So were going to have "fun."

[KodieBear]

I have this old friend, we'll call him Jacob, and he is coming in to town to visit. He moved away in 6th grade and we sort of lost contact, so we're going to the movies tonight. He told me a while ago that he was gay and today I told him that I was bisexual. After I told him he said: "So the movies tonight should be fun ;)" and I don't know how to handle it. We've kept talking about it and whats going to happen is: Jacob and I are going to slip out of the movie to go to the bathroom and are going to blow each other. I've never done anything with anyone and he has done it multiple times. I felt fine with it at first but now I'm scared about it. I mean, what if it doesn't go as planned and we get caught? Or what if I get cold feet and back out? Will he be mad? UGH, someone help please, I'm so nervous right now. :/

[XJRookie07]

First of all I think its cool that you caught gack up with an old friend. Second, just let him know how you feel and that uve never done anything with another guy. He will understand. He was there at one point too. In fact everyone was there one time. And finally, don't do anything that you're not comfortable with. He will understand. And if he forces you to do anything then he's not as good of a friend as you thought he was.

[smitty35]

If you dont want to then dont. If you do then do, lol. If you dont tell him that you dont and you still want to be friends with him. And Im pretty sure you wont get caught....I hope. :-) good luck and HAVE FUN!!!

[tomdiehl]

don't worry just go withthe flow everything will be fine and you should have a good time

[esolis50]

i'm kinda in the same situation as you. a friend of mine wants to hook up with me but i'm nervous. i think im going to tell him we should wait until im 100% ready

[Malcolm Tucker]

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