Sex? :S

[love is louder]

I have always been straight but...
sex doesnt really get me excited like other stuff does.
i do it because he wants me to but frankly i can do without it
we havent been together for that long so i shouldnt have got bored already

does this mean anything??

[smitty35]

Mabye over time you will start to like it? IDk, do what you want to do, dont do anything that you dont want to do and be forced into.

[Dalman]

Do you like him? To me sex is an expression of your love for each other, or on the other end of the spectrum, sex is an expression of your sexuality and relieves sexual tension. I guess you have to figure what sex is for you. I think it is certainly enough to decide that sex is to provide another person enjoyment regardless if it is gratifying to yourself.

Just my opinion.

[love is louder]

i was never forced. i always start out wanting to...
yes i do like him, alot. he told me he loved me the other day. maybe thats throwing me off more. i just feel so confused!

[Dalman]

I think you need alone time to decide what the relationship means to you. I would expect that being with him makes you more confused. For me, sometimes a little space allows me to become more clear about how I feel. The other thing that helps me is to talk with someone who is objective and smart and care about what decisions that I make.

[love is louder]

ill think about i know that probably going to be the right thing to do in the lng run but i dont want to lose him. neither do i want to tell someone about it if its just going to be a faze :S if you know what i mean. i sure will think about it though

[Syvelocin]

Or you could just be like me.
Sex is nothing to me. Like you said, I do only when he wants me to. As long as that's not force of course though. But I don't like it, and it's just more of a hassle than it's worth.
It might just be a hormonal thing, or maybe you have a case of asexuality. Either way, it's nothing strange. There are a lot of teens who really aren't interested in sex.

I'd wait it out and see how you feel. And if it's not just a phase, talk to him about it, and see if he's okay with it. If he's not, well, not much you can do there.