Same Old Same...

[red_light drama]

Ugh i hate not knowing what i am... And Im like every other confused guy out there. I find guys sexually attractive, and sometimes girls, but emotionally, just girls. I think im just like a freakin manwhore, or desperate. I want relationships with girls, but i dont do relationships and im just a flirt, considering i flirt with almost every girl. With guys tho i dont know about wanting to be in a relationship with them, with girls i want one, and i guess im starting to find girls more attractive to me, yes girls haha and a lot more now. But watching gay teen shows or movies just confuses me even more, but im comfortable with the idea. but i think its cause im okay with gay people, except for talking about it makes me a little uncomfortable, i think cause, ugh iono. Im just so confused, i think i might be straight, bi, or gay, any of the three, but at times i dont care for guys except for their bodies, and sometimes im focused on girls i like. Is that it? am i like bi? im expecting people to be like oh its like a phase, which sounds kinda probable now, or like i just havent found the right guy? but i dont know if i wanna be with a guy emotionally... Looking back in my past, i see how i think i knew i might seen where how i knew i had gay moments, but then i have those straight moments like relationships and liking them and their bodies... ugh dont you just hate being a teen. I want to conclude im straight if emotions is main and sexual attraction is a bit less important? or bi just because of the attraction at least? Am i just frustrated with my relationships with girls and thatch why im desperate and have a wandering mind? Anyone have advice?

[Great Perhaps]

I think confusion is a very good place to be right now, even if it's uncomfortable. this is exactly what figuring out your sexuality is all about. it just takes time. you will make mistakes, and the most important thing to do is to learn from them. You'll figure it out, but you have to do it yourself. you'll find someone special, regardless of gender, but it will take time.

sorry that didn't explain very much, or give you any sort of direction towards a definite answer, but that's about all you can do.

hope it helps. :)

[tyler007]

Hey I understand this… and what you are feeling right now… I did it my self not to long ago. don’t rush into anything. I have long thought that I was bi, and I did not know how to deal with it. But in time you well understand too. I hate to use “its just a phase” but for some guys it is… I can only offer you my support, and if you want to talk more just let me know,

[smitty35]

I think that you should take your time to figure out who and what you are. You should really make your FINAL DECISION when you are an adult. From reading all of that, I think you are just str8 curious just like many many other teens. 1,000's of them too!