man. Good luck!

[Infidelitas]

like the others have been saying, don't put a label on Yourself until your sure whether your gay or not. most likely at the moment, Your Just curious and are Wanting to find out where your at in life. you will know in time whether your gay or not, Also beingg gay isn't about sex You have to be. physically, emotionally, sexually attracted to the same sex before you will know whether your gay or not

[connormac]

I agree with the others; orientation is about love, not sex. But I get what you mean.

[Rayquaza]

it depends on who u truly love dude

[Tristin.]

as said, gay is not about who you want to have sex with. Its much deeper, its about being madly in love with that one special guy. if you ever find yourself constantly thinking about a boy, falling on his everyword, wanting to die every day your not with him, yet at the same time hating him for yourself loving him? then along with wanting to have sex with guys? you can be pretty sure your gay

[Spook]

It's perfectly normal to want to experiment with others.

Like Tristin said, being gay isn't about sex. It's about who you love, and are attracted to.

Don't worry about it. :)

[parisoni]

We are frequently asked, "How does someone become homosexual?" The question implies that all are born heterosexual and some "become" homosexual somewhere along the way. I believe that implication to be inaccurate.

It is apparent that homosexuality does not have one particular "cause." It is not purely genetic in origin, for instance, because the very twin studies (Bailey and Pillard) that some interpreted as "proving" a purely genetic origin of homosexuality actually "disproved" it, because only 52% of identical twins of homosexual persons were also homosexual. If homosexuality were dependent on a particular "gay gene," both twins should have possess that gene, and thus there should have been a 100% correspondence.

[Ryunosuke]

Intresting Case, I Think It May Be Kinda An Assumption To Present Yourself As Gay.... But I Don't Know. If I'm Wrong, Ouch, And I'm Sorry :p

[swindy43]

I agree with the others