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the wasabi
March 20th, 2011, 03:12 AM
story might be long, but advice would be appreciated....

so my love life is a bunch of crushes, but never really gone out with someone, got first kiss, and stuff like that.
but i have been on dances with dates.

so there's this girl that i'll call chacha. i knew her in my spanish class, and we knew each other and stuff. on homecoming, i asked this one girl to go with me, and while that's going on, i hear chacha likes me...
so i think that's cool, cuz my date is someone who i start to like less and less and get interested in chacha (i didn't want to end the date though). i don't really talk to chacha yet, but when homecoming's all over, i ask if she still likes me and i hear from my friends that she stopped....so that's done.
then backwards comes along and guess who asks me? chacha does! i'm actually kinda happy that i got asked. and im crushing on her. i hear that she likes me too. and backwards was fun. we didn't grind or anything cuz i didn't know if she was into that or not and we just did stupid dances and talked to people and stuff. so i enjoyed that. but things kinda died down after that.....i got switched spanish periods and only talked to her when we passed by each other. recently chacha invites me to her broadway musical, and im interested in going. i found out that she sings crazy good and that crush in me comes back again....i plan on actually asking her out after all this time...
then a two-three days ago, one of her friends comes up to me and says chacha really really likes you. she wants you to go to her show and stuff. i could really see you and chacha together....she always talks to her friends whenever you say hi or talk to her and gets really really excited and stuff like that which i think seems normal......then she says this: "chacha was even all like i don't care if wasabi (that'll be my name) is with someone or not, i'll wait forever till he's mine and she kept talking about things that were seemed pretty obsessive and creeped me out.....

so i just want to know if girls just say that or if she really obsesses or really really likes me in that way that it's scary...

thanks.

cyb3rw01f
March 20th, 2011, 09:16 AM
dude....if you have been waiting to go out with this ChaCha and she really really likes u, u need to go for it. It's not an obsession i think shes just trying to get your attention

Eagle63
March 20th, 2011, 04:34 PM
Yeah I agree. If she likes u and u like her, go for it!

Hank Hill
March 20th, 2011, 04:54 PM
^^ My thoughts exactly. Go for it, because it sounds like she's looking for you :) if things don't turn out great, then it was meant to be. Stay golden Ponyboy :D

music is my soul
March 20th, 2011, 05:21 PM
i agree with all these guys. go get her.