This girl

[drummaster95]

Tonight one of my best friends who's a girl told me that she likes me and I actually do like her too but for some reason never built up the courage to tell her because we had a good friendship.
now I want to tell her that I like her but she said that she just rather she didnt like me so she's going to try to force herself to repress her feelings.
So now I'm confused on what to do or how to react plus this has happened 3 times before to me and all those girlfriends broke up with me so and now I'm not friends with any of them
Btw if this is for the wrong place u can just move it
???

[smitty35]

Well you better tell her how you feel....................before its to late.

[Orpheus]

Based on your experience (3 times) you can see that this is goin nowhere unless you take charge. You'd better get this goin in a gf (ie sexual) way or else it's goin nowhere. Let her know how you feel if you really care. If you don't care, well then, that was the problem before, too.

[Andymoto377]

Yeah this is always a bad spot to be in for sure as you know form past experience. But suppress your feelings is bad cause it end your friendship anyway. I had a friend like me and I liked her and we decided not to date cause we have mutual friends and we where thinking of the future what happens if it goes bad then our friend will have to pick between us make them feel awkward and what not but not to long after we decided not to date this other girl started to like me and Emily would get hella made at me when id hangout with her at lunch and she got hella jealous and it ended out friendship anyway so I say screw it go for it don't think about what will happen think about how you feel now and be happy now who the hell knows how it will turn out.

[1_21Guns]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships & Dating

[Bmilli]

if you were never friends with the girls before this one may be a good relationship to go after before its to late because the bestfriend (rather than the friend zone) zone is a terrible place to be.

[Great Perhaps]

^well, it's not terrible. a bestfriend is better than someone you hate because you dated them and it didn't work out. but back to the point.

If you feel strongly for her you should go for it, but only if you feel comfortable, and only if you want to. if you want to, then DO IT! if not, then just don't, and stay friends. definitely not the end of the world.

[Nick E.]

I'd suggest that you go for it before it's too late. You never know when someone can slip through your fingers. :)

[swindy43]

it's not terrible.

[music is my soul]

i agree with nick. ive let a few girls slip through my fingers,and its not the best feeling once you know you have missed your chance.

[Vonn]

Tonight one of my best friends who's a girl told me that she likes me and I actually do like her too but for some reason never built up the courage to tell her because we had a good friendship.
now I want to tell her that I like her but she said that she just rather she didnt like me so she's going to try to force herself to repress her feelings.
So now I'm confused on what to do or how to react plus this has happened 3 times before to me and all those girlfriends broke up with me so and now I'm not friends with any of them
Btw if this is for the wrong place u can just move it
???

You should at least try.

[Bard95]

Tell her how you truly feel please! I've been in this situation, if you stay best frends, it'll be more awkard cus u both know you like eacother, and then you'll fight about it, and end up hating eachother. Bleive me, its happened before. Tell her how you feel, and be honest:)

[Riaa]

Well... form a girl's point a view... chances are the reason she said she'd rather not like you is because sh'e afraid you don't like her. So tell her how you feel, and be honest! Tell her you didn't want it to affect your friendship. If she's really a good friend, she'll be chill about it. :) Hope this helped!

[Eagle63]

If you KNOW she likes you, if you want to, go for it.
However...
You need to weigh whether or not being truly involved with her for who knows how long is better than being friends for what will likely be much longer or not.. I've been there before. First question I always ask myself: Is it worth losing the friendship if things go wrong (all 3 times this happened to me, they have)?

[Kaius]

To be honest she seems like shes only trying to repress it because she thinks you don't like her back and may think its easier to do that. :P I kinda did that the last time I had a crush on someone, I didn't think she felt the same so to save us both the trouble I tried to block it out and pretend it wasn't happening - But it only made it stronger. So tell her, because you never know what might happen or what you could be missing out on if you don't.