Str8, gay, or Bi?!

[MacMilker]

So honestly I have this question and I never really ruled it out with myself or anyone else for that matter.
But if you're gay or bi whatever lets just go with bi to keep it general.
Okay so you're walking along and this guy walks past you and you turn around and you notice him.. Like NOTICE him. and then you watch him and whatever (so creepy I know ;D ) and then you think hes like totally bi, because of the stuff he does and whatever, but is he actually? Or is the so called "gaydar" getting confused just because he took your breath away?
Like today I went to this party, and there were 2 dj's and they both were hot, but one of them was like WOW to me. And I could tell, well I though I could tell. By his hair and the way he looked at me and whatever.. That he was probably bi. Then I did the same test with the other dj and I think he was totally straight.
But was I just subconsciously convincing myself that he was?
Like my friend graham went through a phase where every girl wanted him and now its dying down and I thought he was gay all a long and everyone else was like "noooo" but now that almost everyone of my friends dated him they do think hes gay.. And I probably was right all along..
Sorry if this didn't make ANY sense..
I fell like it was filed in the right category too, sorry in advance if not :/

[smitty35]

i guess you just want to know what people are...mabye its like your version of a mind game? Like when I am in public, I try to guess what people jobs are, just by looking at them. I sometimes do what you said too.

[Jstr]

mmmhhmm...
yea what he said ...
sorry i dont know what to say

[Virtual Guy]

I dont really understand the question. But i guess you are just trying to figure out what people are?

[MacMilker]

I dont really understand the question. But i guess you are just trying to figure out what people are?

Yeah, or if I'm convincing myself that they are something?

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[mr.sexy_bomb]

well you cant always know just by the way people are, we are all different, and some people dont fit stereotypes at all

[Skrate]

Instead of a little onetime scout, you have to really scout them out to know if they're gay or bi. But you can never be sure.

And I'm in the same boat as you, haha. I'm in love with this one guy but I dunno if he's gay/bi (I'm bisexual), but he's giving off some... Signs, I guess. I can't be sure, though, and that's what suckkkkks.

[the wasabi]

you never really know if you ask them....though that may be a bit awkward....

ya, there are typical signs but not every gay person has their hair like this or whatever. (just an example)
just know that they may not be bi or gay or straight all along....

but if you do know everyone's sexuality with just their looks and actions......then you've done well my young padawan. :)

[hollisterboi95]

Can't judge a book by it's cover :)

[Zazu]

I don't think it's particularly abnormal that you think this about people, most people do.

At the end of the day, you can sometimes look at someone and make a pretty good guess as to their sexuality. However much I dislike it, stereotypes exist of all sexualities.

[AussieBiBoy]

It could be either really. There is this guy at school who I really like and I try to convince myself he is gay. I think you probably notice some things that are stereotypical of a bi/gay guy and then go from that to say he is definitly gay. Every straight guy does things that are stereotypical gay so it doesnt really make anything definite.
I think, to answer your question directly, he could easily be gay but your thoughts are influencing you deciding whether he is or not. Considering he is a DJ, its quite probably true :)

[MacMilker]

Thanks guys.
yeah I understand what you're all saying
But considering since every time I made a guess and I was right thats what confuses me
Maybe I'm just a mind reader ahah..

[broseph92]

I consider myself straight but I have gotten my dick sucked by gay guys before. I dont mind, it still feels good. And Id say im somewhat sexually attracted to certain guys, but Id only date girls.

[ConfusedDude]

I have had this too and you never fully know unless they tell you

[MacMilker]

I consider myself straight but I have gotten my dick sucked by gay guys before. I dont mind, it still feels good. And Id say im somewhat sexually attracted to certain guys, but Id only date girls.

Well I don't think I went as far as to think about sexually what I'd do with them and if they'd allow it, if thats what you were implying?
Idk I phrased it confusingly and I don't even know what I mean myself anymore.

[randy.boii]

omg happens to me all the time i see someone hot that i think is bi and i wanna talk to haha but im afraid to confront them cuz im insecure and hate rejection and im scared whatr they will say

just be yourself :)