What make a man today?

[Norcalmx135]

So this is not puberty idk where to put it but it’s something that we become during the ages of puberty I guess because I think between the ages of 9-19 we are given the tools on how to become men. But what is a mans role in this day and age it's not like out great great grad parents where he could build you a house or our grad parent where he was the bread winner or even like our parents. What is our role as men today the media shows us that in order to be decible man we need to be flashy like the bros. Have nice things, money, a sick car or truck, we need big mussels or have a flashy job be a tough guy and then there is the other Guy we are shown to be it the nice sensitive like guess emo type guy or what ever. Not that I have anything against all bros types or emo types I have friend that are both, It just seems we have to be one or the other and the guy in between finishes last. I'm just trying to see what other people think that a mans role is in this day and age and are we being taught that...Or maybe Im the only one who see things this way idk what do you think?

[the wasabi]

And guys here’s your questions
Was or is your father in your life or did/do you have a father figure and what have you learned from him?
Yes, my father is. I learned everything there is to know about life, especially being a man.

What do you think makes a man?
someone who respects others and admits when he's wrong.

If you had a son what would you want to teach Him?
everything my father taught me.

sorry if my answers are very vague, i could go on and on about morals and stuff. pm if you want a really detailed answer....

also, i agree the definition of man has changed from way back to today. It all differs what the definition of a man is to everyone, but the definition you put today is too generalizing. I know I was taught to never ever ever hit a girl, that cheating and lying is wrong. And the qualifications you call the man today isn't even a man in my definition.
but it's differs to everyone i guess.

i think this should be moved to white padded or ramblings of the wise.....

[Norcalmx135]

And guys here’s your questions
Was or is your father in your life or did/do you have a father figure and what have you learned from him?
Yes, my father is. I learned everything there is to know about life, especially being a man.

What do you think makes a man?
someone who respects others and admits when he's wrong.

If you had a son what would you want to teach Him?
everything my father taught me.

sorry if my answers are very vague, i could go on and on about morals and stuff. pm if you want a really detailed answer....

also, i agree the definition of man has changed from way back to today. It all differs what the definition of a man is to everyone, but the definition you put today is too generalizing. I know I was taught to never ever ever hit a girl, that cheating and lying is wrong. And the qualifications you call the man today isn't even a man in my definition.
but it's differs to everyone i guess.

i think this should be moved to white padded or ramblings of the wise.....

maybe i jumped the gun on this one let me edit this hold on

[smitty35]

Well in popular culture, nowadays, everyone assumes that a huge penis makes a man, but thats not true. Its whats at heart not inbetween his legs.