should I trust her?

[insanity]

I dunno what happend to me and my friends, I have stopped talking to them they were the worlds crappys friends any way. It sound like my fault when I saw I stopped talking to them but they dont actually care about me, and I felt worse when I was around them. I heard from my mum that they didnt want to be my friends anymore because I was scary and hard to get along with, which is fair enough nowadays.

anyway... I go to an extremly small school and apart from them there isnt actually anyone else I trust or wanted to be friends with. so i started just hanging out by myself.

But now there is this other girl, she is really nice to me and always comes and talks to me if im by myself, she said I can always trust her if I want to talk to someone. It sounds good, but idk if its to good to be true. she is one of thoose extreamly popular girls who you never seem to know if they actually like you or if they are just being nice, I want to trust her so bad, I would like a proper friend again. But people always seem to hurt me, by saying they are my friend then just being a bitch or useing me, Ive never actually felt that close to a friend before. I want to just go for it and make a friend for once, but im scared it wont work out and it will end up worse then before... what should I do?

[Bmatlman]

I say go for it and trust her. its better than nothing. I used to always fell like that and i started telling my self that i needed to stop getting my hopes up over friends because i cant trust any one. then one day i met some kind of like the girl you described and relised that i could always trust them to be there for me. i was right (partialy, they moved away but we are still in touch) and from then on i always give people a chance. so go for it, she seems like she really is as nice as she seems.

[DannaWrights]

I totally understand you that it's kinda hard to give trust again especially now you said that she is extremely popular, we can't tell if she is being true on making friends with you or is just being dared by her other friends. But perhaps you are just going on a somewhat like paranoia thinking about the same for everyone.