View Full Version : Whats the best way to ask?
football
December 26th, 2006, 08:07 PM
What is the best way to ask a girl out...like when i like someone i say that im going to do it but when im about to i chicken out. How do i stop bein nervous?
schrei jess
December 26th, 2006, 08:42 PM
Well think of it this way, the worst she can do is say no, and if she does, so what? Sure it will be disappointing, but you will get over it - the girl isnt worth getting upset over. All you need to do is keep in mind that there will always be other girls, you will be dating a lot during your life, this is just one girl. Just go up to her and be yourself then just say "Hey, I really like you, maybe we could go out sometime?" Dont try to do anything fancy or slick, just keep it simple. Take deep breaths before you do it, try to get comfortable saying it, and it will be a lot easier on you.
JoshDude
December 27th, 2006, 07:06 AM
Well think of it this way, the worst she can do is say no, and if she does, so what? Sure it will be disappointing, but you will get over it - the girl isnt worth getting upset over. All you need to do is keep in mind that there will always be other girls, you will be dating a lot during your life, this is just one girl. Just go up to her and be yourself then just say "Hey, I really like you, maybe we could go out sometime?" Dont try to do anything fancy or slick, just keep it simple. Take deep breaths before you do it, try to get comfortable saying it, and it will be a lot easier on you.
This just about covers it. Just be yourself and just ask. If it doesnt work out, ask another girl. Good luck!
Sapphire
December 29th, 2006, 07:26 AM
Weeping Willows right. A few deep breaths to calm your nerves, be yourself, dont try anything too fancy as can get tongue tied. Simple is easiest and best. Good luck
kutethang101
October 18th, 2007, 07:06 PM
well if u realy like this gurl u should get 2 know her.
after that u just go witt the flow maybee talk 2 sme of her friends and see if she likes u.
Its like when i realy like a guy i always chicken out its
i ask him out over msn.
Or get one of my bffs to ask him 4 me.
But u cchoose what 2 do.
I personaly love that bff one it is a good stratergy for a chicken. :D
Lifesreject
October 19th, 2007, 10:04 AM
You should ask which ever wat is the most comfterble for you. I fyou want to do it by msn or rext just do it. My last bf asked mme by text so there is nothing wrong with that. Good look:lol:
Maverick
October 19th, 2007, 02:01 PM
kutethang101 don't bump old threads.
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