how

[Jstr]

how did you know if you were gay or bi?
im unsure about what i am so i wanted to know

[Fruit_Tart.]

the feeling that you get when your close to a guy that's just that beautiful and you just want to kiss him with all you got. :P hahaha... i dunno. I just knew i guess. like i knew i was a boy. you just know.

if you like looking at guys then your just attracted to them, but if your also like emotionally attacted to them then that's when you know your gay/bi.
same with being bi; your attracted to girls either physically or emotionally or both or neither.

[grstl]

My first wet dream was about guys. Experimented with friends and some strangers. I tried being straight, but even after a girlfriend and a kid found myself craving my guy stuff. After a really passionate kiss with a guy I met, I finally admitted I was pretty much a gay guy caught in a straight-looking life. I am now trying to change that without losing all my family and friends.....not easy and definitely scary.

Your sexuality is based on which you crave the most and are most passionate in. Good luck.

[swbboy]

i just knew, in the beginning i didnt want to be gay
but now i like it :P

[Skrate]

A couple of years ago, when I had a crush on a guy and an even bigger crush on a girl.

At the same time...

[Great Perhaps]

looking back i can tell that I've always been gay, but I figured it out for real in the past year.

[Infidelitas]

The thought came to me when a friend and I were talking about it, then I realised that I was always gay

[Wicked_Syn]

You will just know. If you haven't pursued trying anything with the same sex, then it could definitely just be curiosity. But if you have done stuff with the same sex, and you are comfortable doing it over and over again (this being like anal sex, oral sex, kissing, ect. Jacking off doesn't really count) then your most likely bi-sexual.

That's how I came to my consensus, because I knew I'd be willing to get pretty down with another guy. Anal no though. For me, I am only interested in a male for sexual reasons only. Females are reserved for relationships and sexual activity as well.

But yeah, you will know what you are. You will feel it in your heart.

[Sosaku]

i wasn't attracted to females at all....lol

[sieg]

when i finally got a mind of my own, i knew

[Tristin.]

when you are not just attracted to a boy sexualy, when you love every part of them. when you can see yourself living and having a relationship with a boy. then you can pretty much tell if you are gay or bi or straight x

[guyfromnowhere]

with guys I like them sexually a lot of the girls lack that sexual appeal. Girls have prettier bodies. And can do more to be pretty. But kissing one is too soft and like I just never felt a need to kiss one. I had dreams of guys since I was a very young child. I liked kissing being held holding another guy. I have always had feelings beyond butterflies for guys I have known. With girl I could be close emotionally but sexually creeps me out.

[guyfromnowhere]

plus pornwise the more girls means the less pleasure and vice versa.

[shyed2011]

jsut go with it mate when ya know ya know

[grstl]

with guys I like them sexually a lot of the girls lack that sexual appeal. Girls have prettier bodies. And can do more to be pretty. But kissing one is too soft and like I just never felt a need to kiss one. I had dreams of guys since I was a very young child. I liked kissing being held holding another guy. I have always had feelings beyond butterflies for guys I have known. With girl I could be close emotionally but sexually creeps me out.

Pretty much my feelings exactly! :yummy:

[AussieBiBoy]

You will know :) There was no moment for me, It just sort of came over time. I tried to deny it and then I accepted it and enjoyed it :)

[JonTyler]

jsut go with it mate when ya know ya know

Words of wisdom.. only time will tell

[Roberjam15]

just give it time

[XJRookie07]

Just like everyone else has said... Only time will tell and only you will know when that time comes. Nobody else can tell you if you are gay or bi or straight. You are the only one that can answer that question honestly.

[Apollo.]

when you are not just attracted to a boy sexualy, when you love every part of them. when you can see yourself living and having a relationship with a boy. then you can pretty much tell if you are gay or bi or straight x

Exactly this.

[Fourth Dimension]

well for me its like i always knew i was different then around 11 12 i started figuring it out and i didnt like it at all but finally i got over it but what you need to ask yourself is am i physically attracted to guy am i emotionally attracted to guys am i physically attracted to girls am i emotionally attracted to girls if you answered yes to all those then you are bi in which you may have a greater attraction to one gender over the other and if you answered yes to just they guy part then you are prolly gay and if you only answered yes to the girl part then you are straight dont worry you will figure it all out in your own time you will be fine =) just take your time and you will figure it out hope i helped

[redmann]

you just know really . i have never really liked girls