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esolis50
March 19th, 2011, 12:21 PM
so a friend and i are talking about having sex, but idk if im ready. he says he'll be the receiver, but he wants me to receive to. idk if im ready!
XJRookie07
March 19th, 2011, 01:43 PM
Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with. Just talk to him and tell him ur not quite ready. He will understand.
Dalman
March 19th, 2011, 02:33 PM
I agree talk to him, but before you talk to him you gotta decide what you want to do or not do. Like XJ said, don't let him talk you into doing some that you do not want.
smitty35
March 19th, 2011, 03:20 PM
All I can say is, if you want to then go for it. if you dont tell him how you feel about it..
tomdiehl
March 19th, 2011, 03:29 PM
dont worry just do what feels natural
itsthat0n3kid
March 19th, 2011, 03:33 PM
dont do it unless you are totally confident you want to and are ready.
hollisterboi95
March 19th, 2011, 05:52 PM
Don't do it I you're not ready, just tell him straight up dont try to lie either, it the best way to say you're not ready
KodieBear
March 19th, 2011, 06:59 PM
hey! i saw your post on my thread, but mine got locked lol. but yea, it sucks being in this situation but i think im going to take it slow and stop if i dont feel comfortable. he'll understand :)
JOSEE
March 19th, 2011, 09:20 PM
As the old saying goes, " AGREE TO DISAGREE " relax if u don't wanna do it DON'T DO IT and say no, tell him the truth
Bimmerhead
March 19th, 2011, 09:30 PM
Your not in a race. Just do what feels comfortable. Start with foreplay first and then move on if you feel comfortable.
luconfu
March 19th, 2011, 11:34 PM
Make sure you're comfortable... start off small like maybe wanking together if you haven't done that yet. Don't just jump straight into something... have fun!
AussieBiBoy
March 20th, 2011, 07:01 AM
dont do it if you dont want too! thats all that matters
tpzy94
March 20th, 2011, 01:49 PM
its up t you and juss let him know but if you still want to have sex just cum really quick and be like ok im done so that way you wont have to recieve
esolis50
March 20th, 2011, 03:58 PM
hahaha! that one made me laugh =]
ConfusedDude
March 20th, 2011, 04:01 PM
If your not ready then DONT FEEL OBLIGATED! But if you want to go for it....it is a fun experience. But it is YOUR choice don't let him talk you into it if you are uncomfortable
Bigman2012
March 21st, 2011, 05:42 PM
It's up to you but it feels amazing