Getting Ready For.....

[grstl]

Seems like when I mess around with guys it all happens quick and we just get things going. With my girlfriend we have to take longer to really get ready for sex. I am pretty gay inside, but like to please her so I am learning to go slower with stuff.

When you experiment with guys,
how quick is it before you do suff and how long do you go?

When you do stuff with a girl,
how long do you take getting ready and long do you do it?

Is going longer something that increases with puberty or just experience?

Is sex usually better if you take longer. getting ready or doing it?

[smitty35]

I think you take less time to do it with a guy because therer is no risk of pregnancy.
I think you take more time to do it with a girl because there is a risk of pregnancy AND guys can climax faster than girls can. So you are esentially giving her some time.

[Hermes]

Are you doing it with a girl because it makes you happy or because you think it is expected?

Anyway it often takes a girl longer to get going than a guy so you might start by working on getting her turned on and for that you'll want to talk to her to ascertain what does turn her on. That way you're more likely to be at the same point at the same time.