Anal Sex.

[Caaaaam]

So, I lost my virginity a while back (with a boy), and have since then had sex quite a few times, with different people. But, I've never been a top. Unlike most, I did the research and what not on how to prepare for anal sex, and my fear, is that any other person, hasn't. All of the boys that I have had sex with are no where near as experienced as I am, and make decisions out of impulse. Unlike myself, whereas I'd rather spend time learning how to do it properly. Every time I think about being a top, I can't get the image out of my head of pulling out and having shit all over my penis. Like, that's not cool with me. I want my experience to be perfect, just like it is in the porn movies. They make it look so good. Too bad we can't all naturally be that clean. I guess what I'm trying to get at here is that I don't know how to bring it up with my partner that I want them to make sure to properly prepare them self for sex, before we actually do it. Any help on how I can do this?

[smitty35]

Just tell your partner to take a dump before having sex......geez, I know what you mean, but its not that hard.

[Caaaaam]

Just tell your partner to take a dump before having sex......geez, I know what you mean, but its not that hard.

You've obviously never had sex before.

[Fruit_Tart.]

Ask him if he can clean him self out before you guys do anything. Explain to him your fear so he can understand. Mention you've never been a top guy and that you just want to try being one, but that you want to do it properly.
Good luck with everything.

[Caaaaam]

Ask him if he can clean him self out before you guys do anything. Explain to him your fear so he can understand. Mention you've never been a top guy and that you just want to try being one, but that you want to do it properly.
Good luck with everything.

Thanks for the advise.

[itsthat0n3kid]

ya ive never done anything like that but i agree with ima monster (whose name is awesomexD) most likely he will understand. if he doesnt thats stupid

[Eddie.37]

the best thing you can do is tell him that you won't be comfortable if he's not clean and that he needs to understand. But, when it fails, maybe you can give anal some other time and just receive again

[SylvioUltima]

It really can't be that hard.. I'm not gay or bi so i've never dealt with it. But just tell him straight up "I'm a clean person, and i've never done this before, and I want it to be perfect". Even idiots would know to make sure they're clean before anal sex...

[Chevy]

Go to the doctor and get an enema

[Dalman]

Make the preparation part of the experience. If he agrees to let you top, then make the enema and shower (I assume) things both you do with the sex part. Also he might be prepared better and might hurt him less. I mean you researched and learned how to prepare, now you can teach him.

Also use a condom and you won't stuff on your dick.

[shyed2011]

just ask him to clean out his ass id assume mate

[Fruit_Tart.]

ya ive never done anything like that but i agree with ima monster (whose name is awesomexD) most likely he will understand. if he doesnt thats stupid
hahaha. thanks. :)
Go to the doctor and get an enema
this sounds like a great idea, but maybe try doing it at home, unless you're comfortable with doing it with a doctor.
Make the preparation part of the experience. If he agrees to let you top, then make the enema and shower (I assume) things both you do with the sex part. Also he might be prepared better and might hurt him less. I mean you researched and learned how to prepare, now you can teach him.

Also use a condom and you won't stuff on your dick.
definitely use a condom, no matter what you decide to do. it's better to be safe than sorry with an STD.

[Caaaaam]

Thanks for all the advise guys. I talked to my boyfriend today about it, and I completely came out to him about how I feel, and he feels the same way. Him and I have not had sex together because we just started our relationship, but now we both know how each other feel.

[tpzy94]

idk use a condom and keep asking if they are comfortable and if they arent then take it out lol

[Fruit_Tart.]

Thanks for all the advise guys. I talked to my boyfriend today about it, and I completely came out to him about how I feel, and he feels the same way. Him and I have not had sex together because we just started our relationship, but now we both know how each other feel.
that's good. i'm glad you talked to him.

[Lucky5555]

yeah just talk to him.

[benjones1769]

thats why i wont do anal with a girl or boy!