What Am I?

[usedtobewannabe]

I don't know if I'm straight, bi, lesbian, or if I don't like any gender and am downright asexual, not in the term that I reproduce on my own lol, but that I'm just not attracted.
I've had guy crushes over the years, but I've had one major girl crush. When she's being nice, I want to spend my life with her and I can't say I've yet felt that over a guy. However she's the only one.
But I do not want to sleep with any one in any way. It disgusts me.
Help! D:

[randy.boii]

i hate abels they just make thinks bad

[usedtobewannabe]

I just want something to define myself as at this point.

[Dunce]

This is the same with me :/ I'm not really attracted to anyone, yet sometimes I can have feelings for people. But when I have feelings for people they usually arent very strong. I've had people tell me that my feelings of asexuality are probably down to hormones, which seems weird, seeing as hormones usually make you hornier.. You could try find gay/bi people in your area and talk with them. It's nice to talk to people face to face sometimes. I would help if you would experiment with both sexes if you're comfortable with it, just don't do anything youd regret.
To me, you sound bisexual, but I don't really know. Because I know how you feel, sometimes it's just too hard to label yourself. It will probably get easier with time when you gain some more experience.

[usedtobewannabe]

Thank you.
I wouldn't know where to begin "experimenting"
I just want to identify with something. All my friends are talking about how they want to bang so many people, and I feel nothing.

[shyed2011]

i went thought that stage i had never really been attracted to anyone tell i was about 14 so last year just nothing then it hit me hard and i knew what i was attracted to so don't worry you don't need to place a label on yourself right away

[Myrnodin]

Labels just screw your life. Its hash, but true.

Forget about what sex you like, thats what matters the least. The only thing that will actually affect your life, is whom do you LOVE. (take note on this word) If he or she is not in your life yet, it will appear eventually, and then you can get a label if you wish, but before that, it doesnt really matter. There are "straight" couples who actually like their counterpart because it acts like someone from the opposite sex.

Labels are something people made just to make discrimination easier, what matters in life, is love, dont forget that, and once you find it, it comes with a label in hand. Dont worry, there is a pair for everything.

[smitty35]

I think that you are still trying to find your true identity. I think that you sould take more time to label yourself of who you are. You are still young, and you still have time to figure all that later. Enjoy life as a teen while you can. :-)

[Dunce]

Yeah it's really frustrating when friends point out guys on the street or in a movie and start talking about how hot they are :/ It's kind of like "Yeah he has nice... hair..". But even if people idenfity as asexual they might actually be attracted to some people, just not enough to label themselves anything else. I read somewhere that it's not very common to find people who are absolutely in every way asexual, so I wouldnt really worry about it. You've had crushes before, so I highly doubt you're fully asexual.

[Sosaku]

i can give you a lable, you are asexual/biromantic....let me explain:

Asexual-Lacking interest in or desire for sex. (from Dictionary.com)

You have no interest in sex, this explains it.

BUT you've had crushes before? Ok, were they sexual/physical crushes, or emotion/mental crushes?

This is where the Biromantic part comes in. They were most likely the later, (emotional/mental)

Biromantic(or fully spread out in the way i mean, Bisexual Romanticism.) You are romantically attracted, (that is emotionally and mentally) to both genders, yes it was the one girl...but it was real

These are perfect lables if you chose to use them. That is up to you. Just giving out as much information as i can. =^P (^=

[usedtobewannabe]

Thank you all ^.^ I am starting to love this website, there are so many nice and wonderful and friendly people here!:D