View Full Version : So, is my friend gay/bi?
Portable Desert
March 19th, 2011, 08:08 PM
I should rephrase the title- Does he atleast sound bi/gay? I don't know if he is doing this conciously or not, but when we are asleep at a sleepover or something, I will often find him snuggled up against me. He will wake up and reposition himself sometimes so he is not close, but this happens EVERY week. Does he sound bi or not? He is also a raging homophobe, but I heard some people do that to hide themselves.
Just last night I woke up to find our legs 'intertwined' with my arm over him.
Italian Stallion
March 19th, 2011, 08:16 PM
maybe coz hes cold, if he wakes up and reposies himself then he is probs doing it sub-consciously i wouldnt go making assumptions on his sexuality by that
love is louder
March 19th, 2011, 08:27 PM
i snuggle into my friends when im cold but i think its different for girls :S
and one of my best friends has newly come out and she was a raging homophobe too so i think you need a lot more evidence than that before you should aproch him. sorry im not much help
sieg
March 19th, 2011, 09:47 PM
He could have just been cold. Or he could like you. you could ask.
Virtual Guy
March 19th, 2011, 11:41 PM
Just ask him. Im sure he will tell you the truth/
mr.sexy_bomb
March 20th, 2011, 01:23 AM
some people just do that by accident you know, like i do that and it doesn't mean i am attracted to who ever is next to me, i just get cold and stuff so he might not notice he is doing that
Zazu
March 20th, 2011, 06:24 AM
Physical contact between two males neither denotes their sexualities nor necessarily is sexual. I swear most people (at least where I live) seem to immediately assume that contact between one person and the gender to whom they're attracted = something romantic / sexual. It does not. It's just two human beings sharing an intimate moment of contact and bonding with each other - sharing some basic human love. Feeling someone's heart beat against yours is one of the most amazing things, it just reminds you how similar we all really are.
AussieBiBoy
March 20th, 2011, 06:33 AM
It could be either. He could be doing it consciously because he is gay/bi or accidentally. I must admit, I move around alot in my sleep and he most likely does it by complete accident. Someones actions in their sleep dont necessarily connect with how they actually are :)
smitty35
March 20th, 2011, 04:08 PM
1.) it could be his "natural instinct to do that"
2.) he could be gay/bi
3.) it could be a coincidence.
I think if you would just ask him about it, he would tell you.
Dunce
March 21st, 2011, 12:27 PM
Some people snuggle up to the wamest thing near them without knowing. And what you said about him covering it up by being a homophobe, yes this could be true. Some people who find it especially hard to accept hate the idea of being gay so much that they become quite homophobic. He could be anything.
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