The one I love...

[RunAwayMolly]

... wants to die. His names Bobby, he's from Florida... I need to get him to get help!




I lvoe him yes... but hes so unhappy... i wanted to talk to him about what we were going to do with ourselves because he lives in florida and i live in minnesota... and he just died... he hates himself... i dont know what to do... he wants to kill himself really bad and for an hour or so i just begged and begged and begged him not to hurt himself... because of my begging he finally decided to not... but he doesnt think hes worth it... i need to think of a way for him to get help... he is SOOOOOOOO depressed... he used to cut but he stopped for me... so do you guys have any ideas? I just want him to get help... i mean after me and him are over hes going to be depressed again and he'll feel as if he as no one and he'll kill himself... he needs help... hes not going to want to hear it from me... i just need him too its killing me inside... Does anyone have any ideas?



He needs to know his life is worth it... he doesnt think that he thinks hes life is pointless and that god made a mistake in creating him... like hes some mass of flesh... wasted space... the black hole of society! I mean hes the most amazing person I have met in my entire life... hes an amazing poet and an amzing thinker an amazing artist and an amazing human being... hes here to do so much he jsut doesnt believe me! How do I get him to believe me?

[Φρανκομβριτ]

read the one in twpr james posted. it'll give you ideas.

[AC.wAkeBoArDin.06]

this is tough over the internet, but basicly... show him how much it would hurt you and everyone else...this may sound terrible but give him the guilt trip. Tell him how depressed ud be because u failed and thought u could have stopped him.... and be like, id be scarred forever knowing i killed someone... then if he says its not ur fault... say, no matter what u say, im involved. And i will never forgive myself. That may sound wrong but it may be the only way :?

[RunAwayMolly]

this is tough over the internet, but basicly... show him how much it would hurt you and everyone else...this may sound terrible but give him the guilt trip. Tell him how depressed ud be because u failed and thought u could have stopped him.... and be like, id be scarred forever knowing i killed someone... then if he says its not ur fault... say, no matter what u say, im involved. And i will never forgive myself. That may sound wrong but it may be the only way :?

i was telling him that earlier and he was like "no, its my time to go" and "i wonder what they will say when they see me like this"

[RunAwayMolly]

he wants people to see him dead and to be sad hes gone

[-Silence]

I'm sorry Molly, I wish I knew something to say that would help, you already did the thing I was going to advise you to do. You told him how much me meant to you, and how much you would miss him. But he seems to want that, so I don't know.

"i wonder what they will say when they see me like this"
I don't get that though, if he's gone, how will he know what other people say or do?


Is there any way to get him to realize how amazing of a person he is?

[DeAd To ThE wOrLd]

Actually the guilt trip rarely works. Maybe just getting him to talk about things when he's at his lowest will keep him from ending his life. Then maybe you could put forward the idea of professional help when he's not so low.

[Pink-Floyd]

I dont get it,

[r0x0row3nd]

just dont let him do it just keep telling him that hes important to a lot of people and that hes loved by a lot of people along the lines of that i hope he doesnt end up dieing gl srry thats all i got