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smalltowngirl9189
March 23rd, 2011, 06:25 PM
Ok first let me give you the people me, Drew (my ex boyfriend/bestie), Alex (my bestie/crush/girlfriend's ex), Becca (girl bestie/on-off girlfriend), and a guy I really like (not gonna mention name cause he's on VT).

Drew wants to go back out with me and I kinda want to but i don't know how well it would work out, we ended on a good note and are like brother and sister. Becca has dated both Drew and Alex, and we keep dating on and off. Alex loves Becca, but wants to go out with me since she hates him. Drew and Alex know I like both of them but dont know about Mr. Anonamous...
Becca doesn't care who I date and doesn't know either about said Mr. Anonamous.

I'm confused! Plz nobody tell me to do the whole pro/con paper and see who equals out more on pro because I've done that and they all end up equal. I love Becca and I'm bisexual but I can't EVER see myself going farther than dating a girl. Plus me and Becca are more like a "bootycall"!
So who do you guys think I shouldgo with?

A. Alex (muscular, tall, sexual, sexy, and a show off)
B. Drew (Short, caring, brotherly, caring, hot, and cute)
C. Mr. Anonamous (who is sexy, caring, loving, but... out of state)
D. My life is super confusing and you got confused above ^^^^


Please answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1:what::what::what::what:
Iceman
March 23rd, 2011, 06:42 PM
To tell you the honest opinion if you have to ask, none of them, because apparently you don't love any of them.
smalltowngirl9189
March 23rd, 2011, 06:47 PM
It's just I don't want to loose a friend over something so stupid or in the case of Mr. Anonamous never really get the chance to loose him because I didn't go for it.
Sage
March 23rd, 2011, 11:36 PM
Your life would be a lot easier if you just didn't go out with any of them. I really don't see why you feel so compelled to go after any of them when there are so many complications among your group of friends.
Mikey9444
March 24th, 2011, 10:11 AM
A or C
Andymoto377
March 24th, 2011, 10:30 AM
wow ok you got some love geometry ok so this is just what I'm thinking Drew sounds good and what not but I have never seen it go well after re dating someone so im thinking you been there done that and stay good friends. Alex sounds like a shitty deal cause you don't wanna be choice number 2. Becca sounds cool just have fun with that. then this out of state guys sound ok but its the out of state and have you ever really met them before... you can never guess how they are in life then online.
smalltowngirl9189
March 24th, 2011, 08:09 PM
wow ok you got some love geometry ok so this is just what I'm thinking Drew sounds good and what not but I have never seen it go well after re dating someone so im thinking you been there done that and stay good friends. Alex sounds like a shitty deal cause you don't wanna be choice number 2. Becca sounds cool just have fun with that. then this out of state guys sound ok but its the out of state and have you ever really met them before... you can never guess how they are in life then online.

Yeah, I guess so... Alex is a pendejo- I learned that today.
I'm kinda confused and just want some time yet I really want to be with Mr. Anonamous.
Andymoto377
March 25th, 2011, 02:53 AM
well then hey go for it I get its sometimes its easiest to connect to someone online then it is face to face You think about what you think is the best road to be happy on and get to walking lol
Iceman
March 25th, 2011, 05:52 AM
Yeah, I guess so... Alex is a pendejo- I learned that today.
I'm kinda confused and just want some time yet I really want to be with Mr. Anonamous.

If one took a trip to your profile they would easily guess "Mr. Anonamous".
I agree with Sage, agreeing with me.
smalltowngirl9189
March 25th, 2011, 04:02 PM
If one took a trip to your profile they would easily guess "Mr. Anonamous".
I agree with Sage, agreeing with me.

That obvious?
Iceman
March 25th, 2011, 06:43 PM
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Uc2suQSWMX4/TBZJVg2soKI/AAAAAAAACU8/-BG9D-LAcSQ/s1600/captain_obvious.jpg

Yes.
Syvelocin
March 26th, 2011, 02:10 AM
I don't even have to check your profile, I've been moderating your guys' VMs. :P

I have to side with Tyler and Sage though. If there are that many choices and you can't choose between them, I don't think you really like any of them. Drop them all and find someone you're really crazy for.
FullyAlive
March 26th, 2011, 05:14 AM
If one took a trip to your profile they would easily guess "Mr. Anonamous".

This is so true.

But as so many people have said, you clearly don't really love any of them, or really want to be with any of them. Just keep them all as your friends, and find someone who you know instantly you want to be with.