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usedtobewannabe
March 20th, 2011, 07:09 PM
So I've been wondering this for about forever.
My friend has been like this for a while.
She gets close to me, lays all over me. Sits on me. Puts her head on my lap.
At her house we sleep on the same bed. She's slept pantless before.
She doesn't hesitate to change in front of me. Usually she keeps on underwear but I've been flashed (accidentally) before.
One time though she sat on me because I didn't do something (it was not really important, I recall) and she took off her shirt, unfastened her bra (it was still on) and literally shoved her boobs in my face?
She also will not hesitate to kiss you. Not ever on the lips though.
She is shameless about it.
It also seems she is only doing this to me, I'm one of her only close friends, I'm the only one who sleeps over.
I don't know if she has feelings for me, she's comfortable, or my feelings for her (yes I have a crush on her) is messing with my perception?
Many many thanks.

Fruit_Tart.
March 20th, 2011, 08:02 PM
I think that she might be... Curious? I don't know or bi. I have girl (pause) friends that do that to each other sometimes and they're bi/gay/lesbian, whatever you want to call them. Well some of them anyways. Then there are other friends that just like having fun or the attention... I don't know. This would be confusing to me as well.

smitty35
March 20th, 2011, 09:57 PM
I'm pretty sure that she is curious. And she also could be bi/gay. If you really like her then tell her. good luck

usedtobewannabe
March 21st, 2011, 04:06 PM
I see.
I'm honestly terrified to tell her because I don't want her to reject me, and for us to stop being friends.

Great Perhaps
March 22nd, 2011, 11:46 PM
this is a toughy. I think the best thing for you to do is be honest with her. if she is truly your friend you can get past it. i have had to get over friends just like that before. (i'm gay, most of my friends are ... deceptively straight) whatever happens it'll be ok, as long as you're honest with her, but more importantly, as long as you're honest with yourself. I understand your fear. Unfortunately the only thing you can really do is talk to her and be honest. Or, you could keep hiding from it and continue to be uncomfortable.

Bkylblk
April 12th, 2011, 09:43 PM
I see.
I'm honestly terrified to tell her because I don't want her to reject me, and for us to stop being friends.

You have to decide if taking the risk is worth it, and then plan accordingly