Can this go anywhere?

[Greeney]

So I live down the street from a very big college. I'm in 8th grade and me n my friends started going to frat parties at the college in the fall. I met a guy who is in that frat and we really like each other. We have been together for two and a half months now and we are rly close.
Most of the brothers in his frat think i am in high school, only a few know really know me that well. bc of the age difference, we do most things in secrecy. I get to see him once a week mostly at parties at the school. we are pretty serious and have sex, but I am afraid to introduce him to my family (my dad teaches at the college) and he does not want 2 take me out anywhere.
can we date in secret until I am older or is this no going 2 go anywhere?

[Spook]

Hmm...this is pretty hard. You said you have known him for 2 months and have already had sex...that is a pretty big commitment for such a short time. :/ Anyways, I'm not going to be judgin here. I think that you should introduce him to your parents. Your relationship is more likely to survive if he has a relationship with your family, because something might go wrong if he suddenly becomes a surprise to your parents. Good luck! ~Caitlin

[benjones1769]

def a hard question. i really hate that this sounds harsh, but it sounds like he is just getting what he wants from u. if he cared about u, he would either not getting sexually involved til u were at least around 16 since he is in college, or he would either continue your current relationship like it is and not be afraid to tell anybody.

either way, he's lucky that he's got a girl like u :)

[Sage]

You think a frat boy is going to stay with you for a long period of time and actually takes the relationship seriously?

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[mzhockey1696]

I dont think you should introduce him if he is like in college and ur in 8th grade..

[Wicked_Syn]

In my honest opinion, I don't see this going anywhere and the fact that this guy is having sex with you, at your age and grade, FREAKS ME OUT. I do not care if you look like a high schooler. It's wrong.

Aside from that, no. I don't see it working at all really. Don't get to connected to him.


Hmm...this is pretty hard. You said you have known him for 2 months and have already had sex...that is a pretty big commitment for such a short time. :/ Anyways, I'm not going to be judgin here. I think that you should introduce him to your parents. Your relationship is more likely to survive if he has a relationship with your family, because something might go wrong if he suddenly becomes a surprise to your parents. Good luck! ~Caitlin


If your parents are GOOD parents, they WILL NOT tolerate a guy his age and at his level of schooling date you.

[Peace God]

Meh, I'd dump him...frat boys aren't nearly as cool as they used to be.

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^ Now that's class. Take notes fellas.

[Ambrosia]

...the fact that this guy is having sex with you, at your age and grade, FREAKS ME OUT...

Completely agreed. This is ILLEGAL, as well as moraly wrong. You might be a gorgeous girl who looks years older then she truely is but the fact is you are in 8th grade. This boy is more than likely using you to get sex.

Males often times will look for girls considerably younger then themselves whom do not know their reputation because it gives them a "clean slate". Younger girls are usually not as experienced in knowing the types of things needed in an adult relationship (Or, young adult in his case). You're probably a very VERY smart girl and by asking this question I can tell you are more than likely already doubting what your doing as well. Introducing him to your parents will most likely come as a bad idea. A good percent of parents are truely against the idea of someone as young as yourself dating boys so much older. All boys want is one thing and, as we can tell, he already got that.

You need to be careful, in any case. Because none of us can persuade you to go the correct way. He can get into BIG trouble if you continue on with the relationship. If your parents found out they could file statutory rape and he could get labled as a child predator. If you got pregnant, well. You know how that goes. Same things filed, same life down the drain.

I'm sorry if this all seems mean. I'm not trying to sound mean. But I knew a girl when I was younger who was dating a man thirteen years her senior (And she was only about fifteen at the time!). He left her when she decided she didn't want to have sex anymore and then found out she was pregnant. Needless to say, her parents were quick to be slapping chargers down.

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

No offense, but this situation sounds really creepy to me. The fact that your in 8th grade, and he's in college....it just doesn't sit right with me.

[Fruit_Tart.]

You think a frat boy is going to stay with you for a long period of time and actually takes the relationship seriously?

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this.
you just might end up hurting yourself. and the age difference is sooo far, it's kind of illegal too hunn. eh. but good luck with all this.

[Nilnoc]

Unless he is a 15 year old Protoge, then this is legally considered rape...

[SirRawrsalot]

Completely agreed. This is ILLEGAL, as well as moraly wrong.
Absolutely illegal, morally wrong to you. Obviously it's fine to the two people involved... for now.

Unless he is a 15 year old Protoge, then this is legally considered rape...
Statutory rape indeed. Possible prison time and possibly on the sex-offenders list depending on the state and the evidence against the perpetrator.


I definitely do not recommend to even continue the relationship and even if you did it won't last long, sorry to be so blunt with the bad news, but it's true. You'll understand when you're his age.

[curious kid]

I would love to meet you!!!!!!!