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LozziRAWR
March 21st, 2011, 05:06 PM
Ok so me and my best friend have been really close in like forever, we always hug and link arms, and I've never thought anything of it before, but today after i had been sick and she hugged me, she kissed the top of my head and said everything would be fine, and it felt right.
We were walking back from the canteen in school and we were holding hands, and my best guy friend jokingly said 'orhhh lesbians!' and it got me thinking. If I'm attracted to her, does that make me a lesbian? she's the only girl I've ever sort of had a crush on.. I'm so confused:what:

Dack
March 21st, 2011, 05:32 PM
It's always possible...but you could also just be curious. Is it just emotional feelings or physical feelings as well? It might help you a bit if ask her about it, what she thinks, etc.

Dunce
March 21st, 2011, 05:35 PM
It sounds to me like you're bi-curious. It's very common in adolescence to have feelings for friends, maybe even random members of the same sex. it may just be hormones, or it may be the start of something more. Give it time :D

smitty35
March 22nd, 2011, 12:23 PM
I think that you are either: str8 curious OR bi. But, thats ok! :-)

Great Perhaps
March 22nd, 2011, 09:16 PM
trust me, I know stuff like this is hard. If this is the only girl you've ever had a crush on, then I would probably say that this attraction is just because of your platonic closeness to her. but honestly, you have to figure this out yourself, because only you know how you're feeling. you'll figure it out, no matter what happens.