I have a gf so does it make me bisexual?

[guyfromnowhere]

I really like her sense of humor. She really does care about me. I think she's beautiful and I'm lucky to have her as a gf her body interests me as imo there's more to look at with a girl. I love holding her hand. I love when we go out. We make out sometimes and it's ok. I like touching her boobs. I've always liked boobs anyway. She treats me sometimes like her little brother which is the only issue I have with our relationship. Anyway, I overall like our relationship. But like now our sexual side of the relationship is starting to go further. I get kind of grossed out about girl's stuff. I couldn't really imagine having sex. Well yesterday she and I were making out. We usually fondle each other waiste up and up. She touches my privates and I don't like it all. I've had handjobs with other guys it felt fine. But she was so soft like her hands even though I like how soft they to like hold hands. I don't like the delicateness of girls so much. That's why I'd prefer transexual women than weaker built women. I like transsexual women more than guys but they don't like my kind I don't think. I know liking transsexuals isn't usual for gays. But that's how I feel. We've talked about doing oral on each other and I know I shouldn't be so hesitant as it raises red flags on being gay. But I just could never want to have sex let alone orally stimulate her. I can only tolerate what we've done let alone take it further. I like any guy sexually a lot more. But emotionally I like her a lot more and that's why I've not dated anyone else while we've been together because emotionally only have feelings for her. Any advice does this make me bi or gay because I prefer guys physically and would never do anything with her if it wasn't expected?

[itsthat0n3kid]

you might be bi.. or it might be a phase. dont worry about it.

[guyfromnowhere]

yea I never feel attracted to girl besides trans ones. I could emotionally attach with anyone. But she's a lot different from just attachment. I actually truly love her. I just physically there is a bit lacking there.

[Bmilli]

i think you think your not gonna like it and, i know you think their privates are gross or w/e but most guys think that. honestly it is kinda gross down there.
if you truly love her id say take one for the team and buckle down and just eat her out or have sex with her. you might be completely repulsed by this and not want to do it but at least you'll know. 100% you dont like girls in that way.
but i have a question are you grossed out by anuses?
not saying all gay guys do this but you know gotta ask your self whats worse anal or vaginal.

let us know
B.milli

[guyfromnowhere]

well I never had a problem with anal sex even though I've tried doing anal as a bottom it never works. Anyway most girls aren't willing to do that.

[JonTyler]

Could just be a phase.. Wouldn't worry about it too much, but if you like both then who cares.. people should accept you for who you are anyway.

[Spook]

I agree...it may just be a phase...but you also may be bi. Anyways, being bi isn't a bad thing! Personally, I think it gives you variety. :P

[guyfromnowhere]

what do you mean a phase of what?

[smitty35]

Could be a phase....but from what I read, I think you are really on the borderline of being gay, you have a girlfriend, but she doesnt turn you on at all? Girls in general dont turn you on at all? You either are going through a phase or you are gay. That was just my input, don't hate me for what I said.

[guyfromnowhere]

she attracts me but having sex with her seems so like foreign. I've always felt like I was comfortable with gay sex acts or sex in general. But this is different.

[grstl]

Just be sure that if she gives you the gift of her body at any level....that you aim to please her completely. Don't just take. I'm pretty gay...but still try to really please my girlfriend even when some stuff grosses me out. She deserves it for being such a good friend who choses to love me as I am.