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Roses_Are_Yellow
March 18th, 2011, 11:28 PM
I'm so confused... I know I'm straight. because I have an emotional attraction to guys (and sometimes physical) but once in a while, I get the same feeling for someone of my own gender..... I know I'm straight though. Just wondering, am I just curious or something?

ohsnap
March 19th, 2011, 09:38 AM
I've been in your exact position before.. I had an emotional 'crush'/attachment to one of my friends for over a year (i was in grade 9) and it got me so confused about whether or not I was bi or straight. It's annoying not knowing yourself and your emotions, but things become clearer with time.

smitty35
March 19th, 2011, 02:04 PM
I am kind of in the same boat as you, I have "liked or been attracted" to 2 guys for years now. Anyway I am str8 curious and I think you are too! :-) good luck

Dalman
March 19th, 2011, 02:16 PM
I think there are shades of being straight or gay. In my opinion, if you are straight, don't sweat it if you become attracted to the same sex. I think that labels are less important than people. For me, I am attracted to women most often, but sometimes there are exceptions. I like to concentrate on what about the other person causes me to be attracted to them regardless of gender. This is true with friends and those people that I find sexually attractive.